Messages By: tutuann

19 years ago I divorced a man who had molested his daughter before we were married.  Second marriage for both of us.  He did not tell me but I suspected something was not right before the marriage.  He convinced me I had evil thoughts and it was nothing going on even when they went camping in his van alone and slept on the back bunk.  We married and 3 years later his mother called me and told me his daughter had confessed to her about the situation with her Dad.  Her Dad then told me it happened when his daughter 15years old crawled in bed with him while his wife was away.  He never asked for forgiveness or thought it was really wrong.  He said he never penetrated her.  After the divorce I could not get it straight in my mind why I could not forgive him as I have had to be forgiven by God for things in my life.  Dr. Phil recently stated "that any marriage entered with deception could not last."  That did it for me.  My marriage was entered with deception and I was not the one deceiving.  Thank you Dr. Phil.