Messages By: zimexlady

Quote From: dearcomet

I have pets, have had them all my life, but they are pets.  My cats (10 of them) catch and eat mice, my dogs, (3 of them) chase, catch and eat possum, snakes, cow poop, and anything else they can get in their mouths, never mind roll in.  We have to remember that no matter how much we love our pets, they are still pets. They live different lives than us, their priorities our different from ours.....no matter how much we love them, they are still animals.....(no opposable thumbs)

Quote From: mzrave

What is wrong with this girl and her dogs.  How old is she?????  She is acting like a child and she definitely has issues with real relationships.  Why would this guy Ken put up with her crap for two years?  He seems like a level-headed, decent guy.  Don't get me wrong.  I love animals and grew 

up on a farm with lots of pets.......indoor and outdoor pets.  My animals are very important and are 

considered part of the family, in my circle of friends.  Of course, I put my pet's welfare first, but not 

to the exclusion of a social life or a significant other.  I would never get rid of my pets for anyone,  

however, I would do my absolute best to find a suitable compromise, if necessary.  Of course, I would also never get involved with someone, friend or relationship, who didn't at least like animals. 

I don't trust people who "hate" any animal.  We are all God's creatures and yes, there is a pecking order, yet we all need to respect all forms of life on this planet.  This girl needs to get a life....and some seriously counseling.   

Quote From: irishmom

Most people don't let their dogs pee and poop all over their house.  I have a dog (a Golden Retriver) and she's very clean.  Are you suggesting that people not walk on a floor that a dog has sat on?  I hope you don't have children! 

Quote From: sharonrgb

My father cheated on my mother for years it began the night I was born so of course my mothers family blamed me and I also blamed myself, specially as a teenager.  After all if I had not been born my father would never have cheated on my mother.  I realize now this is not true, but the damage was done. Confronting my father with the truth would have gotten me told to mind my own business. And what is learned in the family and happens in the family stays in the family. 

  

My first two husbands cheated on me, I walked out of the marriages.  I didn't want a man who would degrade, demoralize, his family.  Yes I have a son! I would not permit him to be teased in school like I was.  

  

You have got to tell Charlie, that the scars he has inflicted on his family will be carried though out their lives, no amount of I'm sorry will change what he has done.  I am 57 years old and I still carry scars of my fathers actions, and it has impacted my life.  I will not tolerate a cheater, I have no respect for a cheater, it's why I would never cheat myself.  Sharon 

Quote From: breeanne

I also feel that charles is only walking the walk and don't know how to talk the talk , a woman can feel the body language  that a man sends and I have experienced this kind of man before and have walked the other way. I feel that  once you hear or feel  what someone like charles has  to say with a huge ego ,walk away because you will risk your self respect and selfworth and someone like charles can really hurt the core of a mate. Hopefully he is having a real eye opener, but it's hard to change a lepord's spots, so I think if it looks like a duck it is a duck

Quote From: julie42

Wow.  So many opinions on this one, myself included.  It seems to me that Tracy has some self esteem issues, and I know from personal experience that anyone can fall into a trap, reaching a point where you almost believe the BS that a controlling and manipulative spouse/significant other can dish out.  This guy has to be kidding himself, he absolutely does not deserve any kind of chance after what he has done - and to top it off, he tried consistently to justify his position, as if his wife is the one who has to actually consider what this weenie is saying as possibly legitimate!!!   

Tracy,  get out and find yourself!  You are a beautiful woman who has a lot more strength inside than you might think.  I believe you can find peace and happiness - without this relationship.  I don't think he will ever change, not when he has the audacity to say to the entire world that he is "hooked" on the idea of sex with this other woman.  What a load of crap.  Looking at the two of you, clearly you are attractive, intelligent and you care enough to even talk about this.  He had his chance.  Move on!  I wish you the best of luck. 

  

Quote From: mary5045

The only thing wrong with this guy is that he is a very ARROGANT S O B.  You can tell that by the way he even sits in the chair across from Dr. Phil.  I feel like his wife should just call his bluff let him go to the other woman.  It would'nt be long at all before he came to her too and wanted to share her with someone else.  He couldn't even see what kind of pain he was inflicting on his wife because he is the kind who cares for no one but himself !!!