Messages By: sundeigo

The government will take all those houses!!!!! What do you call it? Inmenint domain, sorry about the spelling. The poorest of the poor will not go back to a house in New Orleans, let alone their own. The government is recieving all kinds of help for the disaster but believe me it will not go to the victims 4 sure. They sat on their asses and let those levey's break while Bush was on vacation out here in SUN DIEGO he caused a jam on our freeways i should know. New Orleans was already under water and what did our president do, eat cake. He has his friends with no credentials to even be the fema director. I guess it's all about who you know and how much money you have. You would think in today's world nobody in America would go hungry nor go without but they do and that must be changed, take care of America first then the world. I am appauled at the goverment, I feel a civil war is going to take place, I feel the people have had enough. Finally the press and TV are talking about him in a way i have never heard before a big WOW!!! Freedom of speach is here finally. Those people will never get there houses back and the rich will get richer and own New Orleans. Politics, hey, just watch what happens, all keep your eyes and ears open. THE GOVERNMENT SUCKS! SO DOES BUSH! 

I am a parent and responsible for raising my child. It is also my repsonsibility to teach values, morals, and consequences of behavior to my child. I sent my child to a Private Christian School where Abstinence was only taught. I as her Mother was to teach her what they did not. My Daughter was 16 going into her Senior Year. I raised her with consequenses to her behavior and when a situation comes in life think of the good and the bad. So that when you make a choice the consequence would be your's to recieve and hopefully learn from during your life itself. I  taught my daughter about life, I taught my daughter about sex, since as a parent children always listen but do not always take your advice I kept talking consequences of behavior in any area of life decisions from a very small child. When my daughter and I talked about sex we discussed everything even though some things were like yuck to her she was going to here it and my answer to yuck was well you shouldn't be having sex if you can't talk about it. I was very open about sex since school was not. I told her that as her parent as with all pregnancies, std's ect aids, i wanted to teach her all she must know. I told my child that if she really thought that she was ready for sex this is what the procedure is. You should make and appointment with our doctor and since you sixteen with my permission you will have a pap smear a vaginal check-up so to speak down to every last sentence so when you want to go just make the appointment. There is the pill and condom's if a man says he doesn't have one, you should if you are responsible to have sex and all that comes with it not only the excitment , enjoyment, Children, Std's plus here goes again consequences of your behavior. I cannot be with you 24-7 but i was a parent that wanted to know where when, whom, sure you can stay out till prom is done, yes if you do drink or are a passenger in someone's car that is drinking please dont' hesitate at all to call me in the middle of the night because as your parent your safety if of utmost concern for me as it should be for you my daughter. As well as with sex if you are going to do this then you need to know everything. I went as far as to say you may want to use a vibrator to know what and orgasm is. So you know that they are pleasing you, not only them cause there is more to sex then wham bam, thankyou mam. My daughter is a wonderful child at 23 years of age. She is on her second new car in life, is a pharmacutical techinician and got all  she know's from me cause she didn't go to college she worked her hour's to become what she is today. I wouldn't trade her for the world. A dedicated mom, NOT in School but we have planned parenthood and as a parent you need to make the need met whether it be condom's and pill's for you daughters or son's it is your responsiblitly to send them out in the world pre-pared. Parent's are responsible in the teachings of not only abstinance until you are ready but when you are MOM is here! 

 I must say no matter what age, do not let the kids get caught in the middle. My Daughter is 25. My Husband, her Dad, cheated on me after 27 years of being together. He could not talk to her enough as to not be the bad guy, an make it my fault. It's all ok.  I did not go that way, as my daughter called and said, "What did you do to Dad now". I refused to put her in the middle especially since she felt it was my fault. I felt no need to explain, nor involve her. She has heard all her life what her Dad called me, C word, MF, B, you name it, but she seems to forget. I need not remind her either, just to make my point. We need to keep them out of our mess.. though my X did not think so, needed to make me a reason for the season. I wil not talk badly about her Father to her. I refused to talk and she said then she will just have to listen an believe Daddy. O Well!!!!! I will not drag her into this, nor talk to her about why what nor if only. I did not deserve to be treated that way by my Husband nor anyone for that matter, So I got a lawyer and got out. I took care of my family, was the accountant, child bearer, sitter, as all women do w/o pay do for our families. I  raised my Daughter, must say i did a great job, or did I? I thought she respected me, but when divorce was here I thought she would put her Dad in his place, without a word from me, but I will not disrepect her by speaking badly and telling all as to Why nor What Dad did ? So I let it be, when she wants to believe her Dad, I must step aside, let her grow up but what she doesn't see for herself, not I, should put it in her mind. She has a Father an Mother for life, we are only two parents , though separate lives now.  I pray all in good timing she will come around. She parrots her Dad, a mimic, cause she heard it lived with it, left it. I just hope all woman remember to put themselves first, then other's. Cause in the end, I am without, I just hope my Daughter doesn't choose a man like her Dad. But it's her choice to believe him and treat me as she wants. If you love them let them go, hopefully she will come back. A MOM with a child in the middle.