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July 29, 2005, 2:44 pm PDT

Thank you mjkkas ... I LOVE your pretty flowers

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     It is glad to see you, I realize you have alot going on. Miss your wisdom and kind words that was used to seeing everyday :).

     The boards are A little different, there are some good things about it. I like how when you post to someone from a post the day before shows up at the end/beginning (that's confusing). They don't get overlooked as much, do you know what I mean, I confuse alot of people so sorry if I confused you.

     I start therapy on Monday and hope to become a stronger better person, Thanks for all your references for help you gave me when I was struggling. You're great!

GREAT to see you... You are SO welcome for all the references and I'm glad that they helped. I especially like the "Contact Dr. Phil" clearly stated on each page. And...how post being replied to attached to post of poster replying to avoid confusion. Again, I LOVE your pretty flowers. Have a GREAT evening and weekend. Be Blessed Always mjkkas, Beachsmiles
 
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July 29, 2005, 3:36 pm PDT

Well bless my soul and yours too forever 4 ever 29

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Hello Ms. Smiles.

 

 

Good to see you. I’ve replied to you a few times, but messages

 

have a way of getting lost in the shuffle.  I have tried several times

 

to reply to the following post you made that started.

 

 

Yes. Even here you have to be careful about stranger danger even if a poster seems well known as happened in my circumstance. It is VERY risky to give out contact info and even MORE risky to meet people met online in person

 

 

Each time my puter went down or I couldn’t find your original

 

post to reply. I only wanted to say I agree with you wholeheartedly.

 

I've been on the internet for over 15+ years and I could tell you some

 

real horror stories that has happened to friends/family of mine who

 

have befriended and personally met people they’ve met on the

 

internet. For example, one family member met with a person she

 

met on-line, let her in her home and ended up being extorted and

 

having her identity stolen. It’s been a few years now and she’s still

 

trying to get everything straightened out...I am so tired of hearing,

 

"I wish I would have listen to you!"  I gave up encouraging people

 

to be careful given out there personal info. Oh well!  Some people

 

have to  learn the hard way.

 

 

Wishing you a "Great Evening & Weekend!" 

 

 

I remain, 4 ever 29

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree. I like the message above depression board on main message board page too "(This is a member created discussion)". It is important for members and board runners to set a good example and listen to your and my valuable advice from experience and not give out contact info. Just tonight on our TV news cyber danger was once again proven with an unscrupulous person trying to meet another person. Sure common sense says not to give out contact info but when you see board runners and other members doing and even meeting in person sends out wrong message to young people reading here too to make the same mistake and copy risky behavior. Stranger danger exists for adults too as occurred to your friends and family and me. I would advise against like you have and do. Yes, you are right, I learned the hard way too. Often what is stated online isn't completely on the level as you can see on that new online dating show on TV. Just like meeting people online is, instead, NOT a good idea for the most part and VERY risky for adults and young people alike. Well, I'm preaching to the choir...a tad bit of a post traumatic flash back due to being bullied and stalked with implied death threats as well via online. P.S. Don't you love how visible the "Contact Dr. Phil" is in upper right now? Be Blessed Always forever 4 ever 29... Hugs and Prayers, beachsmiles
 
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July 29, 2005, 5:29 pm PDT

My experience has been quite the contrary

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Came back to hang out a wee bit before deciding what I want to eat for dinner. I agree with you Mar I tell my hubby I judge character and when I feel okay about someone I meet them and so far no bad experience. I am glad Melissa and Tammy Jo got to meet. Earlene is hopefully going to come visit me if she gets a chance after her surgery. I too want to go see Karen in Australia. There are many here I would love to meet. I hope to get to meet Melissa one day as well. We go through life missing out sometimes on good relationships behind fear. I do not advise young people to meet strangers they have a lot of life to live. I have had 57 years on this earth I can afford to be a daredevil. haha Anyway we all have to judge for ourselves what is right for us and let others make up their minds what is right for them. All the advice given here is good and we have to weigh what is the right thing for us to do. Had a busy day and still things left to do got out all my signs for the cleanup now need to haul things there tomorrow so hope it will not rain. Hope everyone has a great day!
In direct regard to references made. You refer to yourself as being a daredevil to do. You are right. It is risky and dangerous for young people and adults alike to exchange contact information and meet people online in person. To act cavlier about it is in wreckless disregard of others who could be hurt just like I was. At beginning of board a moderator said for safety to not post contact information. Exactly that...it is VERY risky to exchange contact information and meet people in person you meet online and your examples are contradictory in my experience and encourages others (including young people) to use poor judgement. Let's just agree to disagree. It is your right to be a daredevil. Myself, I plan to not risk my safety and peace of mind and I would advise others to do the same and not exchange contact information or meet people in person met online. Again, at beginning of board posted for safety to not post contact information and exactly why dangerous to exchange contact information and meet people met online in person. I agree that too risky and not safe because it IS too risky and not safe and doesn't set a good example to other posters (adults and especially children) to act cavlier about it. I think the main responsible point to make online is one of safety and for those who want to set a good example to children to set one. People can talk about meeting and the joys of meeting all they want to via e-mail which all of you have each others e-mail so no need to set an example on here of poor judgement to others and children since, in reality, VERY risky to do for the most part. My assessment is different from yours and I don't see the point to personalize when generally speaking it just flat IS NOT a good idea and is dangerous and risky to exchange contact information and meet people online in person so, I respectively, disagree with you. Be Blessed. Beachsmiles
 
