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July 11, 2006, 9:43 pm PDT

07/10 Biggest Brats

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Dr. Phil:  I have two dogs and the female name is Bndy and the male name is Snoopy.  One day I was in my praying room getting ready to pray.  I usually let Brandy in when she come in the same time I do, but this time she didn't.  anyway.  when I came out of my room from praying she pissed on my favorite chair.  The reason I know she did this is when I got ready to sit down I saw a shadow on the chair with a wet stain.  Snoopy wouldn't do that to me, he don't care for me as much as Brandy do.  I did this once before, and Brandy pissed on my chair.  I waited a while before I spake her and this is when she did it the second time.  on 6/23/06 I put her on a two weeks punishment.  started punishment on 6/24/06.  I let her out of the dog house only to go out side and urine and pass a bowel movement only for those two weeks.  Now all Brandy do now is stay in her dog house and every once -in- a- while she come to me and for me to pat her on the head, just to see if she can start over again I guess.  From the day I got her, she had been nothing but a bad girl.  My cats do nothing to pissed her off.  My cat are so afraid of her.  Snoopy, just do not care.

   

Those poor animals!!!  Thank God this idiot doesnt have any children.  FYI IDIOT:  Animals to not urinate inappropriately unless they have a health problem or have not been properly trained.  Obviously, it is most likely the latter in this fool's case.  Just so you know, when a dog exhibits any negative behavior,  the correction must take place within 3 seconds or they have no idea what you're upset about.  Dogs do not  hold grudges, take revenge, or have memories (as we do)    

Their learning is by association  and  by positive reinforcement.  You should NEVER hit an animal  as this can potentially cause many other irreversible unwanted behaviors such as aggressiveness,  separation anxiety, extremely  timid etc.....  

Hopefully, this idiot will rehome those poor dogs and cats or contact a qualified animal behavioralist  / trainer that is able to train a human (with a 3 yr. old mentally), how to be a humane, responsible pet owner.  

 
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July 11, 2006, 10:13 pm PDT

07/10 Biggest Brats

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My son is 11 years old and is alot like Justin.  He will hit kick, bite, hit and throw a huge temper tantrum if he doesn't get his way.  There are many times when he throws his fits in public and I have to elicit help from complete strangers and sometimes even the police to get him under control.  Many times he has said "I hate you", "You are a bitch", I wish I was never born", or even has  threatened to kill me or his sister.  He has ADHD, bi-polar disorder, and ODD, he is also border-line obsessive compulsive.  He will stop at nothing to get his way.  He has been caught shoplifting a few times.  Wal-Mart was the last place he tried to steal something, if they prosecuted he would be in jail.  My advise for Tabitha is to follow Dr. Phil's advice before Justin reaches the age my son is.  My son is in danger of jail time one day and I am doin what I can to keep that from happening.

I have add and bipolar disorder.  Your son is not mentally retarded!  He makes the choices to say and do the things he does.  Put his butt in jail  and I suspect he wouldnt think he's such a tough guy.  I seriously doubt he would be kicking, biting, hitting, threatening, or stealing from the other inmates.Why in the world would you keep him from doing jail time???  I would be doing what I could to get him there.   If not for him, do it for the rest of us in society who choose to follow the rules!!!!!  WHAT A PUNK.  

 
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July 11, 2006, 10:42 pm PDT

07/10 Biggest Brats

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Justin's momma needs to whoop his ass. double period. She is not consistent w/her discipline and he is a very high strung, cute little boy. I belie that the parents MUST do their duty as a n parent and be a friend later. Justin will be whooping Tabitha ass in a few years if she doesnot get a hold on it. I dont play that when it comes to my boyz. They are not perfect but they are very much so discipline from the time I birthed them my husband and I established who is who is the house hold. She needs to tighten up. The fact that she allows him to go up to a stranger and call them names to their face and not hand out a discipline for that!! come on Tabitha you got show some back bone. Your son has no fear of consequences. It is not too late. You had better get ahold of him now before the police gets him later..    

