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My mother was always but it got worse after my dad passed away when I was grown.  It was so bad there were most of the rooms in her house you could not even enter.  I feel sad for those children in that situation.  I always remember cleaning when my mother was at work.  I felt responsible for my mother.  My dad and I tried through things away when she would bring things home from work.  It was horrible.  I think she must have had OCD.  I don't think any child should have to live in a situation like that.  It's better to take them out of the home until the parents is ready to receive ongoing therapy and medication. I keep pictures of my mother's house to this day, 10 years after the last time we cleaned it up to remind myself how bad it was so I won't ever get that bad. It truly is very sad.