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March 20, 2006, 3:02 pm PST

Susie

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HOPE YOU ARE ALL WELL ,SOME OF US DOING A BIT BETTER THAN OTHERS BY THE SOUND OF IT ,WELL I AM SURE IT WILL ALL BE TURN ABOUT FACE BY THE END OF THE WEEK ..JUST SO LONG AS WE CAN COME HERE TO FRIENDS WHO UNDERSTAND HOW WE FEEL ...THATS MOST IMPORTANT ,,(oops just looked up ...sorry about the caps ...! i wanted to come & tell you all that i have made a monumental effort (again!) to get my head & butt going in the sort of same direction (hope you understand that !not sure i do !) anyway i have dragged myself back to slimming world ..and lost 6lbs ...for the first time in a while i am now under 12 st (14 lbs to the stone !)..things can only get better !!!right ?...well let's hope so ,as my friend Lesli said "at least we dont give up !lol,John & the girls are all following my healthy eating plan ..John & i being the ones who need to lose the weight ,both girls are great ..so shall keep you all informed as we go ..for those feeling a bit down ...dont be too hard on yourself ..we are all only a handfull or mouthfull  away from temptation ...Love as always Susie xxxxxx

   I just love it that your family is showing great support for you. Sort of hard to cheat when the whole crew is watching your every move.  

   Here in Canada our stones are much bigger, so we call them rocks. (o.k. I already figured it out, and I am not funny) Haha at least I am trying. 

   I am so happy for you, what a great feeling to have broken a personal record. Keep up the good work. 

  

                                                    Love ya. Beverly 

 
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March 21, 2006, 5:59 am PST

Susie

   Gosh girl I really do think that you have said it. The all or nothing, I am sure that that is my problem. When I think of it, that is how I treat housework even. I never go in and just dust, I have to move every thing and rearrange as I go. Then I get upset when things get out of control. 

   Your light bulb moment seems to be shedding a whole lot of light out here for the rest of us. I will make a point of planning ahead to do a little work on me each day and practice the same on my house. Maybe our all or nothing idea is coming from our training (if something is worth doing it is worth doing right.) where we expect to see instant results of our hard work. 

   Now is a good time to admit that we are getting older and we are a little slower at things we do. However we are still young enough to know that we can do it. 

  

                                                                                        Love ya. Beverly 

 
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March 31, 2006, 7:32 am PST

Good Morning All!

   Oh it is so great to see a challange going again. I am in! I would like to get back to dropping at least 1/2 pound a week. Yes I know I can do better but hey, I haven't lost anything (weight wise) for about 6 months. 

   We have a large family reunion planned for the July long weekend and I was not going to go, however my kids sent in the reply that we would all be there. So I really, really need to get my butt in gear, I just hate being that fat relation when most of the others are all slim.  

   Dare I say that I too am a smoker and now would be a good time for me to quit. My house is the only place that I can smoke inside. Also I am the only smoker in my family. I can imagine all the comments that I would have to put up with, going out to B.C. in July with 10 nonsmokers. 

   Hope everyone is well on there way for this new goal. 

  

                                                                         Love ya. Beverly 

 
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April 1, 2006, 5:29 am PST

Karen

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Ready set and GO!!! Great to see everyone so up for it...I've been working  

on my self talk and will add IE now to it...for the Challenge... 

 

Reen: Glad to hear Machin will have her CT scan Tuesday...give her my love... 

Not making marmalade this year? Fresh juice ...mmmmmmm I'm envious....lol 

Happy juicing... 

 

Sharon, good luck finding the perfect house....and good for you staying within your  

Points and being able to have a treat....doing good... 

 

Beverly/alta: Are you coming near Prince George in July? My door is always open kiddo... 

Hang in there and you'll get to where you want to be...glad you're joining our Challenge... 

 

Well it's late and off to bed I go...have a great night/day everyone... 

Hugs, Karen 

   I will have to look for your door another time. The reunion is at Cobble Hill on the Island.  

   Happy Challange day everyone, yes I remembered and have been up and walk done. Now to start with a glass of water then breakfast. 

   You all know that I work around food every day, so my biggest problem is " to sit down to proper meals". Our meal breaks are at wierd times and I am not hungry then, so by the time I get to eat I have again passed that hungry stage. At work they are getting really uptight about taking the breaks at the proper times. So once again I am back to missing meals. I will have to make a point of trying to eat at least a little something. Breakfast is at 5:30 A.M. Lunch 10:30 for both shifts and Dinner is at 3:30. So wish me luck. 

   Best Wishes go out to all of you that are having a bad time with things beyond your control. 

  

                                                           Love to all. Beverly 

 
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February 13, 2008, 3:48 pm PST

02/13 Behind Closed Doors

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 I can not believe you would even suggest she have a relationship with her mother mothers like that do not care untill you have walked in a rape victims shoes dont give advice.
I am sorry, I thought I watched the same show as you. I guess I missed the part about rape.
 
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February 13, 2008, 4:23 pm PST

redmondc

Thank you for your statement. I too heard the womam say that she had been wrong. and noticed that Dr. Phil and the daughter treated her like she hadn't. I think Robin has a very peaceful  (Donna Reed type)marriage because Dr. Phil can rant and rave at other people during the day to get it out of his system. I truly feel that the mother feels extremely sorry for her part in the whole mess. Why else would she sit there and let Dr. Phile scream at her like he did, while the daughter sat with that smug look?

   I know that even in this day and age stuff is swept under the carpet by the Military. Spme times the member gets a promotion in order to get them off base, because nobody wants to deal with the problem.

 
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February 13, 2008, 4:31 pm PST

Mother looked more hurt than the daughter

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It's not that she didnt say she did things wrong its that she kept playing the victum card. Not once did she say,,baby Im sorry for what happened. She didnt in anyway show any empathy for the hurt her daughter had been placed in .

 

I hope your no longer with the husband that hits you. Nobody deserves that ever!

 

Many Bright Blessings

      Terri

I think the daughter would have been unproachable. She was looking pretty smug that Dr. Phil was giving the mother such a verbal beating.
 
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February 13, 2008, 6:12 pm PST

Have been there

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if u have ever been sexualy abused u would know how easy it is to shut down and how u must shut down to protect ur self from being vonerable and hurt! to tell u the truth she probly had to make her self smile i would not be able to sit and look at a lady whos only job was to proteckt me and all she can do is feel sorry for herself!  i would want to  kill my mother! i would do the same thng i would vary much hope u would get to c how it feels to have to shut urself down to feel safe
Excuse me, why did the girl let it happen until she was sixteen? I left far before that age but I sure wouldn't go on T.V. and air the family's dirty laundry. Maybe you don't forget or forgive but you do move on.
 
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February 13, 2008, 6:45 pm PST

I agree

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I would pretty much say that Heidi could look any way she pleases. She might want to frown, roll her eyes, cry, pout, throw her head back in disgust....after all...she was raped as a child, night after night, while her mother was out and about, doing nothing to help her and protect her. I would say that she has earned the right to make any face she wants.

And military cover ups!! Probably true. But heres a good one for you...how about Mommy cover ups!! Please....this woman was as guilty of betraying her daughter as the military was! No excuses for the mom....NONE!

Heidi could have sat there giving her mother any look she could think of. I am saying the mother would have been wasting her time saying she was sorry at this point. The daughter was not ready to hear her. And after all of this time  sorry won't count for a hill of beans.
 

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