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December 20, 2005, 6:13 am PST

There are no miracles

Dr. Phil does his viewers a huge disservice by promoting the kooky and wrong-headed view that people's lives are improved or saved by "miracles." True, some people benefit from pure luck -- when random events happen to fall in their favor. But for Dr. Phil and his guests to suggest that supernatural powers are at play gives viewers false hopes. The cemeteries are full of people who left the living praying for some sort of a miracle. It's better to trust in yourself, and to try your best to make the right decisions about your life, than to waste time and energy hoping for a supernatural event that will never come.
 
December 20, 2005, 1:06 pm PST

Where water comes from

Quote From: jazzsmom

Could not disagree with you more!!! 

  

There ARE miracles...every single day!  All you need to do is look for them... 

  

Do you realize that it is simply a miracle that the sun rises at all?  That there is life on earth?  That you can even have the ability to think and feel and analyze?  Let a snow flake fall onto your arm and look closely at it.   

  

Maybe you can explain it all away scientifically...of how the ice particles formed, how it came to fall right there on your arm and at just that moment.....but explain to me how there was water on this planet in the first place?  Explain to me how, more than likely, the water that it took to form that snowflake was probably the same water that ran down the Nile in Egypt...or under a surfboard in Hawaii.... 

  

"The cemeteries are full of people who left the living praying for some sort of miracle...." 

  

To that, I say....the cemeteries are simply full of PEOPLE....period.  And there are souls who left this world happy and those who left sad...there are those who lived their lives to the fullest and those who filled their moments with cynicism....  Which were the better lives? 

  

It sounds to me as you have already placed your own soul into the grave by choosing to no longer believe....and that is sad.  Somehow you have lost that childlike innocence....some awful event maybe that took it all away.... 

  

Lives ARE improved by belief in miracles.  And there is scientific and medical evidence that this is so...  Those who believe live longer and fuller lives....   

  

Here is a miracle you can sink your teeth in....  It is your RIGHT to believe whatever you believe...but the bottom line is that you DO believe in something....your own freedom of choice.  So where did that reasoning that you express come from?  After all, you are just a bunch of atoms, clumped all together...you should have no thoughts, no reasoning, no nothing....you should not even be able to communicate... 

  

But you do.  Because, you see....YOU are a miracle.  If you believe in yourself, then you, too, are believing in a miracle.... 

  

More power to you....   

You ask many questions, so I thought I'd like to answer at lest one. You wondered where the Earth's water came from. Well, it turns out that water is one of the most common substances in our Solar System. In fact, there are two, perhaps three moons of Jupiter alone (Ganymede, Europa and Callisto), each with more water than on our planet. Many astronomers believe that if our planet didn't have much water when it was formed in the first place, a collision with just one Ganymede-type object, or many smaller comet-type objects (comets are made of mostly water ice and rock) could have easily provided the Earth with its water. And, as for you and I drinking the same water molecules that once flowed down the Nile, the Congo or even the Amazon, this all has to do with the water cycle. Water evaporates at one place, travels some distance as water vapor -- thanks to wind and weather patterns -- and condenses and falls as rain or snow in another. No miracles there.My point is this. Before immediately ascribing things to God, or His miracles, go to the library look it up in an encyclopedia. Belief in the supernatural can easly get out of hand and become a dangerous thing. In the Dark Ages, millions (yes, millions) of women were put to death because they were accused of being witches. The same thing happened, as you know, in Colonial America, on a smaller scale. Can science explain everything? No, of course not. It never will. But just because there are things we can't explain, doesn't mean they're caused by supernatural forces. At one time, thunder and lightning were attributed to the gods; now we have a rational explanation for these phenomena (trust me on this).
 
January 5, 2006, 7:13 pm PST

People are nuts

As I was watching today's (1/6/06) show, I was hoping that Dr. Phil would help his guests by pointing out the folly of their "cursed" mindsets. And, indeed, he made some small progress on that score. But towards the end of the show, he says something to the effect that it's a good idea to have mirrors and candles in the bedroom to ward off evil, or something like that. (The audience nodded in agreement.) What kind of claptrap is that? Does he have any scientific or even anecdotal evidence to back up this nutty claim? The fact is, when these stories of demonic possessions, exorcisms, curses and other supernatural events are walked around the block a couple times in the light of day, there is never any substance to be found. Take for example, the guy with the three car accidents, the leaky roof and the overflowing commode. He should talk to my cousin's husband, who's dying of throat cancer. Ditto for the witless girl with her "unlucky" Tuesdays, or the other guests on the show. It's high time people -- Dr. Phil -- included -- begin putting away their lucky charms, mirrors and candles, and start taking charge of their own lives. Everyone goes through a rough patch or two in the course of their time on Earth (often of their own doing). Nothing strange about that.
 
