Messages By: renagade

I have heard enough Psyc Profs says that if you think you are something - then your not!! - It's when you deny that anything is wrong with you - then maybe something might be.  The other problem is don't psyco-psamatic yourself, in other words, don't read a definition or think you might have it, because your psycie will tell you you do have it. 

You are right about the rock bank concerts, I myself have been to enough of them and my hearing has suffered over the years.  Ok you were a stripper.  True some people look upon this as horrible, but I have seen enough documintaries on people that strip - and it's divided into those that feel they have no other choice, and those that feel totally comfortable with themselves.  Now what you have to do is Quit worrying and start using your brain. 

I know that you have intelligence and are good to excellent at something.  Get in contact with yourself and take stock of yourself. 

                                                                            Rog 

When you run amok for a few days in a row, ya need a shutdown day.  It isn't strange at all - it's normal, common.  Remember Marcia - the body was also designed for rest, not to keep going in 4th gear 24/7. 

The reason your making such great strides is that your living a simplistic - where as I said it before 'you have got to come in contact with yourself so that you know who you are, and by doing this you can achieve anything'.  Some people however cannot comprehende this - you can - so one up for you. 

R 

Will you start using the piece of anatomy that is covered with hair and between the ears, and stop worring about what people says - remember some people always have to have something to do. 

                                                                         Rog 

The way those moms treat their kids is abjectly Stupid.  I wish Phil would have come down on Deb harder than he did, but he did set it right when she is the cause of her daughters problems. 

As for people who get ahead - I feel it falls into two areas - those that have the looks/body and those that have Confidence in Themselves.   I do not mean self confidence, I mean Confidence in Themselves.  These are people that march right in announce who they are and either take care of what needs taking care of or get done what needs getting done. 

I continuelly remind myself of the salesman at the turn of the last century - James Brady or as he was known - Diamond James Brady.  If what I heard was true he was 5'10" and weighed 300 lbs.  He however did not let his weight detract him from conducting business.  His calling card was the diamond pinky ring - and the fact that he signed a customers glass window with it. 

I agree with everything Jenoc said.  This 'punk' thinks he's hot stuff, and your daughter probably like it.  Some girls at that age like boys who think they know it.   

Now why in the world are you and your husband letting this punk yell at you and tell you how to bring up your daughter.  Your supposed to be the adults and not be bullied by this kid.  The more you let this punk push you two around - he is scoring points in your daughters eyes!!!  Call this kids parents and let them know whats going on and that you have had it with him. 

When you two stand up to him, your daughter will at first scream and yell, but as Phil says - she has to have a 'soft place to fall'. 

Jenoc is right - she has no self esteem and I'll bet she's starving for attention and affection. 

I meant that you arenot the problem - they are.  When I said see a counsler, what I meant was that you need help in what your going thru, you need to vent, you need support, you need someone on your side. 

Please don't take this the wrong way.  When you say 'all I want is Peace - this is what my mom used to say - and I finally realized that she was the type of person who couldn't handle, loud voices and what some people call getting it on or having a 'rousting time'.  What you are being subjected to is mental, and spiritual abuse.  You do not deserve it.  If you have any lifelines - use all that you have. 

Take Care and Keep Yourself Safe. 

You haven't had a post in a week. 

R 

Ok you have fallen back, and I agree it is a nasty place to be.  Just don't continue to torture yourself about it.  Remember you are a human being, and as humans we tend to do this.  Remember in an earlier post I think I said life is going to happen.  Do you think that you are trying to fast. 

You are right that you have to have a heart to heart with yourself because I feel that when we listen to and get in touch with our heart we not only will get stronger, but that that will give us the strength to overcome what those scripts are telling us.  If you don't like what's written about you - You have the power to change it - don't give your power away.  I have been told that fear is the result of ignorance - not knowing - let you heart and your intelligence be your guide. 

                                                                             Rog