Messages By: marsplasti

Hi Guys;

I have been struggling with something for a few weeks now and dont know what to do.

I thought maybe I could get some outside unbiased opinions. Sorry; if it doesnt belong here

but I dont know where else to ask this.

I have been hurt and betrayed by a very dear guy friend whom I have known and trusted for

a few years. I found out through various sources about who he really is and not the person

he portrayed to me. He doesnt know that I know about his true self.He is two faced and a phony

and he hid it really well.

Should I confront him and tell him i know all about him or should I just let it go?

what you say makes sense and I am hoping for that opportunity but I might not get it.

He is a coward and most likely will never get in touch with me again since last time we did speak

I told him that I cant relate to unhealthy unstable people anymore and that was it.I didnt tell him he is a liar which I will do next time.

I am frustrated because I really didnt get the chance to really say what I wanted.

anyway;

There might be one thing he contacts me about and that will be my chance to tell him he is a liar.

he will do it on email and not call because he hates upfront confrontation.

You are right though. I will wait for the right opportunity. It will come.

Thank you

yes; he was in my life for many reasons and yes its painful because I was not able to trust alot

people and I trusted him.

In my situation him and I were probably teachers and students of each other.

its a very hurtful lesson.

thanks

yes; he was in my life for many reasons and yes its painful because I was not able to trust alot

people and I trusted him.

In my situation him and I were probably teachers and students of each other.

its a very hurtful lesson.

thanks

Have said this better myself. I am starting to switch the pain for joy just now.

Wow; it is all so true.

He was a very dysfunctional person and knowing him made me not move forward in

searching for mentally healthy people as friends.I am doing that now and now know that I am

a better person all around and dont need people like him to drag me down anymore. Its like

that lesson is done and over and time to stop dwelling in dysfunction. know what I mean?

He made me see that.

its true that I no longer need him and I am so much better off and I have evolved cause of it.

I am so greatful for this site and all of you who inspire me each and every day.

thanks

You dear woman.

when I read this I cried. Thank you so much.

I hope all is well with you and your family.