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October 11, 2005, 9:19 pm PDT
What am I to do?
This board is ready for martriager. Well the situation I am facing regards my 17 year old daughter wanting to marruy a 34 year ol man!! I am at my wits end about this. She is the youngest of our 3 kids, her mom and I are diovorced (6 yrs) asnd she lives 500 miles away. This MAN has been living in their home for nearly 3 years. While I was aware my daughter had a boyfriend I was never told his age until it was accidentaly revealed to me last year, and at that time the ags I was given was given was not correct. Only 2 weeks ago diod I discover his true age of 34 and my ex's cavalier attitude toward that fact. My daughter is still slo young witrh very little experience in life. She needs to grow and mature and develop her own unique identity and experiences before making tyhis type of commitment. But hey I'm just dad and don't know anything. I am livid at the deception that I have put through. I striongly resent ever agreeing to let my ex move out of state as my presence would have had a greater impact. Do I have to accept this marruiage? It nauseates the crap out of me realizing a 30 year old man was having desires and affectionts toward a young teenager MY teenager and my ex was encouraging the whole thing. Does anybody have any thoughts? I've already written Dr. Phil in the hope he will choose us to be a topic on an upcomng show, yeyt I realize he gets swamped with ideas everyday and my problem may just be a drop in thebucket. So with the other topics on this board living together before wedding and such I want to add this How Young Is Too YOung For Marriage? Together with How do you tell a perv to get away from your kid when the other parent thikns it's just grand? Frustrated and angry? You bet I am. (sorry for all the typos for some reason I can't use my backspace to erase the,M)
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