Messages By: patricet

Tasha, Thank you for creating www.dontdatehim.com. I wish you the best. If more woman used this site then I think the dating world would be a little better. It's a right of free expression and free speech when someone posts on the site.  I feel you are not liable for anything someone else posts on your site. I also strongly feel, it's an implied admission of guilt on His part due to he refused to go in the site and post corrected comments counteracting the negative post in regards to him. If he was not guilt of what the woman accused him of then,  why would he have a problem posting correcting comments? After all he took the time to pick of the phone and call Tasha , why could he not take the time to type in some corrected comments on the site. Tha would have took less time than a phone call.

Let's take a look at something else: 1.  these woman posted anonymously,  (maybe they had a justified reason for doing so other than being a coward , There are exceptions to most everything, they could have  feared being threaten for speaking the truth and etc... )  people who turn murders in do it anonymously to protect their identy until they start the legal documents for filings with the court house and etc... . They fear being murdered themselves for speaking the truth.

if the posts were inaccurate in any way, How did he know the anonymous women's names that he listed in the complaint and summons filed at the court house. ?  If a complaint and summons are filed with the court hosue, the public has a legal right to obtain the inforamtion in regards to them. Just call the court house and give parties names, file number etc.... You can get a copy..

I sincerely hope both parties can find resolution before they go to court. Thank for being on the show.

Tasha, Thanks for creating dontdatehim.com, If more women used the web site it would be a better place. I strongly feel , it's an implied admission of guilt on Todd's part due to the fact he refused to go on your site and post comments that conuter acted the what  the woman had post about him on dontdatehimgirl.com. If the comments were not true , then why didn't he take a few minuates to post corrected comments your site after all he took the time to pick up the phone and called you. A phone call took more time than posting a message .

The woman posted anonymously, if he didn't act as they said he did,  then how did he know the names of the woman listed in his lawsuit.  I don't feel not listing their names on the site was acting as a coward. They could have had a truely justified reason for not listing their names such as being in fear of Todd harming them for speaking the truth. When someone turns a murder in to the police staion, they do it anonymously . Murder don't t find out who turned them in until the paperwork has been filed at the court.  A complaint and summers in this lawsuite is of public records, contact the court house and give the parties names, case number or the clerk in the civil division can look it up.

Katrina,

I am not her to judge you and I don't think you are a bad person. I feel we as human beings we must give people the benefit of the doubt  and look at all of the factors concerning your lust for this superstar (past and present).  I do not want to see you or anyone else go to jail. or even become in danger of doing so.  

Consider stopping the e mail letters and contacting his staff.  You must understand

1. With as many as you have sent over 200,  He must have read some of them. 

   There's no way he couldn't have.

2. He is aware of who you are  and

3. Knows what you look like or if he didn't he would after the show.   

Also , What do you have to offer ?  Financially,  ?  Education ?

Education wise, if you don't have a higher education level meaning 4 Yr. college degree. You need to consider entering college and then earning an MBA. 

I sincerely hope you do read my post today,

I do wish you the best

Patrice t

I have a question for the MD "only" .

 In the photograph displayed on the screen of Allison before she got Pregnant, it appears she was obese and still is,  If Allison would have taken better care of her body and adopted a healthier lifestyle before she got pregnant ( reduced here weight to a smaller size 6  and been in top physical shape) do you know if HP would have had as much of an impact on her as it did?

Allison, You don't belong in prison. I sincerely hope your children are returned to you. It is obvious you were forced against your will and were not able to make clear concise judgements with a sound mind during the time frame you signed the papers. The adoptive parents should return your twins to you given the circumstances.

Where was your husband during this time and why did he refused to help you given the mental state you were in?

I wish you the best!   

Sincerely

Cathryne,

Hello! Thank you for posting your comments. I do agree. It appears to me Alison was obese in the photograph that was displayed before she was pregnant,  I feel if she would have been a smaller size 6 , adopted a healthier lifestyle eating natural foods containing no chemicals,  and been in top physical shape before she got pregnant , the symptoms would not have been as extreme.

My physician "female" told me in her office (She's in Columbia , SC and has a large practice. She's the VP of the School of medicine at usc also) the growing trend today is woman having babies over 40.  As a noticeable pattern she See's and has contact with on a day to day basis, the woman who are in top shape physically, smaller size 6 and have chosen to adapted a healthier life styles by eating natural foods before they get pregnant and maintain that pattern during it are the woman 9 .5 times out of 10 who don't have or have a small amount of problems or complications during their pregnancy. 

Patrice
 

Elexis,

I just wanted to make a few points;

!. The pictures are ACCEPTABLE.  I agree with you on that point.

We live in a world today where society sets implied standards on females. (and they always have) . Maria's NOT  wearing anything that normal teenage girls don't wear at the beach. That may give her a competitive advantage in some cases. It's NOT exploiting her at all.  I've seen much worse on the beaches in Florida and SC ,

The fact is : lust sells. Teenage magazines display more skin and provocative clothing than Maria did.  Check out the teen age role models and pop stars most girls try to imitate. The girls who display the ultra conservative clothes don't have a competitive advantage and are over looked.  As females in society we are judged on 1. Weight 2. looks and  over all appearances regardless of age. People are treated differently based on there factors.    

