Staying in a disfunctional relationship for the sake of the children is just plain wrong! It doesn't do the kids any favors. Why some women feel they have to use their children as bait....I will never know. It seems so desperate! Don't these women realize that if their man stays for the sake of the children, it will never work? He is there for the wrong reasons...and I can bet he won't stay too long.  
 
The same goes for women getting pregnant to keep their men around. Wrong Wrong Wrong!!! You are heading for disaster!  
 
Wake up ladies! Get some strength and self esteem! If you don't, you will end up with a baby or two and no father around to help raise them.