Messages By: yoyoqn

I can't believe Dr. Phil didn't get on Rita very much.  He let Rita and Lisa fight with each other but nothing got resolved.  There is something very wrong with Rita.  First going after a high school boy and then marries him.  Listen towards the end of the show, she said she has a place in her "bed" for Kohl.  OMG, what is that?!!!  She is sick.  Rita also says everyone else is either lying or confused.  I just can't believe Dr. Phil didn't get in Rita's face more.  Lisa and her family are suffering so much, it is so sad.

Fight on Lisa, fight for your family!  Rita needs to go away - like in a mental institution.

I am soo upset right now.  I'm watching is disbelief at Dr. Phil attacking this woman.  He's blaming her for some of her husband's behavior.  THIS IS AN INSULT TO ALL WOMEN OUT THERE BEING MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY ABBUSED!   How dare you Dr. Phil for saying that she has to own up to her part in her husband wanting to kill her.    These kind of comments is why some women don't come forward for help when they are in those situations.  When a woman is being mentally or physically abused, she already blames herself all the time without having someone like Dr. Phil come out and say that it IS.   I've been in the same situation as this model and if I had someone tell me on national TV that it was partly my fault that my husband had thoughts of killing me, I never would have gotten out of that situation. 

Dr. Phil, I hope someone on your staff reads this because I think that what you did today was absolutely unexceptable.  You have 30 yrs experience as you so often remind us, well PLEASE don't blame the person being abused.  Today's show you completely sided with the husband and THAT is NOT the action of a professional.  She should be given the tools and help to leave that type of environment NOT side with the husband and tell her to change her ways. 

Oh my God, I'm watching as I'm typing and you just called her an Abuser!!!!   Dr. Phil WHAT are you thinking?????   You are NOT helping anyone that might be watching right now and in the same situation.  What you are doing is telling all these men that it's OK because it's the woman's fault.

Anyway, I'm so upset right now and I've been a fan of your show for so long but I'm starting to think that you are no longer actually looking to help people.  I think you need to step back and think WHY you are on television and WHY you do these types of shows.  Because today's show was certainly NOT helping anyone other than your ratings.

I'm seriously going to have to rethink watching your show if this is what you have become.

From someone that has been in this woman's shoes and I refuse to believe that it was MY FAULT I went though it.

I think Dr. Phil is being too hard on Heather.   She is in an abusive relationship and has probably been told before they went on stage what she can or can't say or do.   Kevin is an egotistical liar.  He sits on the stage trying to blame his behavior on Heather.   He shows no emotion.  He seems to be a heartless cold man.  She probably knows that if she says the wrong thing she will get the crap beat out of her when she gets home.  She probably has the daughter with her all the time to try to prevent the abuse, hoping he won't do it if she has the child.   This is wrong, but it is her only defense mechanism.  You say get out, do you not know how many women tried that and were hunted down and killed.  Most of these women are told that if they ever leave they will kill them.   He says he just wants to leave or her to leave, if that was true he would just walk out, he wants the fight and probably enjoys it, makes him feel like more of a man.    She needs a SAFE place to go where he can't find her.  If he will beat on her, he will do it to the child, it only takes a matter of time for that to start happening.

She is the 2nd teacher with in 3 years that has been fired from the Glen Rose district for having inappropriate relations with a student.  That teacher went on his way and she should too.

Just because she spent a bunch of money on a high priced lawyer to get her acquited does not mean she's innocent.  For example, we all know OJ is guilty for a double murder, but he was found not guilty in a court of law due to her expensive defense team.  Money can and will get you out of most any jam.