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October 27, 2007, 2:33 pm PDT

this is so wrong

I am so outraged at women that would do this! It is totally unfair!  As a child that was born to a teen mother in the 60's (and a court appearance) when DNA was not available, it makes me angry that a man could be put into a situation that he is abused.  Unlike that situation now, my mother had no recourse.  She knew the father of her child and it was dismissed that he wasnt, although in years to come, family now know I am his child...oh, well to late!  I am still to this day upset over teenage pregnancy and have total empathy to the children born to MOST of them (not all).  I think that it upsets me becauce of my situation.  I feel that I didnt get a fair chance in this world sometimes due to whom I was born to and the fight I had to have to prove that I did indeed belong to the man that I was always told I did.  Oh yes I was right...even when the court said no way back then.  The thing that bothers me is that ALL children need to know, and deserve the truth of whom to they belong.  All in all, I know this isnt about teenagers, adults should know better, but oh the nighty dollar and what it may achieve them...pity on those who do this.  The children are those who suffer and that really bothers me!  At least I have grown into a responsable adult with wonderful kids who know thier Dads (I am twice married) 2 boys who are happy and smart and involved in things they should be :)  Doesnt every one have a story to tell??  Boy I could tell you one!  But the thing of this is that some woman are soo wrong to but a man into a situation that is emotionable as well as financial devastating.

Shame on them and they shoud  pay for the lies..and NO even if a man plays Daddy and he really isnt..he doesnt have to pay for that at the end of a relationship untill that shild is of age!

 

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