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August 9, 2005, 2:09 pm PDT

Just wanted to say...

Ann I am very happy for you that you have not lit up in over days!  yeah!!!!!!
 
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August 10, 2005, 9:34 am PDT

Breastfeeding, etc

I breast feed 2 out of three of my children.  Not often did I need to feed while I was in public, but the times that I did I used the nursing room at the mall.  Just so I was more comfortable chair wise!  You gotta do what you gotta do.  However I do believe you should be discreet about it, ie: use a blanket.  I am not the type to let eveyone see my body, I used a blanket at home as well.   

  

I was just waiting for my first coat of paint to dry so I thought I would post!   

  

Sounds like a wonderful province to live in (NB) Can you send me some pototoes?  Better yet, lobster!  I have only tried lobster once, and that was last summer I had a piece.  It was yummy!  One day I will have more!  LOL 

  

  

 
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August 10, 2005, 1:18 pm PDT

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tray all  you do is if you are answering a reply to something click on quote button that way you see what they wrote as you are answering their post.its not that hard.if you want to post your own post just click on post a message instead.thanks alot.cathy

Oh I know how it works, but it took me awhile to find the other button, :post a message:  I figured it out, but what I was saying is I think their are some others that don't understand.   

  

Thanks though!  take care! 

 
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August 10, 2005, 9:53 pm PDT

Breast feeding

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I understand what you are saying here about the breastfeeding, I didn't bother to cover myself at home, it didn't matter, it was usually just hubby and me so I didn't really care, even at my parents/friends homes, it depended onwho was inthe room and all as I realize that some people are uncomfortable with it. But in public, well, that was a different story, I really don't want to expose my self to every tom, dick and harry out there, but I surely didn't hesitate to feed my girls. As far as the lobster goes, I know this might seem a bit petty but I can't stand the thoughts of anything being cooked alive so I won't eat it, kinda gives me a yukky feeling for some reason. I kow I am wierd. gotta get off this thing, gotta lot to do today.........

I was sorta the same if I was at home alone I didn't care if I covered, but My oldest son was 10 so I covered up around him.  Yes it depended on who was around.   

  

I know what you mean about the loster to, kinda of a wierd thought!  LOL  I just try not to think of that!  I stopped off at a friends one day to pick up my son and they had the lobster crawling on the counter and the water boiling I just had to stay for a few minutes to watch and then they gave me a piece.  It was quite an experience.  To each thier own.   

  

  

 
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August 11, 2005, 6:50 am PDT

Which Latest Topic of Debate Are You Most Passionate About?

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Need to be behind bars for life and made to pay for all the medical and therapy bills. I think they get away with way too much and if one has the desire to take on innocent little kids/teen agers then they do not need to be in society where they can have contact and be tempted to do it again. I was looking at the web site where they list our communities registered offenders and there is at least one that lives less then two blocks from my home and it is an area where we take our walks and all. Makes me sick to my stomach to know that there is a child molester living walking distance to my home. Thankfully, I always know where my girls are and who they are with but to know that these people are aloud to walk free and go on with their lives while others are suffereing through the turmoil that that person caused really does not leave me in good spirits about it. And any one who might disagree with this, well, I have an uncle who molested his daughter years ago, and while he is out walking the streets of Texas now, his daughter, now thirty years old is in therapy for the crap he had done to her, why doesn't he have to pay for the crap that he caused! He took an innocent child and practically ruined her life but thankfully she is smart and has made a good life for her self but she is still under his bondage and he doesn't even know where she is and hasn't since his girls were taken away and put up for adoption, he certainly didn't deserve them, what a coward! And the guy knows better then to come around where I live because every one would know about him, he would have a hard time walking down the street just by knowing that every one knows what he is which every one in the community of a child molester has every right to know. Children need to be safe and free to be children and those who violoate them need to be locked away.

