Messages By: bailey58

 I saw the previews of this show. Oh come on now. If someone is playing with their food no wonder they don't get a date!
Why are you fixing up these young good looking perfect specimans? What about the rest of us???
But what about us who are over 40? I've done the volunteering route, the gym, the dating services...we meet go for coffee.....and that's it. Or they just want sex, or it's got to where they just look at me and I know....he's not interested. I may be a little overweight but I dress well, have impeciable manners, interesting fun conversation about any subject.....and they either want to jump me or dump me!
The one's I have met online who are interested are hundreds of miles away.....so that's no help.
When do we get a turn at the game? Get to grab the brass ring or in this case gold ring??
Quit helping young and stupid and help us older, interesting ladies!

Everytime this guy shut his eyes, I thought he's going into his fantasyland. Saying whatever needed to be said so that he could hang onto his wife.

I think he'll go to treatment but play the game. Appear to go along and be " a good patient", get back with her then things will get worse.

 

This lady and her children need to be in protective care.

If she wants have some joint counselling with him but in the long run he's not going to change.

Did he give her back her jewellry? Let her go back to work without interferrence?

I don't think so and I don't think he will be able to do it in the future.

 

Dr. Phil get that lady some heavy duty counselling and a great lawyer and the hell out of there.

He's going to play you and the system as being his own victim then go for her in some very sick way.

He's a con and great at it.

You caught him so far, but I've seen too many guys like this and he will fake it all, just to get her back under her control. Then she will end up in a ten times worse position.

 

Please follow thru and get her out and to a safe place with a lawyer and funding to get herself back together and keep her and the children safe.

I really feel before the end of a month, he will be back, crying the blues, but still doing what he did......controlling her totally.

I just got the preview email in from Dr. Phil.

I knew Jeffrey thought he had conned everyone into his victim mode.

I hope he gets his ass thrown in jail for a long time, and Jennifer can move away and start a new life. I don't think in the long run staying with her parents will be totally safe.

 

Move to a new city, state and divorce this nutbar!

 

You deserve better, and real love, not this obsessive nut!

 

Run, Jen, run!

Get yourself a new life and after some counselling a NEW MAN!

I hope now that Jeffrey has violated the restraining order numerous times, he gets charged with each time. That should keep him away from Jenn long enough for her to get her feet back on the ground.

This guy was nuts from the first episode! Closing his eyes when he answered, crying, blaming his wife for his behaviour, then to the last episode where he demands what he wants and when he doesn't get it he runs......how typical of a possessive/abuser.

 

I hope Jenn is granted full custody and a permanent restraining order, sells her house and moves to another state with better stalking laws and some great therapy for her to recover with.

Jenn and the children will all need some therapy for a few months at least. Then they can be strong enough to move on.

 

Jeffrey you don't get it. And you probably never will unless you quit blaming everyone else for your problems.

You did this. All by yourself.

No help was needed by the counsellors or the Dr. Phil show. The more help they gave you the deeper hole you dug for yourself.

You tried to manipulate everyone and everything......only problem was you were dealing with people who know the game and how you play it......so you lost.......everything including now your freedom.

 

Get your butt back to Creative Care and stay until you get it.......even if it takes 6 months!

You have permanently lost Jenn but at least there maybe a chance with another woman ..... someday.

 

 So Chris and Adrian are back on tv again. I watched "My Fair Brady" both seasons, and was surprised when they both went thru with the marriage. There were issues on both sides. Her need to fight and thinking that made for a good relationship ~~ not when your both hitting below the belt! Her not taking responsiblity for her mouth and actions all the time~~ wonder if she ever did quit smoking. On the other hand, Chris acting like the "I'm older so I know better, listen to me he-man"``PLEEZE!!!!!! And you wonder why Adrian is wife #3? or was that #4??
I think they both are enjoying being in the limelight again. Adrian went from, Next Top Model, to Surreal Life, saw a good hook with Chris and went on to "My Fair Brady".....now after 4 years in a row on tv, they are out on their own and unless she goes back to modelling, she's out of the limelight. Not sure what was in this for Chris except some quick money on Surreal Life and My Fair Brady.......only they got married an now have to handle everyday without the cameras on. Maybe post some cameras around the house then they can work their "issues" out!

