Messages By: nycroni

We already have children.  I had 2 children from a previous marriage and we now have one together.  His first child. 

Once he realized I had checked his email and saw what he was up to I guess he figured it woud look suspect if he changed his password so he hasn't.  But I still go in there from time to time it's what I realize is that if he gets an email from one of these friends, he replies to it and deletes any evidence of it immediately.  Or he's calling them on his breaks at work.  It's really frustrating.  I don't know that I believe he's sleeping with them because none of them live in our town or state for that matter.  But I've read in his emails where he made plans to meet them when they come to town or nearby.  The fact that he will make these plans and not inform me bothers me. 

Then he lies about the nature of the relationships with certain ppl.  He described one person as being his "best friend".  At first I believed it.  She lived 2 doors down with her husband and thought it was innocent although suspicious because she lived 2 doors down and she never came to our home nor did we go to hers.  They work together and we went to a Xmas party at their job once and we were seated with her and her husband.  He told me they were just friends.  Her husband's expression told a very different story.  I watched his expression each time my husband said something and he looked like he wanted to kill him.  Clearly there was more going on here.  Then one day I was on the computer and discovered a picture of him and her.  A pic taken at a photo studio.  Not the kind of pic or pose "friends" take.  This was a "we are a couple pic".  I confronted him about it and he lied again.  It's funny; I can always tell when he's lying or told a lie because he tries to atone for it via an expensive gift.  Very transparent. 

I really wonder if he thinks our marriage will last with this kind of BS between us. *smh* 

Hello Mark, My name is Deb-b. I was taking a nap and strangely enough I woke up hearing your voice. Not sure what woke me, but I listened. All I got was that you were looking for your soul mate. I never heard the part about you being a virgin, what a special gift and surprise. Wish I could say the same.  

I am writing you because I liked how you took your direction back to God. I believe that is where the answer is. However, I think that by naming your partner and giving her a certain color hair is your will, not that of God. God's will is not about color, shape,  size, status, or name. I, too search for that special someone. Someone with a sense of God. I love, honor and trust God. I do tend to challenge him on matters of male-female relationships because of my human desires. By this I mean I tend to get alittle impatient and do things for the wrong reason because my motivation is maybe I will find my man there. Not a good thing for me. Just keep asking God for inspiration and what to do next, he will guide you. I don't search for a man that I am right for, but one that is right for me. If you think your the man for me, contact me, we can talk. drose6082@yahoo.com 

Hello Mark, My name is Deb-b. I was taking a nap and strangely enough I woke up hearing your voice. Not sure what woke me, but I listened. All I got was that you were looking for your soul mate. I never heard the part about you being a virgin, what a special gift and surprise. Wish I could say the same.  

I am writing you because I liked how you took your direction back to God. I believe that is where the answer is. However, I think that by naming your partner and giving her a certain color hair is your will, not that of God. God's will is not about color, shape,  size, status, or name. I, too search for that special someone. Someone with a sense of God. I love, honor and trust God. I do tend to challenge him on matters of male-female relationships because of my human desires. By this I mean I tend to get alittle impatient and do things for the wrong reason because my motivation is maybe I will find my man there. Not a good thing for me. Just keep asking God for inspiration and what to do next, he will guide you. I don't search for a man that I am right for, but one that is right for me. If you think your the man for me, contact me, we can talk. drose6082@yahoo.com 

I think it is great that Mark is searching for his soul-mate. In my opinion, the problem with people today is that everyone is so anxious to get married that they rush into it and end up getting divorced. I think we should follow Mark's example and take more time searching for "the one" instead of setting right away. Stay true to yourself, Mark, and keep searching for your soul mate... and this is coming from a blonde, animal lover named Sara ;) 

I think it is great that Mark is searching for his soul-mate. In my opinion, the problem with people today is that everyone is so anxious to get married that they rush into it and end up getting divorced. I think we should follow Mark's example and take more time searching for "the one" instead of setting right away. Stay true to yourself, Mark, and keep searching for your soul mate... and this is coming from a blonde, animal lover named Sara ;)