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February 7, 2006, 12:54 pm PST

Oh good GOD!

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On Sunday, Feb 5, 2006 my 14 year old niece left her home in Lincoln, NE to go for a walk around 9a.m.  She has not been seen since.  We have no leads on the case.  If there is anything that you can help me with in finding her.  Please contact me. 

Deanna Goble 

My heart goes out to you! That has to be the worst nightnmare. The not knowing alone would be enough to knock tghe parents for a loop. Is there anyting about her you can share? This seems to be a good place to put the word out because people from all over are here. I wish you lots of luck!!!!
 
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February 7, 2006, 1:15 pm PST

Why shouldn't she???

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I am a 37 year old who (like Amanda) fell in love with a GYPSY Blacktopper. We have been married for 17 years and have three wonderful children.  I am thankful that my parents supported me in my decision to marry who made me happy.  We met at age 15 and it was obvious that we were very much inlove and should be together. I think that Amandas family have prejudices against George because they do not actually know of the "GYPSY" culture. I can say that I have lived a very fufilled life as a mother and wife of a blacktopper. 

 You are very lucky that it worked out for you. It doesn't work far more often than it does. She could be walking into a situation that will make her home life look like a walk in the park. She NOT emotionally mature enough (proven by  her actions) to make any decisions that could affect the rest of her life. Did you not see how quickly those people were ready to give her over  when they knew they were in hot water??? Yup, A real nice bunch.   I'm glad it worked out for you. God knows this world doesn't need more pain. Its not right to encourage this kid to take that kind of chance.
 
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February 7, 2006, 1:22 pm PST

You do you parents proud!

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I'm a 17 year old girl and was  in  this position when I was only 15. I was dating a guy that verbally and physically abused me but I could not bring myself to admit it. I acted towards my parents in the same way Amanda is acting. I even began cutting myself. They forbid me to see him and I had to get psychiatric help. Eventually, I did realize that I was in a bad situation and needed to get out. I couldn't have realized that without my parents. I see nothing wrong with Amanda's parents trying to forbid her to talk/see him. I do think that Amanda should get some kind of psychiatric help. George is controlling her. It may not be intentionally, but he is. She has a lot of growing up to do. Amanda and George both seem very ignorant. And if George really loved her and could see how he's hurting her, he'd back away and let her get help.
 You are a sweetie and I think you should give your parents lots of hugs&kisses for standing tough when you needed it. I'll bet you'll do well with your life!
 
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February 7, 2006, 1:35 pm PST

Hello!

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HELLO, WE ARE TALKING ABOUT A SEVENTEEN YEAR OLD GIRL. NOT FAR FROM BEING AN ADULT. WHERE WOULD YOU BLAME THE MOTHER OF HER BOYFRIEND? SHE WASN'T FOUND WITH GEORGE OR HIS MOTHER. HOW DO YOU KNOW THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT INNOCENT PEOPLE?
   I guess it depends on which end of the scale you are looking. You see a 17 year old as almost grown up and I know for a fact that its not even close to being an adult.( I have a granddaughter that age).  AS I said before, its proven by her actions. Yes, I know she was with George and his Mom because Dr. Phil said so! Innocent people don't aid and abet a minor.
 
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February 7, 2006, 2:48 pm PST

touche'!!!

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We know that because

  • The front page of the local paper, where Amanda was staying with his family, had an article about the child being missing and suspected of being a run away! 
  • She is 'almost' 17, teen translation is she is most likely 16 and two months
  • After several MONTHS of being a runaway, she left for Florida!  Obviously George and his family knew Amanda wasn't  in contact with her family.
  • When the former FBI agent started looking the family started RUNNING

These people are not innocent.  Who tells another teens parent that the kids like it better at my house?  Come on, WHY?  Because they could have SEX at George's house, and not at Amanda's. 

  

I hope that the police and the FBI throw the book at George's entire family!   

Did you hear the differences in "George's ' interpretation of what was going on? This girl he 'loves' so much, in his words,  lied to his mother so, Amanda is to blame for the whole thing. Since WHEN does the  child in any situation take major part of responsibility?  It is the MOTHER"S responsibility to make SURE it was okay to take her away. THey couldn't wait to throw her under the bus. I hope this girl gets her eyes opened.
 
