Messages By: BrianX29

Hey Folks  

Theres nothing wrong with being single. I get tired of seeing people who think theres something wrong with being single. When your single you dont have to answer to no-one, go where and when you want DO what you want when you want. Single, is the way to go............ 

Relationships now are too stressfull and too much hassle and strain 

Main thing being single and having fun in the process 

Brian 

Maryland 

 Lisa I want to wish you the best of luck in your recovery. I hope you take advantage and stick with it. I have seen way too many of these stories that were similiar to yours.  Dr. Phil said in other shows how  this is doable.  You can keep that in mind it is doable for you to get better be sober and take control of your own life. It will take some work.......... 

  After your done with rehab 1 year or 2 or whatever. Im sure youll look back on this and say. What was I thinking.  You will obviously not want to go back to doing that again. I hope as youll get better you gain that better relationship with your mom. Things wiill all around in all aspects of your life get better. It will be hard work and I wish you the best 

Thanks for sharing your story 

Brian 

          I agree with Dr. Phil keep the dogs seperate from the children. I was surprised how the dad reacted. It seems that if he loves his daughter, he would not want to keep the dog. I wouldnt want to keep the dog. If I had dog that attacked my child, I would have reacted way differently............... 

         Dr. Phil shouldve explained to the parents how this accident may have an effect on the child for the long term. Sooner or later as the child grows older the child would ask. What happend to my face? or Why did I have plastic surgery? Dr. Phil  could have given tips as to how to talk to the child about the accident at the later time...... 

        Im not a professional Psycologist so I dont know dont take my word for it. 

     I think forrest should keep the dream alive and go for it. Its funny how sometimes in life we have these talents. We should be given the chance to give them a shot. His talent/singing may be a little off, or it's not perfect. SO WHAT. Nothing never is perfect......... 

     He could get a few singing lessons, and work on it a bit. I bet with some help he could go far. People now are living to be 90 or 100 years old. This could be a fresh new start that opens in his favor for another decade.  I would say to forrest        GOOD LUCK............. 

      While I was watching the segment on stephanie , I was wondering if she has a hard time relaxing. Sometimes if its a relaxation problem, we may sort of aim it at anything that has a target, whether its being raped, killed, shot or whatever. Its sort of the  way of dealing with that tense feeling of being alone, or not able to relax. I'm glad to see Dr. Phil got her help she needed... 

Hi Everyone 

     When I saw the show on michael and bridgette. It made me wonder where Michael got a lot of his anger. I wonder if it came from the relationship Michael had with his dad. He probably got his anger from his own dad. The way Michaeals dad treated Michael would be the same way Michael wil treat his kids/family. You could bet that a lot of Michaels problems came from his childhood when he was growing up............... 

     You can imagine doctors are under a whole lot of stress on the job especially when there out for so many days at a time. If Michaels attaining a lot of anger/ frustration from the job. Then all he would need to do when he comes home is find  a place to aim that anger and frustration. Who else would it be. The kids, the wife or whoever is home at the time. I like to think of it as an overwhelming career. 

     To the KIDS.... 

  I highly agree with Dr. Phil when he said its not about you. Its about the parents and there own personal issues. The only thing they can do is Hold on and hope something for the better will come from all this.  

     Bridgettes shopping is alomost like a cure. Shes feeling bad inside so she uses shop as a way to medicate herself to feel better. Shoppiing is her way of dealing with the problem. It gets her away and gives her a sense of happiness and accomplishment. She turns to shopping to vent the way she feels. 

      Im glad to see there is the therapist in the home to hellp this family out. I hope Michael can attend. Michael is a doctor so there may be times where hes not there/home. I hope everything works for the best for this family I want to wish them all the best of luck....... 

Brian 

Maryland 

Hi Everyone 

        This show was a good reminder to me as to what I did last year. I used to have so much junk and trash laying around. I just finally got down to it, and got rid of all that trash. It is such a releif to get rid of all that stuff. This is the stuff/junk you have no use for. If your tired of looking at it get rid of it. If it doesnt fit get rid of it. If its just lays around with no purpose get rid of it. I got rid of everything from boxes, old CD's, furniture, papers,clothes of that sort....... 

        When I saw the show especially that trashed up house, the first obvious thing is they got a lot of work to do. First thing is First, you have to take care of the cats. Those living animals got to be taken out of that hole. Its funny how junk just builds up. First it builds up and kicks you out of your own home, and into a trailer. Then junk just builds up in the trailor. Its like it chases you anywhere you go. However it doesnt chase me, I love to get rid of junk........... 

      The advice Dr. Phil gave I found new and quite interesting. I always knew how junk could build up, but never thought it would have been for the reasons Dr. Phil mentioned. I was most surprised when Dr. Phil didnt show up with moving vans. It was for good reasons........ 

Heres a tip to get rid of paper 

   Do You have a Fireplace????????? 

   If so, stack old papers in the fireplace. 

  Light a Match to all those old papers  

  Watch it BURN 

 Hello Everyone 

     I think I heard of this same guys story on the discovery/Health channel. He was on there as being one of the worlds most heaviest men. It was a story I remember watching. He looks like him. at 1000 lbs 

     I saw another story very similiar to it as the worlds heaviest man at 1500 pounds. He was from Maryland the northern part I forgot where, but I live in the south. They transferred him from maryland to some other institution down south somewhere. He eventually died. Obesity had killed him. 

   I havent seen the show yet, but I want to know how the mother plays a role in this. It looked on the interviews last week. The mother is the one feeding the addiction. It looks to be the mothers fault. Shes the one who feeds him. Gives him whatt he wants in food, and as much of it as he wants. It also doesnt help that he has to lay in bed most of the time. The mother is practically killing her own son. 

  I havent seen the show yet. I surely hope Dr. Phil finds a way to seperate these two. That 1000 pound man needs to be taken away from his mom, or the mom needs to be taken away from the son. The mother said in the interviews that she couldnt get him out of that house. I bet Dr. Phil could get him out. I Know I surely would even if I had to lift  him out with a crain. The mother needs help getting down to the bottom as to why she feeeds him and why shes impberessed to take him out into the world.................... 

Brian  

Maryland 

One thing these competitve guys forget either in sports or whatever is Fun. You go bowling or play scrabble for the purpose of it being fun. When they think there so tough to where they alway got to win. Then its not fun not for them or the loser. When a loser loses too much then expect them to take no interest in playing. We surely don't have to kill our kids with it either......