2. Veronica's  Behavior:  Needs to improve

Veronica needs to correct the way she's displaying herself. The negative criticizes and vulgar language are unacceptable. She would be more effective with positive feedback.   One positive comment I can say about Veronica :  , she sets a good physical standard in regards to her appearance. She's not fat or obese and her makeup is well done.  That's positive.

Are you just going to repeat the same screaming thing over and over or are you going to actually say something about the way she acted in the show??     There's never a reason so yell, scream,  curse at or exploit your child.....she's obviously only in it for herself.

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C1d1v3a4, you stated this same quote on numerous other posts (ie: amydrphilfan 4:38pm, sonnie13 and etc.)  

Actions:  (Child or mother didn't say)???  Only stated her

1,  I see all of the children are trying to do the best they can.  Children are being measured on how well they can quickly and accurately adapt to a rapidly changing environment under pressure. There flexibility, accuracy, and poise are being judged here. In this world on a moment's notice there are a lot of changes, kid's don't have a chance if they can't keep up.  Maria's doing a good dealing with the negative comments her mother is making.

Gracie is exceptional , her mother (Kiki) has been the most positive and supportive that I'm seen with the two shows.  

2. Mothers actions:  Veronicia has displayed a number of behavior problems she needs to work on. One positive thing I can say about her is : she set's a good example for her child with her appearance. Meaning she's not obese. She needs a lot of work on all of the other areas. After today, I hope she realizes this and will change. She's very harsh with negative comments and offensive language. There is hope for her. Other mom's aren't as critical but are harsh with negative comments. Kiki is the only mother I have noticed so far that provides positive encouragement for her child and Gracie is doing excellent as a result of this.

NO Reason for Yelling Screaming or exploit children,  

1. There is no reason to behave in an irrational manner by becoming irate at any time. children respond in a productive manor to positive encouragement and not negative this allows them to perform better.

2. Exploit, No child has been exploited on the show. You didn't say what you were ref. to: however, If you are referring to the swimsuit picture . Kids wear a lot less on the beach and in teen magazines.  Check out the Superstars  and teen role models that are children are trying to imitate.   Also take a look at school clothes in Express, limited, & express two etc....  Check out the ad layouts in Cosmo girl and other magazines. These kids are not your normal average children next door, they are competing in the fashion industry where lust does sell and yes there is a lot of money to be made. A child could have college paid for with the right shoot or opportunity. . The ultra Conservative look just want cut it.

Saying the mother's are in it for themselves:  I STRONGLY DISAGREE:

1.  The parents recognize their children have special talents that extends beyond the scope of  normal children.  The parents are ensuring the children have NO Regrets in life by allowing them to follow the children's dreams.  The children are destined for failure if you are a quitter in life.  Parents are teaching children by example.  Always follow your dreams and don't quit.

This world we live in today is so competitive in every aspect of life.  Not only are children competition in the USA but they are on a global scale as well against other. Analysis why US industries are Outsourcing.  This will become more evident as they grow up and enter the working world as adults.   If you quite you are destined for failure.  With Kiki proving positive feedback , I see her instilling self confidence in her child as well.

2.  "One comment that was made I strongly agree with by the talent agent: is

" everyone thinks their children are cute and have talent at  home with bias individuals but in the real world they don't and can't cut it ".    This is true. 

Each and every one of there children has demonstrated the kids have talent beyond the scope of normal children.  They are on a higher level.  If the role models and super stars we see in life today just gave  up and quit then they would be working an average job and not making an impact in society today.

Congratulations Gracie! Your hard work and your effort has paid off. Much luck and success in the future. With a mother like Kiki how can you go wrong. She's seems to be an awesome mom. Wish you the best!

I wish you the best. God Bless. I have just earned my MBA and wroking on a second master's degree. As well as taking a strong look at law school.  I hope everyone reads your post. Some of the older people could learn a lot from it. 

Good Luck and God Bless

Women have no rights,  Women are considered second class people.  Women are viewed upon as the property of the husband. Just like a object in his home. Punishment for adultery is also by death, It is carried out very frequently. You need to get your facts " straight".   You are  the one that's seriously mistaken due to :  

 1.Punishment is death (stoned to death) for premarital sex.  This happens frequently.

This is not done openly but it is carried out in private and legally. It's actually done more often than people realize.  He also has the right to :  murder, beat, torture, rape and verbally abuse her at any time he wants due to she is considered his property. 

It's the same concept as woment being murdered due to something a family member thinks they did to

 " Dishonor the family name".

Shawn: Katherine made a statement on the show : "We didn't study that in school." 

I personally  feel you are partially to blame for not empowering her & building up her self esteem upon arriving back in the USA when she was 16. 

You have allowed her making a poor / uneducated decisions without having all of the facts regarding religious issues resulting in putting her life in danger and sealing her faith to a painful and torturous death. 

1. You failed to provided her with an adequate education / or awareness  regarding diversity and religious issues focusing on  inequality to women's rights,  seeking groups such as  Amnesty International  or finding someone (other than you or family members who she thought was an unbiased party ) to speak with regarding the legal treatment / abuse of women in different religions,

2. You failed to find and allow her to speak with someone who has personally experienced a friend or family member stoned to death by her husband or some member of the family. and provided other responsibility resources for her to access " professional counseling"  (it's not that difficult to locate these individuals or groups).

I don't feel she would have acted on her decision to leave the USA if you would have provided her with the guidance and resources that are available upon returning to the USA when she was 16 or sometime between 16 - 18 years of age.

God Bless you both!