Messages By: chloe7777

I had a tummy tuck nearly two years ago.  I wouldn't say it changed my life.  It did what I expected and wanted...give me the flat stomach I had before children.   

  

I had the surgery because I have worked out for years, after having my children, and I just couldn't get rid of the c-section pouch... or flab.  Would I do it again?  Without question.  I really feel it is one of the best things I have ever done for myself, and undoubtedly, the most selfish.  However, if I only do one selfish thing in my lifetime, I think this isn't a bad thing.   

  

I don't believe in plastic surgery because a person thinks it will completely change their life.  I really feel anyone doing this should have already exhausted all other options, paying attention to the reasons behind the desire for the change.  It isn't a quick fix.  To maintain the results, you really do have to committ yourself to a lifestyle change.  Having said that, I would encourage anyone contemplating surgery to go for it, if it's for the right reasons.  I have no regrets! 

Most plastic surgeons offer financing options of sorts.  I would recommend checking with the practioner's office staff.  Otherwise, do what I did.  I saved for a year before I had the surgery.  It wasn't easy, but it felt pretty good to walk in and pay cash.

Here is what I think.  If you truly don't want the responsibility of a child, and you have had this discussion with your partner then, like everything else, it should be written down and a formal legalized document be implemented to cover the situation.  This way, all parties are clear with each stands and so is the rest of the world in case the courts get involved.