Messages By: vickies2

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July 22, 2005, 4:35 pm PDT

Does the board work?

  I hope the forum works well because it was good how it was.
 
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July 22, 2005, 4:37 pm PDT

this message board has got to be improved

Nice to see you, too. I guess someone is going to have to suggest a topic before this board will really get going again, huh. Hmmm . . . I really don't have any complaints right now. My step-daughter has moved in with us this summer and things have changed dramatically. Sex, or how often we have sex, is just about the last thing on my mind these days . . . so my husband and I are getting along pretty well. Ha ha! Actually, I can't even remember the last time I wanted to have sex and he didn't want to as well. This used to be a be a big point of contention between us. It seems lately that our sex drives are pretty much in sync. How are things for you?

  it is a mess already!!
 
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July 22, 2005, 4:54 pm PDT

Hey lilac

Wow! We're back. Can't believe I'm the first one to post. Hope all is well with everyone. Welcome back.
   Does the message on differeing sex drive look all jumbled to you also?
 
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July 22, 2005, 4:57 pm PDT

thats what the mess was!

What's a mess? This board or your sex life?

Word to the wise. Don't click on the thing that looks like an eraser. It's makes your font all big and hard to read. At least I think that's why my previous message is all weird. How do you edit messages on here? I'm confused.

  that post that is all jumbled. How do you just reply to a thread and not reply with quote HOW weird that there isn't just a reply prompt! And that it is not easily understood how to post.
 
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July 22, 2005, 5:04 pm PDT

this format isn't going to work

Yeah, it's all screwed up because i was exploring the tool bar and clicked on the eraser thing. It gets rid of formatting and makes your text big and jumbled. Not sure what the purpose of that is. I miss the outline format.

  There is no reply prompt. It is going to be too hard to follow, this will be shut down again soon.

 

 It is like the author has never really been on a board before, They need to go see the others, like survivingifidelity.com and lifesaviors.com those are easily understood. Oh and there is a new one

 

societysurf.com   they shouldhire her to do this forum!

 
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July 22, 2005, 5:06 pm PDT

editing

There is no reply prompt. It is going to be too hard to follow, this will be shut down again soon.

It is like the author has never really been on a board before, They need to go see the others, like survivingifidelity.com and lifesaviors.com those are easily understood. Oh and there is a new one

societysurf.com they shouldhire her to do this forum!

  and why isn't there an edit prompt? geez....this could be way too much work huh?
 
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July 22, 2005, 5:13 pm PDT

checking spelling

about the changes either. One thing I always liked about dr. phil boards was that they were so much more user-friendly than most other boards. Change is bad! Bad! Bad! Ha ha. We'll just have to get used to it. Hey, at least we can check spelling now.

  But how about editing after the post is up?? OH no. I don't want to learn either.

I do like your tantrum though...

 
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July 22, 2005, 5:17 pm PDT

Oh I see the tools now, I ignored

But how about editing after the post is up?? OH no. I don't want to learn either.

I do like your tantrum though...

 them before. Hey, back spacing in the message title does work you have to go in front and press delete instead. So, lilacmess we are guineapigs. Let's see whose brain fries first. I vote YOURS. YOU get to go first.

 

  Hey, how is your marriage going? Did you have an affair after your husband had an affair? Or was it your first husband had an affair and then you had one this past year while married to your second husband? Do we have access to the old boards to read archives. Lilacmess- I can't remember your story!! OH no!! Oh no!! OH no!

 
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July 22, 2005, 5:24 pm PDT

things-

I'm anxious to see what this all looks like once more people start posting and replying. I don't see how this is going to make any sense. I really miss the old format. Maybe if we keep complaining, they'll change it back, huh? Anyway, great to see you again, vickie. Hope things are going well.

  daily sometimes I feel great then horrible then great then blah.

  Yesterday was blah. I hate blah. Today, was busy with kids, that was nice.

 

 My marriage is still intact, my H is still very loving, and I am kindof cool right now and don't really know why. I guess part of it is summer is here, the kids are out and HE has the nerve to still go to work! haha! I am really a baby sometimes, I just don't like him working, even before his work affair I didn't- I want us both to be able to be together and DO life together. We were looking into a business we could own and run together. That LOOKING has slowed down now hoever; we did just get an offer on our last rental porperty so we will have a bit more cash to go towards a business.

 

  Maybe, I can solicit here for funds- prob not a good idea huh? Okay, well, I think WE need to start LOOKING a bit again with more earnest. We have been talking about one business idea for most of our 20 year marriage.

 

  Which board do you want to test, this one or diff sex drives?

 
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July 22, 2005, 5:30 pm PDT

NO it doesn't go away

My first husband had the affair. I divorced him after 13 grueling months of separation and tearing my heart out trying to forgive him. Anyway, I'm happily remarried to another man now who hasn't cheated and hopefully never will. I've never cheated on anyone. Monogamy comes easily to me. The sting of having it done to you never really goes away though, does it?

  having stayed with my spouse though has not been easy. Even just yesterday, I was wondering if he deserved me- hahaha!

 

  We both have no problem with our sex drives. I actually came to this board- sadly, right before I found out about his affair. I had written about how we were like newlyweds having sex 6 and sometimes more a day. It was and still is so much fun, then WHAM! I find out he is having an affair. I was completely blindsided (no of course hindsight is 20/20- lots of redflags that I never persued).

  Anyhow, I was SOOOOO embarrassed that I had written to Phil about a terrific relationship WE wree having only to be so embarrassed I didn't come back to this board for well over a year.

 

  I didn't think monogamy would come  easy to me when I first married- HOWEVER it really did. I loved feeling like we were alive just for eachother.

 

  

 

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