Messages By: ilovetheoc

Hi Lindsey 

i don't know if you got my other message, or maybe you've just been really busy, but thank you for your advice. I'm glad that it's normal to have a crush on celebrity and be a little upset to find out that he is taken. This weekend has been better then the past 3 weeks, i haven't thought about jay as much and have gotten us to the fact that he is taken lol (laugh out loud). As a matter of fact i am looking for a boyfriend but couldn't get a hold of one so i guess i jsut used jay as an imaginary one lol. I do like this guy at school and he is no longer with his girlfriend and i asked him if we had a chance and he said " maybe, but don't get your hopes up." so i'm kind of confussed. I don't know if he said that as a no or he just said that because he still likes his ex. anyways ttyl have a great weekend if you need any help with anything i'll listen and try to help as much as i can. 

*Christina* 

as some of you know  

i have a crush on Jay mcGraw and ever since i found out he was engaged i've been really upset and haven't been myself and can't stop crying (so stupid). and it doesn't help when i'm on my period, i get more emotional and sad. I know i've written this on the message boards before but i just really need to talk about it and maybe it'll go away, so if someone out there who is brave enough to talk to me about my crazy, and stupid situation then i'm all ears i'll take any advice.  

thanks a million love you all sweet drams and a pleasant tomorrow 

*Christina* 

 thanks for making me feel welcome, i love these message boards everyone here is so nice and friendly. well i'm 15 years old, so no i'm not married. i've had this crush since i started reading his books which was i think in december but it wasn't that big of a crush because i was head-over-heels in love with Benjamin Mckenzie from The O.C. i love that show and ya he is another guy i have a crush on. i'm not dating right now but i have a crush on a guy at school and he is no longer with his girlfriend (my good friend) and i asked him if we had a chance and he said "maybe, but don't get your hopes up". so i'm kind of confussed but when it comes to guys aren't we all (and they say we are the complicated ones) lol. i guess when i started reading his books i thought he wrote them for meand i loved that someone his age took the time to listen to teens and want to help them so that was a quality i love about him. And jay and his dad have been big role models for me that i've decided to go into Human Phycology when i finish high school. thanks for listening lets talk more i love these message boards everyone here is awesome buh bye ttyl  

*Christina* 

Hello Cathy 

thanks for the advice i'll try to play hard to get ! how do u do that anyway ?? i've never done that before. Right now i'm taking pictures of myself on my webcam i'm pink, blue, green, purple, and yellow! Has your daughter ever had any problems like mine (Jay or similar to the guy i like at school) ? anyways i'm off to bed i ahve a history test tomorrow got to get some studying b4 sleeping buh bye for now ttyl  

*Christina* 

Hi Cathy, 

Your daughters got good taste in actors especially Adam Brody i'm a Benjamin McKenzie fan lol. I'll try my best to play hard to get and let him come to me, but it's going to be kind of hard because he is really really hot lol. I too am not allowed to date yet , i don't think i never brought up the subject with my parents, my mom says i can date but my dad doesn't want me too he doesn't even like me saying a guys name, but what can i do i'm his only girl . Do you have any other kids? I have a little brother he's 13 ( a bit of a pain) if you ask me . anyways i got to go catch the bus ttyl toodles have a great day at work . What do you do ? 

*Christina* 

Hello Cathy, i hope i'm doing the right thing. I just finished eating supper and my parents got in an argument about who works harder and all that. This is the main reason why i imagine myself being apart of Jays family or being with ben mckenzie from The O.C. because i would be so much happier if i lived like that. If i could have the oppertunity to go live with Dr.phil or Ben from the o.c. i would go in a heart beat and i wouldn't want to come back. But i'm really upset because i know that it willll never ever happen. I don't want to end up marrying a guy like my dad or have a marriage like my parents, i want a guy who will always be there for me and are kids (i want 4). And if it's [possible i when i'm older and married i want my parents out of my life for good ! and feeling this way about my family doesn't help with my anxiety it just makes it worse because my parents don't understand. ttyl buh bye take care xoxo 

*Christina* i don't know what to do ???  

Hi yesyoucan 

how are you/ i'm getting better, i just wanted to see how you were doing i haven't heard from you in a while toodles take care love Christina 

Thanks Cathy, i gues i do know what i want and the right and wrong about marriages, i got that from watching Dr.Phil, thats another problem i always have to watch his show whenver it's on if i miss it i get upset and i don't know why ? i hope the jay and ben thing will come along, i talked to the guy i like at school today i can tell that he doesn't want a girlfriend right now because he is still trying to get his ex back so i dunno, and i'm being nice and i'm actually helping him and lsistening to how he feels and helping him get his ex back so i guess thats a good thing for him anyways. ttyl buh bye xoxox 

*Christina* 

Hello Cathy, 

just wrote to ask you how your day was going ? my day sucked, but i talked to the guy i like so that kinda made me day better. i wrote you another message explaining more things the title is "Thanks" well good night ! i read your profile and i read that you are canadian ME TOO canada kicks ass ! 

*Christina*