Messages By: frecia2

Normally a unemotional person,I found myself wiping tears several times during the show.I cannot imagine the pain-I have 2 daughters myself.As terrible as I feel for this family,I feel that the mom must have had some idea of the potential of the relationship.Is she the type of woman that "has to have a man"?She said herself that they split every few months over the 5 year relationship.When you chose to have children,I think you forsake everything else if necessary to protect them and  make them productive members of society-even if that means being lonely and/or unhappy until they turn 18.They did not chose to be here.God be with them all. 

I am very shocked at what I heard from this man about not wanting his child. I am pregnant, and I would be completly crushed if the father of my child, whether he was my husband, boyfriend, even just a guy friend didn't want to have anything to do with our child. I see his point about the equal rights, and he seemed like a nice man, but how could anyone evil or not, want nothing to do with something that is a part of them. A child is a wonderful gift to me.  

I can't say that I don't agree with this gentleman. For many years, women have purposely gotten pregnant  to make that "catch". Yes, the child suffers and its sad.  

If they had married for the sake of raising a child together and didnt get along, then end up divorced AFTER the child KNEW His/her dad... its better how? The child is still being raised without a dad. I have watched over the last 30 years many children strive through unhappy homes, broken homes and they all seemed to turn out ok......whats NOT ok..is women who DONT take their share of the responsibilty for the proper measures for SAFE sex....why is it always HIS FAULT?It takes TWO.. 

The laws have needed to be changed for years.....Recently Georgia put into effect starting in July....BOTH incomes matter in deciding child support amounts.....After seeing many men and second families do without while she remarries and has the child support to spend friviously....its a good change..Congress needs to make women as responsible as men......