Messages By: vickies2

  There is no reply prompt. It is going to be too hard to follow, this will be shut down again soon.

 It is like the author has never really been on a board before, They need to go see the others, like survivingifidelity.com and lifesaviors.com those are easily understood. Oh and there is a new one

societysurf.com   they shouldhire her to do this forum!

  But how about editing after the post is up?? OH no. I don't want to learn either.

I do like your tantrum though...

 them before. Hey, back spacing in the message title does work you have to go in front and press delete instead. So, lilacmess we are guineapigs. Let's see whose brain fries first. I vote YOURS. YOU get to go first.

  Hey, how is your marriage going? Did you have an affair after your husband had an affair? Or was it your first husband had an affair and then you had one this past year while married to your second husband? Do we have access to the old boards to read archives. Lilacmess- I can't remember your story!! OH no!! Oh no!! OH no!

  daily sometimes I feel great then horrible then great then blah.

  Yesterday was blah. I hate blah. Today, was busy with kids, that was nice.

 My marriage is still intact, my H is still very loving, and I am kindof cool right now and don't really know why. I guess part of it is summer is here, the kids are out and HE has the nerve to still go to work! haha! I am really a baby sometimes, I just don't like him working, even before his work affair I didn't- I want us both to be able to be together and DO life together. We were looking into a business we could own and run together. That LOOKING has slowed down now hoever; we did just get an offer on our last rental porperty so we will have a bit more cash to go towards a business.

  Maybe, I can solicit here for funds- prob not a good idea huh? Okay, well, I think WE need to start LOOKING a bit again with more earnest. We have been talking about one business idea for most of our 20 year marriage.

  Which board do you want to test, this one or diff sex drives?

  having stayed with my spouse though has not been easy. Even just yesterday, I was wondering if he deserved me- hahaha!

  We both have no problem with our sex drives. I actually came to this board- sadly, right before I found out about his affair. I had written about how we were like newlyweds having sex 6 and sometimes more a day. It was and still is so much fun, then WHAM! I find out he is having an affair. I was completely blindsided (no of course hindsight is 20/20- lots of redflags that I never persued).

  Anyhow, I was SOOOOO embarrassed that I had written to Phil about a terrific relationship WE wree having only to be so embarrassed I didn't come back to this board for well over a year.

  I didn't think monogamy would come  easy to me when I first married- HOWEVER it really did. I loved feeling like we were alive just for eachother.