Messages By: jane_holt

I tend to serve my information straight up, not sure if that's what you came in looking for?

So thought I might give warning first.

I can post further to you or not.....your choice.

This is a welcoming group of posters that are caring and supportive.

However there is also information provided here regarding the facts on Domestic Abuse and other topics.

We do offer support and a place to vent.

Perhaps that's why you stopped by......we're glad you found us.

Let me know as far as my posts are concerned.

Others will chime in sooner or later.....weekends and beginning of the week seem to be slowest of times.   It will pick up.

Take care.

Welcome.

PS.... there are many here and around the country, that are in your very same position.

well I know U might think down of me but .here is the story in a nut shell.

 I got on a dateing site and I meet this guy he is good looking and is very smart with computers even got a degree . his wife is not in the united states and he told her after about 1yr and a half that he was seeing someone else . See what pushed him to tell her is he was online and he kept closeing windows realy quick and one day I seen he was talking to a lady so I was reading what they wrote and he was telling this lady things about his self and he told me he was not talking to her with intentions with getting with her cause she was in another country . Well I asked him why he was still lieing to people about me and told him he either wants me or he don't but I was hurt he was lieing to his co workers about me.well he finally did tell them about me .then he said he had to go to his uncle's cause his uncle wanted to talk to him  and thats when he said he was going to tell him about me which I learned later on he did'nt so I guess thats why now his uncle wants to chat with him. He is not happy with my kids he like's my 8yr old but he don't like the other one's. He talks to them about lieing but he lied to freinds and family for quit some time .someone we know set him up and talk to him online and he talked back to this lady and said things and did say he wanted to meet her.well when he told me about it he did tell the truth but now I have to wonder if he still is or whats realy going on .

could U go into more detail on what U would do