I could not imagine living that close to a child molester.  I sure would have a close handle on my kids!  I don't think I would let them out of the back yard.  Right now, where we live it is a nice small cres. about 20houses.  All the kids play on the street.  (hockey, basketball and bikes) I love living here for that reason.  Everyone is so good about safe driving because they know the kids are on the road.  But if I had a child molester I sure wouldn't allow that!  Some laws need to be changed, mean while the victum is suffering for possible the rest of their lives and the person is roaming the  streets, it is just not fair! 

  

Where my brother lives in an area that most of the houses were recently built, the city built a prostitution house accross the street from the park.  This house is for teenage prositutes to go to for help.  Yeah but they are still using drugs and occassionally turning tricks and their Johns may even possible go their to find their girls.  I think that is sick that the city ok'd something like this right accross the street from a park. 

  

 
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August 11, 2005, 1:26 pm PDT

School Lunches

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My son's behavior changes drastically when he eats artificial additives (colors, flavors or preservatives).  He is on the Feingold Program which eliminates all these things.  We have had great success as long as I have complete control.  When he goes to school, I won't and I don't want to home school.  I don't know what to do.  Most school lunch programs are loaded with junk and additives.  I guess I could start now and try to urge them to make changes.  It would benefit the behavior and learning of all children to take this stuff out of their diet, at least at school.  Many, Many studies show that these additives cause learning & behavior problems.  You would think schools would know this and do something about it.  Maybe I can make them change.  We'll see! 

If the school serves junk, I would attend every school meeting and go to the board and change this.  If the parents want their kids to have junk then they can supply it.  The school should not be supplying junk.  You would think the school wouldn't have chocalate bars and more things like muffins and carrots and yogurt.  You would have to find out what they offer and if they have junk, fight to get it off.  As for drinks you are probably best to teach your children to bring their own drinks.  I would imagine the school serves juice boxes which like you said are full of the crap you don't want them to have. 
 
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August 11, 2005, 2:44 pm PDT

Looking For Birth Daughter

Born December 10th, 1988 In Saskatoon, Saskatchewan CANADA 

  

Name:  Samantha Marie 

Mothers name:  Shelly 

  

Possibly living in BC, Canada 

  

Dad is wanting contact and misses you very much!   

  

 
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August 12, 2005, 6:28 am PDT

Sending my congrtas!

Mario.....hope you get the job!  I love coffee!  However I relate coffee to smoking.  So when I do quit smoking I also have to slow down on the coffee.   

  

Ann.....sorry about your computers.  That really sucks!  Please hang in their with your smoking, you know it gets easier and the strong craings soon disappear!   

  

  

 
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August 13, 2005, 8:28 am PDT

Coffee

Glad you heard back from them!  I hope you get the job!   

  

I know back when I did quit I did cut down on the coffee, and I have actually still cut down on it.  I drink way to much coffee.  A few cups in the morning, and a few in the afternoon a cup after supper and one before I went to bed!  I have this wonderful "one cup at a time" coffee maker.  I stopped using that, as it is to convieniant. 

  

I just fininished painting as well.  I did one bedroom and one wall in the living room.  Looks so much better! 

  

Well we are having a garage sale agian today.  getting rid of some junk!  Got rid of some yesterday.  ($65, I sold some stuff dirt cheap!)  Just to get rid of it! 

  

chow for now..... 

 
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August 13, 2005, 5:55 pm PDT

Co-Parenting

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I am the mother of three children, 17,15 & 12. While the youngest lives with me, the older two live with thier father. he allows them to smoke pot in the house (whether he is home or not). I'm afraid my youngest will want to join them and thier friends. Calling child protective services seems to be my only option, but I'm not sure that will help our relationship. When I told my ex I planned on drug testing my youngest when she came home, he told her to drink lots of water to flush her system out. Any suggestions 

I would not allow my kids to go their.  I would take the other two and have them live me.  I would tell your X how you feel on this.  And tell him what you are thinking of doing, I don't care if it would wreck your relationship with your X or not. Think of your kids. 
 

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