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July 29, 2005, 6:03 pm PDT

Let it go Lidica.

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How's your day! I understand what you mean hear you loud and clear. But remember people can post what they want here and it is up to moderator to take it off. Noone is telling anyone to do anything they don't want but remember at one time you were going to Tamsue's class reunion to meet her. Maybe I was mistaken about that but I thought you mentioned that in a post. We were happy for you. Anyway you have gien a great warning to all and I'm glad you are expressing the dangers because this is true too. Hugs and prayers!
Yes, you were mistaken. I didn't go. I didn't plan to go. And if I had it would have been risky and stupid and dangerous. That doesn't mean Tamsue isn't a good person. It means...I don't know...nor does she know about me for that matter. I was just being supportive that I'd be there with her in spirit since she was apprehensive to go to her class reunion. I checked out Bed and Breakfasts there for the fun of it and not to seriously to go. In direct relation to your examples my experience is different. I maintain, it is TOO RISKY AND DANGEROUS to exchange contact information online and meet people in person met online and to act cavalier about it sets a bad example to others (especially young people) who could be hurt like I was...and are EVERY day. So if others were mistaken like you were I, too, set a bad example. One poster posted opinions and I posted mine and you posted yours and because I think such a serious issue to not be taken lightly relative to what you said I am reiterating...because for me it was a mistake, relatively speaking. I have actual experience of otherwise relative to posts. I am glad you are glad that I am expressing the dangers of exchanging contact information and meeting people online for adults and especially children and thus and so I am reiterating so nobody is hurt like I was. I regret being encouraged to do and regret if I have encouraged anybody to do. A horrible experience. Hugs and Prayers... Respectfully, beachsmiles
 
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July 29, 2005, 6:23 pm PDT

Cathy 101160

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HI THERE BEACH,JUST A NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW I DO AGREE WITH YOU ON THE CONFIDENTIALLY OF THESE BOARDS .UNFORTUNATLE WE CAN ONLY BELIEVE INSIDE OF US THAT EVERYONE IS WHAT OR WHO THEY SAY THEY ARE.I DO BELIEVE IN THE PEOPLE THOUGH.I FEEL THEY ARE GENUINE FOR THE MOST [ART AND BELIEVE THEY ARE A COMPASSIONATE BUNCH GOOFY AT TIMES BUT LOVING.LOL SORRY GUYS JUST KIDDING.LOL AS FOR THE E-MAILS I DON'T GIVE MY E-MAIL OUT BEACH.SOME DO I DON'T BECAUSE IF YOU ARE GOING TO GIVE YOUR E-MAIL AND PRIVATE INFO WELL YOU SET YOURSELF UP FOR THE DISASTER THAT CAN HAPPEN.I TRULY AM SURPRISED THAT THEY ALLOW SUCH INFO I HAVE STATED BEFORE IN POSTS THAT THERE SHOULD NOT EVEN BE THAT MUCH IN THE PROFILE ALLOWED.I FEEL A BRIEF DISCRIPTION IS ENOUGH SO I AM SURPRISED AT ALL THE INFO YOU CAN GIVE.I'M BRIEF WITH MINE FIRST NAME AND COUNTRY AND BRIEF INFO ON FAMILY.GOSH !! SOME GIVE THEIR WHOLE HISTORY .I AM SURPRISED THAT THEY (DR.PHIL )WOULD ALLOW SO MUCH INFO .HE REALLY SHOULD KNOWW BETTER THAN THAT.IF PEOPLE WANT TO EXCHANGE E-MAILS WELL THATS THEIR CHOICE ,BUT THEY MUST KNOW THAT WE ARE ALL HERE FROM ALL WALKS OF LIFE AND UNFORTUNATELY SOME NOT SO GREAT NO DOUBT.I HAVE NOTICED THOUGH THAT YOU CAN'T SEARCH THE MESSAGE BOARDS FOR AN AREA THAT YOU THINK SOMEONE ELSE IS FROM .IT USE TO BE YOU COULD SEARCH MESSAGE BOARDS BY JUST A CLICK OF THE BUTTON YOU CAN FIND OUT IF THAT CERTAIN PERSON LIVES IN YOUR AREA OR COUNTRY NOT THE SAME TOWN OR ANYTHING  WHO IS GOING TO BE THAT STUPID RIGHT ?WELL I DON'T KNOW NOW SOME HAVE BEEN GIVING TO MUCH INFO I THINK.SO I SEE THEY DONT ALLOW IT ANYMORE I THINK ANYHOW I TRIED TO SEE AND YOU CAN'T .I ALSO TRIED TO PUNCH IN SOMEONE ELSES USER TO SEE IF THEY POSTED ME .IT GIVES NOTHING WHICH I GUESS IS GOOD TOO .SO WE DON'T GO READING POSTS THAT ARE NEGITIVE AND STIR THINGS UP .LOL.I DID SEE A FEW POSTERS THAT WAY BUT THAT IS ONLY A COUPLE THAT IT WORKED FOR ,ANYHOW I LOVE ALL REGARDLESS .HOPE YOU ALL FEEL THE SAME .SPREAD THE LOVE PEOPLE NOT HATE.LOL LOTS OF LUV.CATHY

