Messages By: hsfred

Merry Christmas Dr. Phil, Robin, and Family! 

I thought I'd take this opportunity to finally write and inform you of the news I have been telling all my friends. You're my long lost brother Dr. Phil!! Your approach to life and speaking to people is so much like my Dad's was, and MY resultant beliefs, mannerisms, approach,  and general expectations for human behavior are way too similar to yours! We're practically twins - probably separated at birth.  

I know you have a great sense of humor and will take this in the spirit in which it's intended.......to remember ME at Christmastime! *grin* 

Your Sis, 

Heidi  

  

 I see it happening more and more with every generation and women need to really get their act together.  Women's Lib's original premise was to protest women's status as "sex symbols" and to establish women as equals to men in all aspects of life. I won't even enter into the equality debate other than the one area specific to this topic where women have allowed themselves to sink to the level of men in their now accepted behaviors related to sex.
Women can argue all they want that their quest for an altered body through surgery is to make themselves feel better about who they are and not for men, but that's just absurd. I suppose the tongue piercings which are endured through a period of pain is for some type of self-fulfilling need as well??
Come on ladies...you've got yourself squeezed into clothes a 10 yr old would have trouble wearing with body parts fighting for liberation. You risk your own health with you-name-it diets, you  mutilate your bodies with piercings and tattoos. You  allow use of your bodies thinking that will convince the guy you're worth it, and more and more - the trend now because you can afford it is to buy a body that someone else creates and says little about who is exclusively you.
I have worked with men most of my life and being more of a buddy to them then someone who wanted to catch them put me in a position to learn an awful lot about the nature of the beast. And believe me ladies.....no matter what you do to please the average man - he will always be intrigued and at the very least tempted to try the next little piece of candy in the box.
Men with beautiful wives or girlfriends commonly  stray  so please get the message that you are just catering to their desires by changing your appearance and behavior trying to attract and/or keep a man.
It's about time women looked to purchase a bottle of self-respect and true liberation by observing who you are as a person and making a few changes to that to strive to be the best individual you can be and impress the same upon your children. And best as a person is not achieved through money, social status, or physical structure.