Messages By: redneon

With much help from Donna(aheemmmm, aplause please) I am back on the board. Now to get caught up and try to use this new set up. I tried to post, but it bounced me out...timer I guess? 

I have gotten custody of Jacob, Stacie will have to go to court to get him back from me. I'm hoping that I can get her to let me adopt him in a few months... 

I ended up back in hospital in late July, turns out that the pnemonia I had in March has really been a blood clot in my lung...yep I've been a walking time bomb....just call me lucky ....LOL 

Mom passed away on the 18th of Aug, it was terrible going to the hospital and sitting with her for 8-10 hrs a day and watching her slip further away....she always said that my Dad and brother Ron were holding their foot in the door of heaven waiting for her,,,I guess theres one heck of a party goin on up there right now. I held it together till the funeral on Sunday, then I lost it...poor Norm, he couldnt' even console me. 

Doug(brother) and I are trying to go thru her home and sort and sell and give away. He's hoping that he can sell the place furnished right down to the TP on the roll. What a job, so depressing. 

I hope everyone is good, I'm going to go and try to catch up on what been happening and post this before it disapears again.... I'VE MISSED YOU ALL SO MUCH......HYBTL??????????? 

I know I'm on drugs, but even I can't figure out what your new picture is of?????????LOL 

New beau? marriage????? Now I really do have some catching up to read here~~ 

new site....LOL 

How long before you get timed out when posting???? 

I think I need a bell beside my hard drive..............LOLPMP 

Kathy- I’m using your advice and typing on Microsoft Word and then posting, a two handed bonus,cause now my spelling won’t be as bad either…. LOL  plus its so much easier with Jacob interrupting me to change the channel, he hates Barney,,,hey the kid has good taste what can I say…LOL 

Hope your summer is going well, sounds like your having a good time. 

JP- Yes it’s the Lupus that is causing me all the problems.  I’m still not feeling better though unfortunately. I can’t get rid of the pleurisy in my lungs, the pain is awful, but I try not to breath to deep or sneeze….ouch! They tell me that the pleurisy goes with the Lupus so I may have it for a while and then get it back again.  I am on blood thinners for life now, I have something called Anticardiolupin antibodies that makes my blood like cottage cheese.. took a week in the hospital to get the dosage all straightened out, if I keep this up I’ll have a name on a bed there…LOL 

The worse part is now being on blood thinners, I can’t take anything for pain when I have another good flair up…except narcotics and I really don’t want to get started on that stuff! If its not one thing then its another..  CPP doesn’t think that being in constant pain when you move an inch is grounds for disability pension,,,I have to be “ chronic, long term disabled , degenerating health and dead in ten years doesn’t count with them I guess. Now who would hire me I have no idea, it takes me till noon most days to be able to get showed and dressed, and by then I just want to crawl back into bed and sleep. I guess I have a fight on my hands with them. 

Oh, I so know what you Dad is goin thru. Although I don't have 2cents in the bank and haven't had any income since March, apparently its common for CPP to turn everyone down and then you have to appeal and fight for what you've paid in to it over the many, many, years of working your asz off. 

The day the lady called me, was the day after Mom died, and I almost took a strip off her and wanted to asked her if she even knew what Lupus was!! Since more than likely I will be dead or on dialysis from this medication in 10 years time and they won't have to worry about paying me any disability at all...................but I held my tongue,,,but their day is coming and I will be flapping up one side of them and down the other. 

It shouldn't be this hard to get something your intitled to!  Tell your Dad to strap on some sh*t kickin boots and go for a walk....LOL 

Take care Kelly  

You seem to fit right in here with the rest of us at AH. And any friend of Taps is certainly a friend of mine....LOL 

If I read your posts correctly, you are from  Canada, I'm just down the eastern coast from you, perhaps you can tell that from my accent... oh, just a sec-, about, touque ,,there, did you pick up the accent now,,LOL 

HITYL is "Have I told you lately", it gets used alot around here. There are a few others but my brain is still slow this morning so I am at a loss to give you any examples and well, I can be long winded and hate to have to re-write this post all over again. 

I'm 49 next week, diagnosed in Jan with Lupus, currently not working, just got custody of my oldest grandson Jacob, living with my significat other Norm for 3yrs almost 4 now and that just sums up my life at current. Take care and keep posting, luv your sense of humour in your posts........~Sue 

Good gawd NO, don’t reveal the prostitute incident to any future girlfriend.  They will run for the hills thinking you’re a no good dog (which doesn’t sound to be the case).

You can say that you have had a couple of sexual experiences and leave it at that. Most women don’t want to hear any details of previous sexual experience from their boyfriends,,,it just leads to problems with them trying to see if your comparing them to what you’ve already had.

 If someone does press the issue, then just tell them that it’s the “past”, and its going to stay that way…that you would much rather concentrate on the future, with them…  

If you want to get some “experience” on how or what a woman likes during sex, ask the one your with at the time, be open to communicating… does she like having this touched and soft or hard, slow or fast, does she like her nipples touched etc, etc, if you ask, women will tell you the truth…we don’t want to have something done to us that is irritating or a turn off,,,,,what would be the sense of having sex if we aren’t going to enjoy it some?  Get a good book or ask any questions here on this board, I or others here will fill you in best we can… Good Luck ~Redneon

LOL, I never thought about it having a double meaning. 

I see your having a good time this summer boating and such, I think I have caught up on the posts now so I can keep current. 

Is Erin ready for school?  Better still are you ready for her to go back to school.  I know I'm going to cry next year when Jacob goes to kindergarten.LOL