I'm with you!!!! That kid was a MONSTER!   I feel sorry for Tabitha though.  There is something seriously wrong with that kid and I find it hard to believe its mostly from Tabitha being inconsistant.  Thank God my child was never like that or I'd probably of ended up in jail!!  She may choose to put her life in jeapardy every day with that child, but I hope she gets those poor animals out of the house immediately and can find them a loving home.    

 
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July 11, 2006, 10:52 pm PDT

07/10 Biggest Brats

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This is for the woman on the show who kept saying her child was autistic and possibly had Aspergers and needed help.  

  

Welllllllllllll why don't YOU get that child the 'help'?  Unlike YOU my children BOTH of them are AUTISTIC.  I was the one who pushed to get them evaluated at a PROPER FACILITY.  I paid out of pocket for that.  When their medicines were not covered under the insurance, I paid out of pocket for that too.  I fought long and hard for the teachers  to make my children accountable for their behaviour.  I found groups that could give me clues on what else I could do to be a better parent. 

  

In other words lady, I am the advocate for my child.  I did not depend on the government for ANYTHING except to insure that they were given a GOOD education, and integrated with their peers at their schools. 

  

You are a social worker, yet you don't have a clue as to raising your own child. 

  

You have to step up here and be a parent.  You have to make yourself and your child accountable for yours and his actions.  I don't care if you are 'parenting out of guilt'.  THe time is NOW for you to GROW UP! 

  

I kept my children off of medicade  and SSI.  I wanted my children to be accountable for their behaviour.  And the only way I could do that was to parent them accordingly and get them the medical and psychological help they needed.  And when financial sacrifices needed to be made so that meds, food, and utilities could be afforded I made them.  

  

You kept saying the entire show how no one would help your child.  Why aren't YOU helping him?  You have a responsibility as a parent to stand up and do right by him.  IF you do not make that child accountable for his behaviour, no one else will. 

  

And as I watched the tape of your child, I did not see a child out of control.  I saw in that boy's eyes someone who knew exactly what he was doing and why. 

  

In children with autism (when they have their violent attacks)  you can see in their eyes that they can NOT control their selves.  There is a huge difference between your child and my children.  And I resent YOU using AUTISM as an excuse, simply because YOU REFUSE TO PARENT YOUR CHILD! 

  

You are a social worker for GOODNESS SAKE!  GET A CLUE WOMAN!  

WELL SAID! 
 
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September 21, 2006, 10:50 am PDT

WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL ABOUT HAVING HERPES?

Quote From: chantel2

Thanks. I have taken it when I have had outbreaks.  My outbreaks are so far and few between that I don't take it daily because of the expense.  Do you know of any other medications that aren't as expensive?

Chantel,

I too have few outbreaks(which are not a big deal to me)  When I first contracted I too could not afford Acyclovir and Valtrex was not around.  Anyway, I was told by a medical professional to take the vitamin Lysine.  I think I took about 1000mg / day as a preventative.  It seemed  to work, but I really didnt want to mess with taking it.  I have had herpes for over 20 years and don't really know what the big deal is about it .  Little outbreaks come and go and obviously I would choose not to have it if I could, but have been married for 12 yrs and my husband has never contracted it and was married before that for 5 yrs. and he still says he's never gotten anything.  Neither of them was ever that concerned about it anyway as they could see that  it did not affect my life in any negative way.  I also had a child 13yrs ago and  he was delivered by the conventional method.  Back then, my doctor wasn't even concerned about the herpes thing only saying he might consider a c-section if I had lesions when it was time to deliver.

I just don't know what everyones big deal is with having it.  Maybe my outbreaks are completely different then everyone elses, but I seriously doubt it. 

One last note:  Anyone that would advise a person with herpes to tell their family or someone they are casually dating is an IDIOT.  Just  use condoms (even though I never did with my husbands)  

People are dying of incurable diseases as we speak so to everyone who is so upset about having herpes   JUST GET OVER IT AND FIND SOMETHING OR SOMEONE ELSE TO WORRY ABOUT!!!!!!!!

 
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September 21, 2006, 11:12 am PDT

RIDICULOUS!

Quote From: mama5x

I have been with my husband for almost 8 years we have 2 children. The last 3 years we have had no sex because he tested positive for herpies. He claims he must of got it from his ex but I have a hard time believing that for the fact that we were having unprotected sex for 5 years and I tested negative now how is that possible?