January 5, 2006, 7:17 pm PST

Your MD was right

Quote From: almosttime

I also see the Sacred Heart Of Jesus in there!!!
Yep, it looks like you fell asleep on a button.
 
January 10, 2006, 7:02 pm PST

He'll change, in time

Quote From: arnold36

The show today really hit home for me. However, it was from a very different view.  

My then 19 year old son and 19 year old daughter-in-law married in September of 2004 for pretty much the same reason as Heather and Jeff. They are both very Godly people and wanted to do "things right". They didn't want to live together out of wedlock, and they didn't want to live apart. So, they rushed into marriage after knowing each other for about 4 months. My husband and I found ourselves totally lost as to what to do. What can a parent do with a 19 year old son that is dead  set on doing this. We tried to convince them to have a long engagement.. However, they didn't want to wait for that due to the fact they would not be able to be sexually active. 19 year old hormones and all.... 

Well, the first year was pretty good, they were both in college, working, living on their own, and loving life. Then reality set in. My son is very passive, kicked back, and does not like confrontation. My daughter-in-law is very assertive, likes a good argument, and is confrontational. So, as you can guess things changed.  

Now most couples would turn to their parents at a time like this and learn from their experiences. this is not the case... 

My son has decided that the reason for his "short comings" must stem from how he was raised and is blaming us for his inability to be what he feels his wife wants. So, he has written us out of his life, has written us very venomous letters and has refused to have anything to do with us.  

I am at my wits end as to how to handle this. What makes this so much harder to deal with is the fact that we lost our 21 year old son in a drowning accident 4 years ago. I have already lost one son and this is tearing me apart. i just don't know what to do... 

Any advice out there???? 

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The brain of the human male doesn't mature fully until age 24 or so. He'll eventually come around, in all liklihood. In the meantime, take the high road (be good to his wife, etc.) and hope for the best.
 
January 16, 2008, 6:53 pm PST

Eating disorder: The real problem

Dr. Phil touched on this, but I'm surprised that he didn't make more of an issue of it. Jennie's eating disorder was clearly at the heart of her poisoned house. As you should know, it's a highly complex sickness that's not easy to treat. But, treating that illness first will at least point her in the right direction.

Another thing that bothered me abut this show -- no mention was made of how self-absorbed this couple was. They seemed to lack any outside interests whatsoever. Their only hobbies were making each other and their kids miserable. Perhaps taking an interest in something or someone other than themselves would help a lot.
 
February 16, 2008, 7:02 am PST

Follow the Bible?

I think Dr. Phil missed the boat on this one, for a couple reasons. Here are my observations:

1. Dr. Phil was off-base by saying that we should't "cherry pick" when it comes to the Bible. The fact is, the Bible is filled with so many nutty things (instructing how to beat your slaves, death to all non-believers, not having sex because the world will end soon, leave your wife and kids for Jesus, etc. etc.), you pretty much have to pick some things from the Good Book, and forget about the rest.

2. It looked like the kids were home-schooled (that may have been mentioned). Dr. P. should have insisted that the children go to school, if for no other other reason than to get them at least one, and probably two hot meals a day. It also would be good to get the kids away from these two kooks for at least a few hours every day.

3. As for providing for his family, that won't happen -- not with seven kids. He's not going to find a job that pulls down that kind of money. That boat sailed a long time ago. But getting a job to get heath coverage would be a good idea.

4. The family has to start getting food stamps and welfare.

5. Despite their bizarre -- and maybe creepy -- lifestyle, I have to admit that this is a loving family, and their children, although intellectually, medically and nutritionally deprived, do seem amazingly happy and healthy. Not the worst family I've seen on the show, by a long shot.

6. He should have told the parents something like: "You might want to consider that God sent you to me for some advice, so you might want to take it."




 
February 16, 2008, 11:58 am PST

The Pathological Liar

It's been my experience that men like Matt frequently prey upon women born outside of the U.S., because they know that foreign-born women are probably less aware of their rights, and will have a more difficult time dealing with lawyers, courts and the cops.
 
February 16, 2008, 7:08 pm PST

Answer to jandmcrosley

Quote From: jandmcrosley

I'm just wondering if you could elaborate which Bible you read, and to what scriptures backs up your statements on:  "how to beat slaves, death to all non-believers, not having sex because the world will end soon, and leave your wife and kids for Jesus?"  I'm assuming that you do not read the same Word that I do.? Let me know.

 

Secondly, If you do not read the REAL Word of God, I suppose you should not try to put those of us who do, in the same category as that family.  This is why unfortunately people like this man and his wife give those of us who really do have a personal relationship with Jesus a bad name.  It saddens me that because of that there will be a lot of others like yourself who have this tainted view of the Word of God. 

