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October 15, 2005, 7:10 pm PDT

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I just wondered if you suffer from depression or bipolar or any mental illness? 

  

I only ask because my daughter has moments where she doesn't remember things. She is bipolar and all the tests they did on her brain came back normal except for slowing on the right temporal lobe of her brain. But it was not too severe to cause worry at this time. 

  

Just thought I woudl throw that out there. Sorry you have to deal with this. I hope you find the answers you are looking for. 

Have you ever had your thyroid checked? I think they do a special screening that is separate from a normal blood screen, T12 or something like that.  Just throwing ideas out there. I really dont' know what it could be BUT if you get enough ideas you may find the right direction. 

Good luck 

tammy 

Everything keeps coming back normal. Though, I have been looking at a sight that someone suggested. The symptoms fit so many things, but it keeps coming back the same.  I had my thyroid removed, so that's been taken care of. Meds are FINALLY at the levels they are supposed to be at. But thanks for the ideas. 

 
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October 18, 2005, 10:10 am PDT

Hi all

Just thought I'd drop in and see how everyone is. Have to call my neurologist and set up a new appt. They canceled the last one. Doing OK today. Had a few crying spells and some thoughts, but mostly under control today. Well have to go, hubby is sick and needs me. Take care, and have a great day
 
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November 8, 2005, 7:42 am PST

11/09 Next Generation of Moochers

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I am a 38 year old who has a 36 year old brother that is the mooch.  Our mother passed away 22 months ago, before she died she asked me to look out for him.  "he is not as strong as you are" she said.  Well he has been living in my house for 14 months now, not working, he is attending technical college but has a year to go before he is finished.  He was injured on the job January  2001, and has not worked since.  Before mom died she gave him her entire social security check to pay his bills while she lived with me and I paid for everything.  I would not take her money because I wanted her to be able to spend it on herself, she only got $550.00.  I also helped him with bills so that he could stay in his apartment.  After mom died I just couldn't keep up the extra $1100.00 each month. 

  

I am now working 80-104 hours a week to stay even with the bills because of my brother.  I no longer have savings because I have spent it all on him.  If he doesn't stay with me he is homeless.  As his only living relative I can't just give him the boot but I also can't keep up the schedule I currently have.  Any suggestions? 

  

  

Honey, you are going to have to throw him out and make him learn to support himself. You can't be his Mom and he can't go on being your kid. It's hard, but you have to do what you have to do
 
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November 29, 2005, 11:20 am PST

11/29 "Fighting Over the Will"

Quote From: babygirl74

 Why can't the 19 year-old just grow up? Just because you inherited some money, doesn't mean your ego has to be so high that you have no idea as to what you're doing. My mom tried to protect me for so long that when I moved out, I had to learn about the world the hard way. I don't wish that on anyone. I think that the mom needs to leave the son alone, and when he comes to his senses, sooner or later, he'll realized that life is not about money, and the way the he's spending it is showing how responsible he really is.
OK First off, the MOM is the one spending the money!!! He's not allowed to have any of it. So the SON needs to be protected here. Yeah, MOM does need to leave him, AND HIS MONEY alone. Sounds to me that MOM is the one that isn't grown up here!!!!!!!!! So when you talk about showing true responsibility, talk about MOM not SON!!!
 
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December 31, 2005, 6:53 pm PST

Lesbian Theory

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I believe that none of you should judge Beth. You do not know if she is a lesbian, (obviously she is not if she has children..) I feel she is acting the way she is because she is lacking self-esteem and making everything "perfect" builds it up. In our society it is easy to be roped up into wanting to be "perfect" and have the "perfect" children, but none of you have the right to judge.I also feel that her husband could help her a lot more. He should be boosting her confidence, not letting her feel alone. I disgree about Dr. Phil putting her mother-in-law on the show. She doesn't have anything to do with their marriage. I know when you marry someone you marry the whole family but I believe that letting her voice her opinion is wrong. She has nothing to do with their problem... (obviously she will pick her son's side. Most mothers tend to sweep their childrens problems under the rug, and forget they happen.) I guess I just don't see the point in having her their except to make Beth feel even worse.

Just because you have children does not mean you are or are not homosexual. There are a lot of lesbians and Homosexual males out there that have children now. Either threw adoption or having their own or with surrogates. True you can't judge a person by any means, you seem to be just as short sighted. In other words, learn before you speak. 

 
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December 31, 2005, 6:56 pm PST

Hi all!!!!

Sorry that I have been MIA for so long. This  holiday season is not a good one. I want to apologize for being gone though.  

Misty 

 
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January 3, 2006, 10:56 pm PST

Lablefree!!

Have missed chatting with you. How have you been??
 
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January 3, 2006, 11:03 pm PST

Depression

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Misty the good thing is your back..Welcome home  and It's a new year and a new you...Everything and Anything is possible..Godbless you......No need to apologize...What have you been doing there cutie...

Well the grandkids visited for a little while. Kind of ramped up the depression. My oldest grandson is the same age as Marcus. Did find out what's going on with me though. I have a heart condition called Postural Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS). Nothing to worry about! I just have to make sure that I don't push myself too hard. Also a mummer that I had as a kid seems to have come back. But don't worry about it. How is your Mom??? Has she had her surgery yet?? If so how did it go? Did you talk to your Dr. about any concerns that you have about your thyroid? If you have I hope he/she set your mind at ease. Have really missed being here. Hope to catch you soon, 

Misty 

 
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January 4, 2006, 4:48 pm PST

Depression

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Doctor too the size of a baked patatoe out of my mother's neck.  It wasnt cancer  She had only one pill. One percet after she woke up GOD bless her heart.  Dear hates Pain medication worse than me...She was knocked out for like a whole day from medication that zoinked her from the surg...then when we brought her home she took that one pill and zoinked her fro another day. 

  

What a difference she instantly turned pink.  Her airway was so restricted. 

  

realy 60 percent  yuk huh!  As for me I quit taking my Xanax probally a week before Christmas and I feel so much better and believe it or not I have NOT HAD aniexty since then!  Than's weird huh! 

  

I am sure I will in life feel flutters or nervous but isnt that apart of being alive?  Feeling those feelings? 

  

Yes my mind is at ease... 

  

We missed you also. 

  

I am so happy my oldest daughter and My husband gave me the best Christmas present ever..They made up after years I mean 3 years of constant fighting  THANK THE LORD! 

  

I hope your Heart will be alright...Please post again soon  xox 

My goodness! I'm glad that they finally made up.The Doctor assures me that the only thing I have to do to make sure me heart is OK is to take it easy. Also he wants me to lose some weight. Trying, not easy, but making a little progress. Hope all keeps going well with you. 

Misty 

 
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January 5, 2006, 12:59 am PST

Depression

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You CAN DO IT>>>>>>>Drink Ice water with Lemon in it......at night and during the day....Oranges  and grapefruits....Handfuls of almonds.....Watermellon....Salads  Salads  Salads....Just watch what you put on top.......Maybe lemon and a little oil and Vinager.... 

  

You can do it! 

  

Dance around Naked with an IPOD aon in your bedroom  Why not I do  xoxox 

I'd do that, but I'm scared my house would fall down. That and with 4 kids at home, not really practical. LOL!! I have lost 5 lbs since the Dr. told me to lose weight. Definitely going to try to eat healthier, but being on the go all the time........ Making the quick meals to go is sooooooooooo easy!!!!!!! But I am trying. I want to get back to 115 by Dec. So keep your fingers crossed for me!!! 
 

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