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April 20, 2007, 2:53 pm PDT

Drunk "mom"

I'd like to just say this to the "mother" who drives while intoxicated.

 

You may think you've never injured anyone (yet) by driving under the influence, but you very well may have.

 

I have someone dear to my life who was left paralyzed due to an "unidentified" driver who hit the vehicle he was a passenger in, causing a major accident. According to all the forensic reports the "unidentified" vehicle was traveling at a speed of 90 miles per hour. The "unidentified" vehicle would probably have little damage to their passenger side headlight area. The victims vehicle was destroyed. 

 

What I'm saying is you very well may have caused other accidents by cars trying to avoid being hit by you as you bowled down the road, and you either didn't notice, or didn't care.

 

 

 

 

 
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May 5, 2007, 2:19 pm PDT

You're mistaken when you say...

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DR. Phil,

I realize your job is to counsel couples to help them save their marriages, but come on!!  I think this is what drives me crazy about your show. 

Most of the people who come to your show are in marriages that are beyond saving.  You provide all this professional help so that you can drag it all out for ratings. I am not against the need for the help you offer, but really, offer it to the woman ( or man) to end the marriage not stay in the marriage.  I don't care if the divorce rate is what it is, most of these couples should never have married in the first place. Love does not conquer all, Love alone does not constitute a reason to stay in an unhealthy marriage.  What is your success rate anyway?  Out of all the married couples you have counseled over the years, how many have actually stayed married successfully??

 This is a perfect example.   This guy, Jeffrey, is a lunatic!!!  Jennifer needs to get out and she should have gotten out years ago!!!  She has been beaten down so low, she is a poster child for abused women.  She may not have a bruise on her body, but the abuse she has dealt with is almost worse in some ways. 

I hope and pray that Jennifer will find her way out of this marriage and get the help she needs so that she sees that her love is worth so much more than what this man could ever afford.  She is worth more and it is time she show this to her children.  She is giving them the wrong message by staying in a marriage that is dead.  I hope this episode ends with Jennifer coming on your stage with the self esteem she needs to provide for herself and her children.  Only then will she attract a man that is worthy of her love.

 

"Most of the people who come to your show are in marriages that are beyond saving.  You provide all this professional help so that you can drag it all out for ratings."

 

If you've been watching the Dr. Phil show since the very beginning (and even when he was on Oprah), you would know his theory is that people need to exhaust EVERY avenue possible before getting out of a marriage. He says (clearly, just not in this set of episodes) that people need to "earn their way OUT" so they can have a very clear conscience that they did everything possible, and have no regrets later.

 

Do not get me wrong, I think Jennifer needs to get OUT OF THERE FAST! Faster than fast! And now Jennifer can say she TRIED EVERYTHING.

 

Now she needs a safe haven, and frankly I don't know that one exists. I hope I never read about her in a newspaper or hear of her tragic ending on a TV broadcast. She and the children are in danger.

 

 

 
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September 14, 2007, 11:23 am PDT

YES!!! Take the car, she can keep the phone

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Why does the teen still have her car?  Forget the texting, anyone that has gotten tickets including a speeding ticket, after a few months of licensing, should have the car taken away.

Just taking the phone away doesn't keep her from using someone elses phone.

Take the car away, please.

My exact words to my husband as we watched this show, "take the car, she can keep the phone!!"

My H laughed, "she might fall into a pothole while texting" at least she wouldn't hurt anyone but herself, and she'd get what she deserves.

 

The mother is concerned about taking the phone, in case her daughter "needs her"...fine, if this were my CHILD (and let's remember, mom, she is a CHILD) she could keep the phone, and the texting, but I'd take that car so fast! Take the phone? So what. Then when her friends are in the car she can get distracted by them. The phone isn't the issue here (in my opinion) it's the child with a car.

 

 

 

 
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October 20, 2007, 10:04 am PDT

Danny & Gretchen fan

I'm a fan of Danny & Gretchen's, as well as their two kids.  I know they love their kids, and I truly believe they love each other, they just need to calm down, and learn how to live together in a loving, committed relationship. Easier said than done.

Help them, Dr. Phil, they have a lot to move forward together for.
 
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December 19, 2008, 10:14 pm PST

Name of the volunteer organization

Does anyone know the name of the volunteer organization that was (briefly) discussed on this show?
 

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