 

Thirdly, I don't believe that homeschooling is the one thing that should be of concern.  The fact that there is no running water, no electricity and only to assume not much to eat, should be at the forefront of everyones mind.  I know plenty of now adults who were home-schooled and graduated at the top of there class.  Not to mention the great life they live now.  There has always been a problem with people about homeschooling.  What we should be having a problem with is again if these children of families nation wide are being cared for in the proper manner, not that of the fact that they have chosen to have there education in the home.  They're getting educated, right?

 

And as far as the fact that you state that with seven children he will never find a job that will pay for his family, I believe you are gravely mistaken.  I personally know, and I'm sure I'm not the only one, who happens to know of families who have 6 or more children who are being provided for very well.  Their father is not a millionaire, nor the mother.  Although them and their children have great lives, clothes on their backs, a roof over their head and food on the table.  Not to mention the extreme amount of love from that of their parents.  So to staple a large family of that of not being able to provide for them, again is something you should be cautious to state if you do not have the knowledge to back that up.

 

My hope and prayer would be that you would read the whole Word of God, not what you think, or what you want to hear, and then go from there.  I hope that you will provide the information of the statements that you posted about those "scriptures" and are able to find the truth of the real scriptures.  I'll be praying for your salvation!


OK, I'll elaborate..

On beating your slaves:
"When a man strikes his male or female slave with a rod so hard that the slave dies under his hand, he shall be punished. If, however, the slave survives for a day or two, he is not to be punished, since the slave is his own property." (Exodus 21:20-21)

On leaving your wife and kids for Jesus:
"So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple." Luke 14:33

And again:
"And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.": Matthew 19:29

Regarding abstinence because the days are few:
"But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none.": 1 Corinthians 7:29

As for death to non-believers, there's the flood, the death of everyone in Sodom and Gomorrah, etc., etc. No shortage of that in the Bible.

Believe me, I could go on. (Since you're into the "whole word," you might want to check out Exodus 21: 7-11.) My point here isn't to blaspheme, but rather to point out that there are many, many passages of the Bible that, it followed today, would send you to the big house, and rightly so. Those who say they follow every word of the Bible haven't read it.

As for their home schooling, I stand by what I said -- the parents are kooks, and the kids need to interact with some normal people for a change. They also need the hot meals. And, no, I don't think they're getting a proper education. The older children by now should be getting lessons in a foreign language, calculus, physics, biology, literature, music etc. etc. I doubt if those two are up to it.

OK, I'll grant you that it's not out of the question that he'll find a job to pay for his tribe -- maybe selling used cars, if he's good at it. I don't see much there in the way of job skills, however. To be blunt, with his mind-set, he's probably unemployable. This why I suggested the welfare and food stamps -- for the good of the children. There are times when families need welfare, and this is one of those times.
 
February 21, 2008, 5:45 pm PST

Cherry picking

Quote From: shijokingo

Don't any of you Christians know your own religion?  Sermon on the Mount by Jesus Christ, "The birds don't work and yet the Lord feeds them, the flowers don't work either and yet the Lord clothes them."  That doesn't sound like He is encouraging anyone to work.  Of course that is bad advice but that's what He said.  Actually, nobody knows what He said because, apparantly, He was illiterate and couldn't write down even one lousy sentence.  We all know that God is a fantasy which is why Dr. Phil said "Pray to God and then start rowing".  Why bring "God" into it at all.  Why not just start rowing.  I suggest that the Christians either start following their nonsensical "scripture" (as Phil calls it) or just admit that it doesn't make any sense.  Dr. Phil said you shouldn't cherry pick from the Bible and yet that is what all Christians do, including Phil and his friend in the audience.   I seriously doubt that Jesus was the "get rich" motivational speaker that all the materialistic, hypocritical Christians try to make Him these days.  Dr. Phil, get back to Science and leave the superstition stuff in the distant past where it belongs.
 You're absolutely correct. Much of Christian theology has to do with  ...  

1. Attempting to explain away the nuttier parts of the Bible,
2. Ignoring the parts that make no sense, and
3. Justifying any number of God-approved acts of cruelty

As for No. 3, these include slavery (See Leviticus 25:44-46, Exodus 21:2-6 ) taking women to use as sex slaves (Exodus 21:20-21), putting homosexuals to death (Leviticus 20:13), torching the entire town if there's one unbeliever (Deuteronomy 13:13-19). etc., etc. etc. The list is a long, long one. These are not isolated examples. Like how about the Lord ordering Moses and his buddies to kill 3,000 people (Exodus 32:27-30) just a few pages after Moses brings down the "Thou shalt not kill" commandment? Some God.

Yes, there is a simple, obvious explanation for all of this -- the Bible was made up by humans.


   

 

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