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I can only agree with what everyone else has said except the wife needs a good talking to for allowing her kids to endure this abuse.  When he is abusing her, he is abusing them!!!!  Maybe she dosen't see that though, althoughI dont know how, she's got a brain !  If it hurts her, it hurt them!!!!

God help those children.

I know Dr. Phil will help her with her self-esteem issues and give her the courage to leave his sorry ass .

One thing is for sure, I wouldn't stay with him irregardless of how much "therapy" he agreed to.  If he has this much meaness in him now, he always has and always will.  I don't believe the basic personality changes that much.

He is so ugly anyway, who would want his disgusting self.  I agree that he projects his own self hatred onto her but that would be his problem, not mine.

Like I said, God help those children and may she be a better Mother than subject her children to such a hate filled and miserable life. 

I don't want to sound insensitive to Karen, but she does not need to be rescued,she needs to rescue herself and know her self worth. Her children will grow up thinking that a "knight in shinning armor" will save the day. She has to save herself and her children. They will have a role model to look up to and immulate. Never having to take abuse from any man for any reason.

I do hope Dr. Phil won't offer any help to this horrible man, he is so mean and evil and no, I don't care what his childhood was like. When you grow up, (despite your childhood,) there comes a time to say "I will never live that life again and it changes with me !" How does one not know if they were happy or not in childhood? That is just an excuse to treat others with intense cruelty and get by with it !

Kick his fat ass to the curb,Karen and you and your girls go live a happy life!  You do not need a man to validate your existence. One day, you will meet someone that YOU want to share a life with but only after you know yourself well enough and feel strong in who you are. I'm sure you are a beautiful, loving and caring woman. 

Are you talking about the picture of the guy with the mustasch and glasses??????????????????  Good God !!!!!!!

Honey, YOU need to get out yourself!!!! 

No, you don't get to ask us to "give you time to heal the wounds". You put her and your children through pure hell for years and really expect us to think YOU didn't know it until you saw it on tape !!!!! How stupid do you think we are?????  You knew exactly what you were doing and don't give us the sad song and dance that you saw your father do it to your Mother.

Big Deal !!!!

Everyone knows how they should treat a person.  I bet you knew enough to behave sweetly when you were dating, didn't you? I bet you can turn the charm on when you need to and know what to say in society while your pretending to be the perfect husband and father, huh?

If you can stop your nasty mouth at those events, then you can stop saying hateful and hurtful things to your wife. You just don't like it because your getting a taste of your own medicine.  Open wide, there's more to come.

 She still needs to leave you. YOu didn't see her face when you said things to her? You only saw her face when you were on he Dr. Phil show.......................please !!!!!!

If you really love her, go far, far away and let her have a life she and the chilren deserve a life a peace

Your teaching him to treat you like crap when you don't defend yourself, that is what "we teach others how to treat us" means. You have to demand respect and courtesy from someone or they take their whole lifeout on you!

You not only need to understand why something happened (low self esteem, etc) you have TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! Ifyou have low esteem issues, then build yourself up, read books, do self affirmation programs, etc. Didn't Dr. Phil and his treatment include this in your therapy that was planned? Is this from Karen the wife or am I mistaken?