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I think he is right. she should get a job and know what it is like to earn that money.  He may have been a terrible husband. She should have gotten out of the marriage.  She says her kids are moochers.  She is the biggest moocher.  This woman seems very depressed to me.  She should spend the money on therapy and pull her life together.  If I was her husband I would cut her off totally.  Has this guy ever stopped to think , I could drop dead and never have had a day to enjoy for all the hard work.. The worst of this is that her kids dropped out of school.  This is unheard of in this day and age.   Shame Shame Shame.  She is perpetuating her sickness on the kids.like I say, kick her to the curb, let her live in a dumpy apartment until she has gotten a job.She won't have time to shop. P.S.  She could return and or sell what she has in that house and have the 100k paid off asap.!  Better yet, take away her car.  I doubt she'll want to walk the miles each day to the mall and back with all those packages.

 I watch faithfully from the day the show came on and I was really disappointed today.  Firstly, I believe, unlike Gloria Allred, that this paternity trap is rampant throughout our country.  It absolutely defies common sense that a man would be held legally responsible for supporting a child that is not biologically his. To use some sort of wishywashy law that says you have a certain period of time to question paternity or too bad is ridiculous.  The issue of paternity is completely seperate from being a father.  I would fight with the men to put a law on the books in all states that allows anyone to get a paternity test and be released from child support once it was determined he was not the father.  In the case of fatherhood, that to me, is a different matter.  Each circumstance is different, but I believe the man should have full rights to visit or continue to be a "father " in the life of the child if it is in the best interest of the child and father.  This can be done without a legal requirement to pay child support.  Next time-rethink Gloria Allred. She was unprepared and quite the opportunist. I resent that she came on to push her book .Imagine, turning this into a forum on fathers that don't pay child support- Dr. Phil-you were bought hook,line and sinker.