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March 2, 2007, 12:24 pm PST

Katie

Hi Katie, so sorry to hear your family has been sick. I really hope you don't get it!! ..........................................................What a wonderful start, down 15 lbs! You just keep doing the things that got you this far, and you will automatically keep losing!! ..................................................I am on Day 2 of my new "106 Day Pool Challenge". Doing fine, in spite of circumstances. Two weeks ago my shoulder went out, and I am sort "one winged" for now...can't swim or even hardly dress myself. I officially scared myself last week when I was online doing a google search for Lapband surgery. EEK! What was I thinking!?!?! A friend of my hubby had it recently, and is doing well, and I was all depressed about yet another injury, and discouraged. Wow, we can sure get vulnerable at times like those. ........................................................But, I finally sat down and formulated a new "challenge" for myself, in detail. You see, I am allergic to chlorine, and the pool I swim at is a "salt pool". EXCEPT when it gets heavy use by the kiddies...then they "shock" it with chlorine because...well, you know what a lot of little kids do in the pool! LOL! At times like that, I almost can't breathe. .....................................................It dawned on me that come this summer, I won't be able to swim, with the kids out of school, and at the pool all day. And as of yesterday, it was 106 days til school is out around here. I need to be lighter and stronger, so I can switch my membership over to the only other salt pool in town, but which has steeper, deeper stairs into the pool. My legs need to be stronger to go up and down them. ................................................................So, that's my goal! It's a date that I can't mess with, so I REALLY have to follow your excellent example, and get it in gear! :-) I am reducing the carbs, and upping the veggies...watching portions on the calorie-dense stuff. Hopefully, I can get back to exercising before I lose too much progress this time. ........................................................Yesterday I joined a new challenge over at Sparkpeople called Holiday to Holiday Challenge. I liked the way it broke the weight loss into fun little increments..the next one to lose by is St Patrick's Day. They shoot for 10 lbs between each holiday, but I think at my size, I can do better than that. ;-) ........................................................I don't know if they have a "chat" function at Sparkpeople, but they do have Sparkmail, where you can sent private email. .............................................................My Sparkpage is http:// sparkpeople. com/ mypage. asp?id=RETTAKAT (without the spaces...don't think we are supposed to put live links here). ..................................................................Take care, Loretta =^..^=
 
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March 3, 2007, 2:19 pm PST

"That" surgery

I appreciate hearing about the ones they DON'T tell you about...I need that so I can remind myself when I get pressure from doctors and friends to have "the" surgery. Thanks, Beverley, for the reminder. ........................................Loretta =^..^=
 
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March 6, 2007, 2:43 pm PST

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Welcome back, Glennda! ..........................................................I remember you said you were very busy, with 3 kids, two jobs, etc etc. I hope you have been able to find time for YOU in all that. ..................................................One thing I found, at least it works this way for me, is that it takes TIME to work through the book...to do the exercises, to find the answers that work for you, to form new routines and habits. Later things go smoother due to the new routines, but for me, in the beginning, I had to be willing to invest time in ME. I actually put ME on my schedule, made appointments with me....LOL! ........................................................You once asked if anyone had any tips for keeping you on the path...I have one: become a "regular" somewhere, and commit to hanging in there til you get to know people, and build up your circle of support. Real live people are the best!! But if that is not available, then online support is good, too, though it takes awhile to find the right fit, and to get to know people. The main thing is to find somewhere that has like-minded people...you support and encourage them, and they support and encourage you. If you have to, choose a goal and stick to it: I will post 4 times a week (or whatever works for you) no matter what. .....................................................If you can't find an active group here at Dr Phil where you feel you fit (there are other groups here that are very active, just check the message boards under Weight Loss Challenge Discussions) then you might like to visit Sparkpeople (my user name there is Rettakat)..........................................Either way, I know you can do this! We have a great plan in Dr Phil's book...all we need to do is DO it, and never, ever quit. It is not always easy, but it IS doable..............................Best of success to you! Loretta in Oregon =^..^=
 
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March 23, 2007, 12:04 pm PDT

To Glennda

Hi Glennda, I hope you are feeling better by now, physically. As for the comments from your "friend", I thought you might be interested in what Dr Phil said in his book. Remember these? ..........................................................Pg 92: Whatever the situation, you can choose your reaction...How you interpret the events, circumstances, and situations in your life is entirely up to you. ..................................................Pg96: You can't change other people or other conditions, you can change only your reactions to them. ........................................................Pg 98: You and only you choose how you feel. Others may provide an event or behavior for you to react to, but it is up to you to choose how you feel about them. .....................................................Pg 93: ...stop living reactively and begin to choose the right attitude and the right behavior to generate the right results. ................................................................Pg 74: Given your goals, how does your current thinking help you get there? ........................................................Pg 89: You will always be challenged by stressors in your life...but it is your interpretation of and reaction to them that create the emotional pain. ........................................................Pg 230: You must be very careful not to let others in your life deter you from your task of managing your weight. .............................................................Pg 227:...people will either contribute to or contaminate your personal weight control and management. ..................................................................Pg 239:...you must remain resolute in your determination but at the same time try humor, fun and creativity to melt the resistance of those who may not yet be cheering you on. ...........................................................Pg 245: Ultimately, only you and you alone are responsible for getting your weight under control. ........................................................You know ,Glennda, you are on a grand adventure to a healthy new you...and bottomline, who cares what this insensitive person thinks!?! ..............................................................Enjoy your journey, Loretta =^..^=
 

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