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November 25, 2007, 11:43 pm PST

Ultimately, it's the MIL who should Grow up & apologize

 Ultimately, I'd say it is the MIL who should grow up and apologize, after all, she is SUPPOSED to be the older and wiser one.

I sympathize with the DIL because I too had the MIL from HELL.  My MIL tried to break up her son & I before she even met me or knew anything about me.  Some mothers are like that.  I suspect this one is as well.  My MIL did the same thing with my husband's older brother's wife before he married her.  She trash talked her to his brothers and tried to make her look bad.  My husband realized something was wrong with his mother when he saw her doing the same thing with me when he knew I was a good person.  She did everything she could to try and stop our wedding.  Tried to talk us out of marrying, when that didn't work she tried to talk us out of a church wedding, she just kept trying all different angles to stop us.  She tried to withhold her side of the family guest list.  She came to the wedding but made a big show of not looking at me when I came up the isle.  She didn't give us a wedding gift.  My husband ended up cutting contact with her completely due to her behavior towards me. 

A very import question that needs to be asked is where is the father of the Groom in all this (and the father's side of the family)?  I think that that could be a strong indication of what the MIL is really like. Why hasn't the father and his family been around... is the MIL such a witch that they too have cut communication??????
 

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November 26, 2007, 5:27 pm PST

What about the Father of the Groom?

A very import question that needs to be asked is where is the father of the Groom in all this (and the father's side of the family)?  I think that that could be a strong indication of what the MIL is really like. Why hasn't the father and his family been around... is the MIL such a witch that they too have cut communication??????
 

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November 27, 2007, 2:39 am PST

How have you seen both shows?

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First, I have watched both shows. And would like to take Michelle and put her over my knee-I think she is a brat and Jay is blind by love(lust)  Now, for the questions for Jay:

  Why would you want to marry a immature girl that hates your Mother?

  Do you hate your Mother too-you act like you do?  Your Mother is your responsibility to make and keep the peace.  If Michelle does not like your Mother ,then You and You only talk and visit with her. Like Dr Phil said" you have a place for your Mother and a different place for your,now wife"

 Unless I hated my Mother I would never marry someone that hated her ,and did not want her to come to the  my wedding . My Mother , who now rests in peace ,was a difficult person, but inside her was so much love and care that  weighted more than the difficult part of her.

  And do not dare , withhold a grandmothers love for her grandchildren. Take the childen alone ,to see grandmother, if thats what it takes ,until Michell egrows up..The children too ,will pay the prce if you withhold your children from their grandmother.

   You will regret it later, after it is too late if YOU do NOT fix things. It is NOT all your Mothers fault, you have a part in there too.. Look ,where you could have done things differently. First : tell Michell to calm down and have some respect for your Mother.. for she is your blood  and if she loves you she needs to love your Mother too..,or at least be respectfull and polite....And to cut up the roses your Mother sent-is NOT acceptable....

 

  And to Jane:

 it looks like you have made great efforts to change.  Bless you.  Now, take a few steps back and leave Jay and Michelle to themselves.  Do not call, email, or send them anything. Be silent.  You have other family and friends that love you , so for now ,give them alll your love and attention. And wait to see if Jay will stand up and be a man and show some respect for his Mother-you , even with your faults.  Good Luck. I will remember you in my prayers-all four of you(Michelle's mother too)

I'm curious how you have seen both shows when you wrote this on November 26, and Part 2 isn't being shown until the 27th?  Do you get some sort of special early broadcast?
 

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November 27, 2007, 3:05 pm PST

Jay and Michelle and even Jane

Jay and Michelle and even Jane --- If you are reading this,  I think you need to realize that most of these comments are being left by mothers who are putting themselves in Jane's position...  Not realizing that they may or may not be as possessive and domineering as Jane is.  So take these comments with a HUGE grain of salt.  

Those of us who have had  MILs like Jane can understand your situation and not be so JUDGMENTAL.
 

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November 29, 2007, 1:43 am PST

Reason Son is Hiding Face

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Yes, where is the father of the Groom?  Where is the father's side of the family?  I sympathize with the DIL and Son.... that MIL is mean and so is her sister.  Why is the son hiding his face?  I would like to know.  I don't think she raised a well mannered son....
 Dr. Phil said in Part 1 of this show that the son's face was being hidden because of the job he was in that his face had to be hidden... maybe law enforcement... who knows.
 

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