Messages By: ashley31

All I have to say is...................To each its own!   I am definetely not one to judge others.   If you are happy - thats ALL that matters!    If you want to be with the same sex,  that's YOUR decision.   NO ONE is able or capable to judge others!    Its up to each individual.    I am a straight female and there is not one gay person that bothers me.  It's totally up to YOU to decide who you want to be with - not me,  nor others!     So,  have at it and do your own thing! 

 

So what is someone is gay.   I am not,  but my best friend is.  He is my ex HR Manager and I love him to death.   We all got laid off from our company,  but we still talk atleast 2 times a week. 

 

If people do not like gay people,   that's their own ignorance because they are just like everyone else.   They just have a different preference.   SO WHAT.    I am soooo glad that the gay community is coming out and speaking out.    I have nothing but praise for the gay community.

 

I would never offend anyone due to their own preference.   WHO am I to judge anyone?    I'm not here to judge people,  I'm hear to listen and keep an open mind to each and every individual.

Period!

 

I have listened to this show twice at work,  and have seen it on tv at home once.

 

I do understand where Erica is coming from......at the same time,   I "think" her father is "trying" to reach out to her.....the last show I caught,   he walked out mid-show.   That right there told me that he can't handle the "real" truth and deal with her questions and what Dr. Phil had to say. 

 

This man did murder his wife......the girls mother.      I will NOT sit here and judge him,  nor her because I do not know either.   I can only give my opinion.   Erica was extremely brave to face her father - the man who admits murdering her only mother.   Yes,  he may have been on some serioius drugs.....I do not excuse that.....but,   I will say this.... A person does NOT act normal when they're under the influence,  he must of been on some serious drugs.   I do NOT excuse him for one second.     Take it from someone who was in a horrible domestic situation when my Ex was on drugs.   A totally different person!!!    

 

He will have to live with what he did.   If Erica chooses to move on without him,  more power to her.....The ball is in her court!    Her dad is a totaly junkie - hooked on hard steet drugs!

 

 

 

    I know this must have been a difficult decision for Erica to make...,  but....it was HER decision to meet her father,  not mine, not yours......just her decision.

 

   I can only praise her for having the strength to go through this whole ordeal.    Its not about what WE think,.  This is an innocent child who "felt" she needed to meet her father.   

 

I think he did a horrible crime.by murdering Erica's mother.   I still think he should be behind bars!     I can NOT wait to see the next update as to how their relationship is going.    I hope and pray that he doesn't disappoint her.    Erica did what she felt was necessary -  for HERSELF.  

 

Regardless of what he did to her mother,  we all need to support Erica!

 

Dr. Phil did an EXCELLENT job!