Messages By: rosiedeek

I made it a point to watch this episode.  I really feel bad for Heather.  I completely understand what she is going through,  because the same thing cost me my marriage.  I felt like Dr. Phil was explaining me and my life to a tee. Nobody can understand what this is like unless you experience it.  My husband didn't understand even though he tried.  We went to therapy and it helped for a little while, but in the end our marriage dissolved.  It has been almost two years since we divorced, but I am still having problems.  I don't have the money anymore to spend, but every now and then when I do have extra cash, I spend.  I really hope Heather can work through her problems and get the right therapy she needs.  I have read book after book to try and get help.  I wish I could find the right therapist who deals with this type of problem specifically.  I try to have faith and just go day by day, but sometimes it is really hard.  All the best for Heather and her husband