Messages By: najewski

I was in an abusive relationship for ten years.I was 16 and he was 21 and I left him a numerous times before I finally grasped my own personality and left him for good.please dont stay in that relationship.It will get alot worse.If you want to talk to me more about that issue ill listen ive been there.my email address is najewski@yahoo.com

  How does the kids feel about all this?Has anyone ever sat them down and asked them?I agree with Dr.phil they need to be mutual and get real with eachother.And let the kids be kids!Yeah sure he was once a woman but he has been in those kids lives.But that does not give him the right to take mom away from the kids either.They just need to share the kids and set up some kind of plan so noone gets hurt and they all live happily ever after.That would be much more healthier for those kids.

Hi My name is Michelle and im wanting to find my sister that my mom gave up for adoption back in 1969 .Im not sure what month she was born.My mom dyed in 1998 and she never did tell me what month.she got pregnant when she was in highschool,Kettering highschool in Kettering ,OH.Her   

parents sent her to a home and united way had something to do with the adoption some how.And the red feather agency too.My moms maiden name is Brenda Patton my sibling will be 34 or 35 years old.I want her to know that she has 2 younger sisters and we want to meet her.anyone with info.that wld be of any help contact me at najewski@yahoo.com  

                                                                                                   Thankyou,  

                                                                                                         Michelle  

That is horriible!I have a stepmom thats mean,and I will not take my son around her at all.And as for the mother-in-law thing,I thought my mother-in-law and other in -laws were bad.My husbands mom just disrespects me and he lets her do it so when I tell her off I look like the bad person.We got into it during hunting season and i had to leave, so im definatly not going there for christmas and i told my husband this and he gives me the attitude like its my fault.And I tell him to blame her.She started it.What im saying is stand your ground and dont give them a 3rd chance your son doesn't need to be brought up that way.Its better to have no grandparents,aunts,and uncles then to have evil ones.