Messages By: lidica

What did you do with your hubby for 25th. I took mine to a hotel for three days and cooked for him and kept him in lock down! He really liked that! Still trying to figure out what to do for the 30th. I'm thinking a cruise. I still have yet to do that one! All the good anniversaries I plan my hubby likes to procrastinate and wait until the last minute. Are you married to one of those types?haha

I did read your post and I was tired for you with all you were doing Girl!haha I am the same type always wanting to fix everyone's problems. I'm a Libra and we love to balance the scales. Are you one too? Glad to see you laugh! I used to go crazy when my kids were teenagers I would have the yello pages calling everyone in sight to fix them and they always asked what can I do for YOU!haha That shows you how crazy you can get spreading yourself too thin! Then you are no help to anyone so you remember this!haha

I wanted to write to you again because I know sometimes it's hard jumping into conversations. As you see I blurt in no matter if anyone responds or not I talk to myself. You have to get old as me and realize the world will not stop to wait for your comment you just have to blurt it out and keep talking until someone asks ARE YOU CRAZY? Hey it gets a reaction!haha Anyway I am not making fun of you by no means but just letting you know you can jump in on any subject the board is always open. I've missed some and have to go back and catch up. It is a fast moving board and we mix it up with humor and try not to miss anewbie when we are kidding around on here! So you see you are needed to greet newcomers if you don't want to talk to us Yakkers! This board is a great place to learn how to be assertive you can jump in and jump in and say listen to me and not see one face to see if you are getting a reaction! And if you do get one from the writing keep on yelling go to caps that will get some attention! Many hugs we are all needed not only here but on this earth. God put us all here for a great purpose even when we can't see it He sees how magnificent we are an our potential of greatness. How wonderful to know someone thinks that much that He gave us life to find that out!

I'm glad you wrote back and you are still here. Girl don't you know that God makes no freaks or mistakes! We just lose our way sometimes and do not realize He is there for us and How awesome He is and how much we need Him to find US! Now I was the same way so lost trying to find my purpose for being here. I had to start praying to Him to help me learn to know Him and to believe in Him and trust in Him. I had to learn those things because no matter how many times I watched religious shows and prayed for Him to come into my life I couldn't feel His presence. I was still sad and lost. But then I started thinking how many things I was asking for and how many things I was overlooking I had already been blessed with. Imagine God up there watching us being sad and He is thinking all the things He has already blessed us with that we never give him Thank You's for. When we start sitting down and writing down the list of things we had starting with hands, feet,  eyes if we name all the health issues we DON'T have we will have twenty pages right there. No matter what we have wrong with us there are so many more that could be. This is where we fall into this depression I know it was for me because I was not receiving the things on my WANT list. And you know something Mjkkas there are times I have gotten these things and I went on to the next thing on my list and never gave God thanks for the new things I received. Now imagine blessings flowing around us and we so busy feeling sorry for ourselves we can't see the greatness of our day. Depression will do that you can't see it because your serotin level is too low. But go to doctors get help and then work on what is in YOU that need fixing. As you said we can't blame noone but US for OUR problems. We can't expect the world to fix what we need to fix. Many hugs!

I sure have and have tried to be run off the boards being silly! That just makes me stay on and be sillier! I used to think my messages would be deleted sometimes because I have gotten on a few nerves! I was born stubborn and I love a good word fight.haha Don't care too much for the physical blows I had one of those abusive father figures I guess that's where I learned to be stubborn and not back down to anyone! Lord if I could stand up to him I can to anyone!haha I'm glad I had him to learn from.

Okay someone else has to take over being silly I have done my job for the day and time for me to do some work doing some calls. I have enjoyed all here. Will be back after I make these customer service calls and maybe catch up on what I missed while I was typing away. Hi Labelfree I'm sorry you felt left out here too.  Please all who come here oldies or newbies know that this is not the intent. And if I have made someone feel that way I am deeply sorry and write me and tell me. Please do while I'm on because I don't have the computer sense to go back and find messages. Sorry I am the same way on my cell phone I can't make my brain blow a fuse figuring stuff out. So it is plain ol ignorance of gadgets not disrespecting folks! Hugs Everyone!

Your hubby does some good planning! I'm going to have to get him to help my hubby out!haha  I think the best times are when you are broke and have to come up with some real creative ideas. My hubby and I got married on Valentine's Day so he wanted to marry me every Valentine's Day wherever we were. We got married a few places before he retired from the Air Force. There is always a wedding renewal somewhere on Valentine's day.haha Anyway it has been lots of fun. I have been on a cruise but I was working it as a waitress now that's no fun!haha Anyway I'm looking forward to doing that and my coworker and I have decided we will do a cruise to Alaska to celebrate our retirement in three years. Well I'd better make these calls because I've been so busy typing I have not kept up with my stats on how many calls I'm doing.haha That's what happens when you play at work! Okay I'm gone!

As someone that rised teenagers too and SURVIVED they will try to put that guilt trip on you when they can't get their way and get angry but one day they will be parents and being stricter than you most of the times. It seems there is more going on thn an angry teenager.  What is going on with YOU! Have you talked to your doctor about how you are feeling on these meds. Sometimes meds need to be changed or adjusted. Some meds can make you even more depressed so you need to talk to your doctor and see what can be done to help you. I am sorry you are going through such a rough day. Sending you many hugs and prayers. This too shall past. God bless you and your family!

I know you have a great belief in books but as was said you can not rethink messages once they are posted and delete so telling people to go buy damn books seem a little extreme don't you think! Hugs and prayers!

Keep that poitive attitude going Girl! Good for you! And do something special with that man of yours to let him know how much you appreciate him too! Have a wonderful evening and I know your little man is having a ball. He'll be gla to be back with his Mommy when he gets back too! Sounds like you've got a sweetie! Hugs and prayers! I'm finished for the day and home out of the heat!