 PS I GUESS I AM PASSIONATE ABOUT THIS SUBJECT .LONGEST POST IN AWHILE.LOL spongebob

I agree that I don't even think option to share e-mail should be there as encourages outside contact. Dr. Phil says he thinks not a good idea on TV so should be consistent on his website through example with his philosophy being maintained here. My experience, relatively speaking, was horrible. When you see someone giving bad advice to speak up doesn't mean you don't hope the best for the person because I do... I'm glad you agree too that exchanging contact information and meeting people met online in person not a good idea as so does Dr. Phil. Just tonight on news a person had ill intentions when scheduling a meeting with someone online. Yes, you can get lucky but why tempt fate? Well, I am preaching to the choir. I think things have resolved and I hope things resolved for you on other board... We are all entitled to our opinion and this is just mine and no need for anyone to hate me over it since I'm right that it is dangerous and risky to exchange contact information and meet people met online in person. Lots of love, hugs and prayers... HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND. beachsmiles...
 
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July 29, 2005, 7:54 pm PDT

Thank you.

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HI THERE GUYS PLEASE DON'T BE MAD AT EACH OTHER.WE ALL LOVE EVERYONE ON THE BOARDS EITHER SPIRITUALLY OR EMOTIONALLY .AS FAR AS MEETING PEOPLE WELL WE JUST HAVE TO LEAVE THAT UP TO THE INDIVALS .LIDICA ,BEACH HAD A BAD EXPERIENCE WITH THE MEETINGS AND WE ALL HAVE TO RESPECT EACH OTHERS FELINGS AS I KNOW ALL DOES.DON'T LET THAT OLD DEVIL GET ALL OF US.THERE'S ENOUGH OF THE SICKOS OUT THERE AND WE NEED NOT STUPE TO THEIR LEVEL. LOTS OF LUV TO GO AROUND. TAKE CARE.CATHY

Thank you because I have just cause and mainly brought up because a teen on last board was giving a link to her website with a diary. I said the same thing to her and she thanked me. The reasons for my posts are because I specifically know not a good idea and realizing likely other teens could be reading these and encourages them to do too. Plus, not a good idea for adults to either. For instance, one person was calling here and became vicious when asked not to when we had a family member dying January 2004, and began bashing me here and on another website because said jealous of me. The other person made an implied death threat and both involved with a third person who did. So if I know something isn't true I'm not going to look the other way because, in my experience, what was said isn't true* and specifically related. Not to mention, on board before poster said not a good idea too and I agree. And name used not poster's posting name on this board but another. So, yes, I do hope further insult is not added to my injury when what I said is true* in more ways than one that it is not a good idea to exchange contact information and meet people in person met online. Simply because it is not a good idea and it is as simple as that. I'm glad poster's meeting did have a happy ending but still doesn't make it a good idea to exchange contact information and meet persons met online in person...and I had specific experience in that regard contradicting. If people who have each others e-mail addresses want to talk about the joys of meeting each other fine but sets a bad example here to young people who could suffer dire circumstances meeting someone online in person which was just on our news tonight so I am posting this again. Even though there was a personal attack on me I don't consider that the devil causing person to do and just person didn't think completely through and, if did, would realize what I said is true and meant to spare anybody else the same bad experience...generally speaking...
 
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July 29, 2005, 8:49 pm PDT

Night Night Morelok. Have a VERY BLESSED weekend.

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I am sorry I have not been on for a couple of days, but there are a lot of things going on and I just have not been able to make the time. This thing says there have been 1378 posts made since the last time I was on, there is no way I can read them all. I want to say hello to everyone but if I try to name every one I will forget some one, so here is one big hello for everyone.