Haven't had sex with your husband for 3 yrs because he has herpes?  That's about the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.  Either you are very ignorant or found a good excuse to cut him off.  If I were you I'd be more concerned about infidelity and/or HIV than herpes.  Trust me, your husband has not gone 1 yr. without sex, let alone 3.  He's getting it from someone .

 
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October 23, 2006, 11:51 pm PDT

I agree

Quote From: brie_8383

wait...

you personally know people who were MURDERED because they're WHITE?

that's amazing, you'd think that would be front page news.

but um,

being homosexual is not a choice.

and giving myself to a dead magician is not going to make me like girls any less.

give me an arguement without a religious reference, and we'll talk.

Well put.  This person obviously doesn't know what  they're talking about.  Continually making statements they are unable to back up.                                                                          

I'm sure the "dead magician" remark really sent her into orbit!!  ha  ha                              

 
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October 24, 2006, 12:04 am PDT

Give me a break!

Quote From: indicolite

There is all sorts of hatred going on in this world as shown in your House of Hatred epidsode today. But what stood out to me was not the  important social issues that result because of hatred. Your show focused on something as unimportant as  "looks". I knew as soon as I saw John (the fat guy) that he would be the one to get it from everyone and I was right. All I heard from everyone is how he stunk up the place. Noboby bothered to even listen to him about why he could not shower; nobody was even interested to see if there was any reason he could not shower. He indicated that he cannot stand and shower but did anyone even bother to listen to that one short statement? He is a big man and I would suspect it is very difficult for him to shower in normal bathing facilities. Did anyone even think of his perspective? No! All they could do was shout, complain and nag about him stinking up the house, even going so far as to spray room deodorizer around him or where he had been.  Every other person on that show should be ashamed: to me they had a worse stench-that of their own self-centredness and ignorance. They didn't bother to try to understand the physical and emotional problems he so obviously has. You see fat people cannot hide whatever is eating them but the rest of them can because to the world they look "normal". They were  racial and  sexual orientation haters in the group but  all  they would focus on was the "look" of John. They majored on minors and made it clear from the start they didn't want to tackle the real issue. I guess they didn't have to look inwardy at their own shortcomings.  I hope next week's show focuses on  "hatred" and how we can all change that.  We all need to!

Why did he go if he had not intention of  bathing.  Easy for you to say as you weren't there having to live in the stench.  I find it discusting and inexcuseable.  If nothing else he could have taken his lazy ass into the pool. 

Are you saying that it should be acceptable not to bath or shower if your're overweight.

 
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October 24, 2006, 12:43 am PDT

Coping with STDs

Quote From: lynn73

Why is it so idotic to tell someone you have herpes?  I haven't told all my family or friends, but the ones I have, have been very supportive and kind.  I too don't have bad outbreaks and actually don't have them at all anymore but do realize the possibility of still transmitting it to someone.  Condoms can protect someone without herpes but some peole with hsv get outbreaks in areas that a condom just doesn't cover and protect a person.  Also if you are aware that you have and STD and do not tell your new partner and they get the STD, they can sue you if they choose to.  It has happened already. Wouldn't you have liked to know from the person who gave you herpes that they had it? I know I would have. 
I did know beforehand and still took a chance. Yes, I lost the gamble, however my life didnt end.  Further, I have always told the person before having sex that I had herpes. 
 
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February 8, 2007, 10:37 pm PST

I agree

Quote From: msjenny123

This person is a predator, nothing more.  He wanted to showcase.  Usually these people stay below ground however he has elected to come out.  Complusive behavior just dont go away, it requires doctors, sometimes meds and even then takes alot to control it.   I am not a doctor but even I know this so I hope this baffoon doesnt think we really believe him.  He chose a girl younger because older women would catch on to his lies easier.  While watching the only hope I had  was that someone would jump up and slap him.  Evidently he thinks he has made the world a better place because of his behavior, considering all the women that liked this.  Please Dr. Phil let the police be watching this person, he is dangerous.
I also wonder  why that beautiful, young girl's parents haven't put him out of everyone's misery.
 

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