Messages By: colinl

 My wife and I have been married for 34 years on nov 22. We knew each other for only 6 weeks when we got married. She is now a  stay at home wife. I work full time. Jan is her name. She is my best friend. She does a pretty good job on the house work. I do help some and take care of all outside items. I help some with cooking, dishes, trash, housecleaning etc. We travel a lot together. We go a lot on my days off together. To the store, riding the motorcycle, trips, to visit our daughter and grand daughter. I know she is maybe not the best  skin looks to some. I have the attraction that looks at the real whole person and am very happy with her. I think and hope she is as happy with me as I am with her.

Jessica is not coming clean about the sleep over male. Either he is or not sleeping with her sexually. NOt really inportant. Jessica is at the least taunting Todd. They need to sit down and have a mediator. Play by the rules. Both have issues. Both need to come clean.  A Clean break or nothing. Keep the children out of it. Probably need the children to be some place else while they  work through this. So there is no chance of fighting in front of the children. Needs to be clear fair fighting and no arguing and yelling. Ask questions and wait for answer then next question. etc. They stay on the same issue till all out war.

Good luck.

Larry Colin

Marriage in my opinion is a bond between man and woman. they should either get into the relationship or go separate ways. Why buy the cow when the milk is free. Most think it is easy to just leave a relationship if not married. They do not understand the complications of property etc when not married. And kids position is iffy at best. If they want to play house then they should go ahead and play house. Get married. My wife and I knew each other for 6 weeks. Got engaged on a Wednesday evening and the next Monday got married. That was nearly 35 years ago. Still married and we are now best friends. We became committed to each other. There were some rocky roads but fair fighting (see mondays program) and we grew together not apart. Now we go everywhere and do everything together. I respect and adore her and she respects and adores me.

Larry Colin

There are scams abound. You should never fall for these scams. If they are real they will meet you  half way. Not take your money in hopes. Love is not bought. There are scams for selling motorcycles on ebay where you accept a certified check for way too much, cash it and send the balance back to the sender. Only to find the certifed check you accepted was bogus. OR a second chance to purchase the motorcycle just send overnight money and the shipping will be for free. Only they never owned the motorcycle in the first place so you just lost the money. Your dear departed long lost reletive in nigera had millions on depost when he died and all you got to do is pay up front thousands of dollars for this and that to get the money. Yea right. So never send money to people you do not know very well. Actually never send money. If you even know them well they are usually only using you for the money. Count the money gone when you send it. And nothing, I repeat NOTHING, will ever transpire in your favor for that money.

Larry Colin