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I think it's time for Grant to spend some time in Kelly's shoes.  He needs to spend at least a week doing what Kelly does so well.  He needs to want to take care of the needs of someone besides Grant's.  The world does not revolve around him.   Nothing has been said about how he was brought up.  Why he feels Kelly should be his little robot.  Life is too short to put so much energy in the little things.  Those children won't be little very long....enjoy them while they are.  The housework etc. will be there when she's gone.......do you hear me Grant?  When she's gone.....There is so much more I could say, would like to say, but it would take all day and I don't have time......I have a job and a life.  I spend 32 years trying to make a man happy and be the perfect wife, work outside the house because that's what he expected, raise 2 children that he resented my spending time and resourses on, and guess what!!!  I've been gone for 8 years!!!

Oh!  And it's time Kelly got some much needed R&R without the Grant's putting pressure on her.  But then, I also know from experience that she would worry the whole time about Grant and what he was thinking, doing, would she have a home to come back to.  etc. etc.  That's emotional abuse....!  Lived it!!!

I'm really disappointed that Dr. Phil gave this woman the soap box she was seeking........I really feel she got exactly what she wanted.  ATTENTION!!!    She's disgusting and her children 'should' be taken out of the home.  Maybe that's really what she was hoping for... that way she wouldn't have to be bothered with them at all and could pursue her sick little lifestyle even more.  She doesn't deserve those children, and she certainly didn't deserve to get on TV and show her "internet but" the way she did. 

  

Sorry Dr. Phil, but your show is way too good a tool to waste on subject matter such as this.  This society needs shows like yours to be used for the good of the many, not to waste on this woman. She needs some behind closed doors therapy but we don't need to witness it. 

I say shame on all three of you for the way you have handled this.  First, the wife (mother) of this young

girl.  You lied and deceived your husband.  You were totally wrong to have an affair outside your marriage.  I feel that no matter who or what the circumstances, you should end one relationship before you start another.  Tie up any loose ends before moving on.  But then you lied to your husband when you brought this new little one into the world.  He loved that child like his own.  When the marriage did eventually end, and he found out she wasn't his, he was hurt and rightfully so.   Then it became anger, and when his new wife got involved it just magnified everything.  When someone is hurt so deeply it becomes very difficult to see and think things through clearly and rationally.  His new wife should have thought about that child and the fact that she had been "his" for 10 years and encouraged him to keep the relationship with her whether he paid child support or not.   She knew he had these children and would be paying child support when she married him.   He could have then petitioned the court about whether he paid child support for her or not.  I think if it were not court order for him to pay and he kept the relationship with the child he would most likely be much more willing to and probably want to shower her with the things she needs and wanted.  What's wrong with her mother getting a job to support her "love child".  She seems to feel she is entitled to child support because he loved the child for 10 years.  Does he owe her (the mom) child support for this child more than she owed him the truth about the paternity of said child?    Perhaps if it discouraged this type of situation, maybe a man should be able to sue the woman for her deceit and emotional cruelty.  It works both ways folks! 

 

My heart goes out to Elizabeth.  She may have lied originally to impress someone but she has fessed up and wants an honest relationship.  She is hurting so much I just want to reach out and hug her.  Matt on the other hand is totally enjoying watching her suffer.  It gives him so much satisfaction he just keeps building on his manipulating her.  Even the grand statement about giving the kids up and letting someone else adopt them is a manipulation to hurt her.  This man is SICK!  The couple who befriended him???Well, I think he's enjoying the fact that he's getting away with the sick manipulation tactics he has  used on them as well.  Using the loss of their child to feed his own sickness.  Elizabeth...if you have to live in a shelter, pick yourself up and get those children and yourself away from that man.  From what your parents had to say, I'm sure they would support you and help all they can until you can get on your feet.  Matt's mother even said he's a liar.  Parents know....they may not want to hear someone else say anything bad about their children., but parents know.   And she said it on national TV.  I give her credit for being honest and stepping up and revealing at least  some of his lies.