With the other couples I think if a partner is under 25 to 21, and still living at home, they have no business dating anyone that is so much older....wouldn't want to date them if I was the same age and they were still at home! And I mean male or female ~~ tho what an 18 year old sees in that much older of a woman is beyond me.

My last boyfriend was 10 years younger. He kept me young in alot of ways and was great fun. He had his own house, paid for, his own business all by the time he was 30......when we met. After almost 7 years I called it quits because the one thing he wouldn't change is his drinking and partying ways. He still wants me to come back and live with him now etc. but I've said not as long as he's drinking and not in AA. That was hard to walk away from, to be set for life, and have that kind of love.

But somethings like your sanity are worth more than money or your 15 minutes of fame!

 You may have grown up in Cleveland, but Dog grew up with an angry, racist father, moving on to further grow up with bikers, then jail. He has grown as a person to love God, mercy and humility but the biker/jail talk in him is still there. He deals with convicts/hard nosed criminals everyday so he is going to communicate on their level, so they will listen.

I listened to the entire tape, thanks to the National Enquirer. He explains himself quite well if you actually listen to what the content of his message is and not just get stuck on one word. This was a conversation between father and son, communicating in a language they (Tucker and the girlfriend) knew he would say.
Ask Tucker why he even taped this conversation? He knew what his dad was going to say. And he wanted to get his dad. This is entrapment.

Should Dog use that language? No. But in reality those words are said everyday in jail, by old bikers, old ex-cons, they may have changed in someways but not a 100%.
I saw Dog on Larry King and I felt they were persecuting him, as the "bad celebrity of the week". Made him cry and say he was sorry.....ok can we go back to "bad Paris and Brittany" now?
Come on. Move on already.
This was a PRIVATE conversation his son taped to ruin his dad cause his dad wouldn't do what he wanted him to do.....hire him. Well they say payback is a bitch but this went too far.

I grew up in Canada in a northern Ontario town. When I visited my sister in Texas 2 years ago, I couldn't believe the quiet racism that goes on everyday and neither could she.
When people ther asked if we had black friends back home our answer was no.
Why were we racist? No, because there wasn't any at school, or even in the town we grew up in.
Why is the town racist?.......no in fact they university now has a foreign student program with several Africian countries now., they just weren't here!
It was just when we grew up for what ever reasons, the black population never migrated this far north. Even in upper Michigan they are few and far between still today.
Does that make us all racist? Hell No!
Just never knew of any until I was much older and they moved in town and are great doctors, radiologists, technicans and professors.

Regardless the only exposure we have had has been mainly thru US TV shows. Yes I remember several shows when the blacks/Africian Americans called each other names that if a white person said it would be wrong. I know it confused me as a kid how come it was ok for them to say it and not us. Isn't a wrong just wrong? Or is it ok for some but not all?

Anyway, this was this week's hot celebrity screw up. It's over. He aplogized......I think his son and girlfriend are the ones who owe Dog the rest of the family an apology! And A&E quit being such candy butts and put the show back on! They should have supported their first big star and found out the entire story before pulling the plug.

Now to make a Federal case out of this private conversation turned into public persecution it way out of line for everyone.
Calm down. ......Take deep breaths.....say your a goof for saying that...... and letting your son set you up!
But there are alot bigger problems in the world right now than what a 50 year old biker/bounter hunter says!

Is this poster the real husband in this show? Or just some guy playing along?

I honestly hope it is the husband and he and Karen are getting help they both need.

 

Imagine being a kid with these conversations going on around you?? The sons would end up doing that to women and the daughters would expect to be treated that way. I would hope you want to be better role models for your children.

 

You never talk to you spouse or ex-spouse that way when the kids are around, they learn by what they see and hear. No matter what they are still part of each of you, so when you insult one of the partners you are also insulting your child as well!

 

Grow up!

Is this poster the real husband or someone pretending to be him?

 

If it is the real husband I hope you both get a ton of therapy to stop behaving like this. How can you speak to your wife, whom you supposedly love like that? How can you speak to your daughter like that?

Do you expect she will pick a good mate later in life when you have told her she's not good enough from the age of 4?

 

Children learn to live what they grew up with, so if your belittling your wife, the boy will be doing the same thing to his wife/girlfriends. Your beautiful daughter will pick men who pick on her and verbally abuse her too, cause that's what she's use to.

 

Don't show the children this behaviour. Show they love, kindness, affection, not anger or verbal abuse.

 

Grow up!