                                                                                                                                         

Hugs and prayers, Beachsmiles
 
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July 30, 2005, 5:52 am PDT

All is well. No need to worry.

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WE KNOW YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO HELP ,AT LEAST I KNOW YOU ARE TRYING TO HELP.YOU HAVE YOUR OPPINION JUST AS MUCH AS ANYONE ELSE ON THESE BOARDS.I JUST HOPE YOU DON'T THINK I WAS MAD WHEN I BROUGHT UP THE PART THAT I DON'T GIVE OUT MY E-MAIL .HOPE YOU ARE SAFE AND I KNOW YOU TOLD ME YOU HAD A BAD EXPERIENCE AND PEOPLE SHOULD RESPECT THAT.I TOTALLY AGREE ON THE PRIVATE INFO .AND I ALSO SAID THE PROFILE SHOULD BE VERY LIMITED.ANY E-MAILS SHOULD BE BAND FROM THE BOARDS OR PROFILES.LIKE I SAID WE DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER AND THERE ARE YOUNG PEOPLE ON THE BOARDS THAT DON'T REALIZE WHAT HARM THEY COULD BE IN.STAY SAFE AND GOD BE WITH YOU AND ALL .TAKE CARE AND CHAT SOON .CATHY

No I thought that you and I agreed and that other poster reacted and hadn't thought through before being defensive. I just had contradicting information and wanted to share to remind others of the inherent risk. It is okay to disagree and, as it turned out, poster agrees risky too. It would be nice if Dr. Phil had a board convention for posters to meet that used safety precautions to protect posters in doing so. Otherwise, to meet and exchange contact information is not wise and has had dire consequences for many including me, again, relatively speaking. I had had specific bad experience that was relative and wanted to share and did that it is too risky to meet people met online in person and exchange contact information. I'm glad two who met didn't have a bad experience but I had, relatively speaking, and was concerned might encourage others to do and not a good idea whatsoever. However, name used for other person met not posting name for this board. So, no, since you agree I didn't think you were mad. You looked like you just reacted and were enjoying using your red type and pictures. I'm certain most involved got a good laugh who know the details and, even if a bit at my expense, that pretty much is why I wouldn't advise giving out contact information or meeting people met online in person. To be combative and insensitive to someone who has had a bad experience is just that because, regardless, it IS not a good idea to exchange contact information and meet people met online in person. I spoke up because to see members and board runner exchanging contact information encouraged me to and I learned the hard way not a good idea and I didn't want anybody else's common sense to take a back seat and do the same. All is well so no need to worry. Your heart seems to be in the right place and so is mine. Have a GREAT weekend. I plan to. Hugs and Prayers, Beachsmiles
 
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July 30, 2005, 6:28 am PDT

I agree Tammy

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The picture of the bears. I didn't want to hit reply because I didn't want to bring it to the top of the page. Anyhow... the other day I saw where ya'll were telling people to be careful regarding giving out info because of stranger danger and we need to show the minors on this board by setting the example. Please do not post pics like this. We do have minors writing on these boards and that photo was just NOT right.

I know you will understand

Tammy

It has gotten pretty lewd on here in the past and I hope that all doesn't get started again as Dr. Phil has boards for that and I could live without those too. Unless the sex boards were ditched when the boards revamped...I hope so. I'm glad that picture wasn't on my post that I replied to and would have spoken up but was already getting bashed enough about what I did speak up about. Thanks. I hope you stick around. I guess even though iffy to us not considered necessary to delete but, like you, I thought and think inappropriate and iffy. Have a GREAT weekend. Hugs and prayers, beachsmiles
 
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July 30, 2005, 7:04 am PDT

Forever 4EVER 29 ... I hope you have a

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We've been on here together for along time and had our

 

differences.  But, the majority of time we agree on certain

 

issues.  I hope you know by now I would never bash you on

 

your opinion or advice.   Maybe, just strongly disagree.

 

However, we both have a tendency to speak out when we

 

see an error in judgment on the content of some post.

 

That's OK with me!

 

 

 

Please, ignore if this don't make sense...LOL

 

 

 

Wishing you a "Great Day of Greatness!"

 

 

 

 

4EVER    Aging Woman29

 

Peaseeker would be happy to know we just said that and hope that we both do have a "Great Day of Greatness". Yes, you and I agree a lot. I should have spoken up sooner that I agreed with you just, since my mother had died the year I first met you, I wasn't strong enough to be bashed too which has been going on now since January 2004, for me. There has been pause since May. I don't want to react and defend myself in kind and regret when I have, as two wrongs don't make a right, but I will speak up if I have important facts. It is so easy to confuse reacting with being assertive. Like you, I try to respond. Have a blessed day forever 4EVER 29.
 

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