Hello all,
I have 3 children from my first mariage. My second husband, who i love very much, has other ideas regarding parenting. His childhood was not a pleasant one. His parents were neglected him in some ways, his twin sister was and is their favorite. Sometimes i think he wants the children to be little adults. We almost never have fights, but if we have they are all about the children. I won't like that at all. But i don't no how to change this. I am from the Netherlands and my English is probably not always correct, i hope that anyone of you can give me tips how to handle this problem. My husband loves the children and they love him back, that is not the problem, the only problem is that he cannot understand that these are children and not little adults. The children are 13, 10 and 7 years old.
