Messages By: tanda12

     I believe these people can overcome their "curses".  It begins with what Dr. Phil has said over and over, you can't "fix" something until you own it.  When they can believe and admit to themselves that the problem lies within their own power, they'll be able to work on getting rid of the negative and work on strengthening the positive and taking back contorl of their power.
    The first guest needs to lose the idea of a curse.  Disbelieving that curse and believing in herself is the first step.  The second guest as well, disbelieve that he has such bad luck.  At the risk of judgement, it sounds like an excuse to shurk taking on more responsibility as a father and soon-to-be husband.  The third guest has more issues from her childhood to deal with.  Her father has taken her power from her and put those thoughts into her head making her believe that she's evil.  We are a product of how we are raised and our environment.  She can change that now by taking back her power and disbelieving in the demons within her.  I'm sure she has much guilt in doing so because he was her father.  When we go against what our "loving" parents said what was best for us, it takes a toal on our loyalty as their children. 
    The last guest needs to find the source of her nightmares in order to change them.  I remember having terrible nightmares when I was pregnant.  The apprehension of the pregnancy was most definitly the cause.  When I'm in deep worry or very sick, I have bad dreams.  It's a restlessness in the mind that needs to be put at peace. 
    I've dealt with depression and drug abuse since my teenage years and after trying prescription drugs, I am now taking charge of how I feel without relying on false "feel-betters".  A good diet, lots of water, vitamins with B Complex, and exercise helps a great deal as well as self motivation and journaling.  I'm disbelieving that depression can over power my emotions so that I have no control.  I'm my own controller.  I decide how I want to feel.  When those feelings of anger, loneliness, self-loathing begin to creep in, I stand up to them and shout back, I don't believe in you. 
    Demons can be dealt with in much the same way.  If you don't believe in them, they can't take your power.  I'm a Christian and believe in Jesus and his love for us.  Prayer has helped me in many situations.  But, I also believe in evolution and sience.  (I also believe in Dr. Phil and his hard work to get families back together.  Honest, not a plug!)  I've been torn and my faith tested many times.  But, I DON'T believe in the devil because he's not welcome in my life.  Evil is just ignorance and bad parenting!  When "bad" things happen, I believe they happen for a reason that we're not always aware of at that moment.  But I have learned that what happens to me, good and bad, has a lot to do with my lifestyle and the responsibility I claim for myself.  The rest happens for a reason I'll someday learn.  That's called wisdom!