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February 8, 2006, 12:48 pm PST

Why the animosity?

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  I am what most people would call skinny, and I have come to the realization that whenever I come into contact with an over weight person I feel as though they have some animosity towards me.  I was just curious as to why that is because I am never disrespectful towards anyone (overweight or not).
 This is my take on it. I  think overweight people put up a defensive front to keep from being judged by people (as they see it) that just don't understand. I have been skinny and fat and I find my own attitude  stinks (concerning my own weight-I don't judge others). I don't think there's too many people who really do understand unless they've 'been there.'   My problem?? I am a certified Cokeaholic. Anything sweet, I'll drink  it!
 
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February 8, 2006, 12:57 pm PST

Hi Heather!

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I am not over weight by any means but I do know that for me I find that when I am upset or don't have much going on then I eat more. I have to keep myself busy or I find that I pasify my time with food. I'm assuming it's much like my husband has a drinking problem. I don't drink. So it is very hard for me to understand why it is an issue for him when I can do without it. He sya it makes him happy just the same as food can fill a void.
 I just love your picture! Pretty darn CUTE!!!
 
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February 8, 2006, 2:03 pm PST

My best to you, Paul

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Hi,  

  

My name is Paul and I am one of the people that profiled in this segment. 

  

I just thought I would post right away and say that I will be watching this thread as closely as I can and trying to answer questions and comments as best I can about the segment and my life for those of you that want to know. 

  

Please feel free to be as candid or as honest as you want in your questions and comments.   

  

Paul 

 I'm  really interested to hear how you have been doing since the taping of the show. Have you got the saboteurs to back off? It is a really complex reason why people sabotage someone's efforts to improve. I'm sure the people in your life really love you , but for whatever reason, are scared of seeing you change. I want to say that you will be an incredibly good looking young man  when you achieve your goal. I have to  be honest, that your weight as it is now is very frightening. That's not a judgement because I'm overweight as well, but you've reached critical mass. Pardon the bad pun. I'm gonna keep hoping for your wellness. TTFN!
 
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February 8, 2006, 3:44 pm PST

Rash-fitting!

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Well, we need to take responsibility for what we eat.  We eat out so much instead of cooking a healthy meal and exercise.  I gained a little weight but you have to be able to control the amount of calories that we eat.  If you see you have a problem, you need to get help and get off your lazy ass and do something for yourself instead of waiting for someone to save you.  People need to be accountable. 
   I understand your dislike for people who are overweight.. There is an element of frustration with trying to get through to fat people to get a grip. Been there/done that. That was, until the shoe was on the other foot. There are times when people (for medical reasons) cannot just 'get off their lazy ass' and boy, once that weight is on, it is hard to get off The older you get, the harder it gets.! I'm going to assume that you must be young because there's a certain callousness in people young and energetic who have good health. Whatever your reasons for it, I am a great believer that what goes around comes around and just hope that you aren't taught a lesson some day.
 
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February 8, 2006, 4:26 pm PST

You are SO right!

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                                                   Have you seen the price of Organic and healthy food in the supermarket?  Man, even the price of simple fruit has become ridiculously high...hopefully the nutritionist will teach them how to plan out a menu with regular healthy everyday food and show them to use portion control. But I definitely understand what you meant. I am from NY and it is alot cheaper for people on a fixed income to buy 99 cent bottles of sodas and big $2 bags of chips and cake than expensive organic foods, the prices of the diet or healthy foods in the markets where I live are ridiculous, they often prey on peoples desperation to better themselves.  Weight watchers has a great way of integrating regular everyday  food  into a "points" system, because who can live on boxed portion sized frozen meals? It teaches you how to use regular food and eat healthy within your point system. This is great and more realistic than having to buy tofu burgers and $6 pomegranate juice...but like all things it comes with a price tag that not everyone can afford which is a shame.
 When you think of the cost of obesity on health care you've got to wonder why those in control would't figure out a way to make good food far more accessible for those on low incomes. I bought a package of tomatoes yesterday that cost $7.00 for 4.! (Okay, I admit there were cheaper varieties, but I'm a tomato snob) Pomegranate juice here was $9.00. You'd almost wonder if they had passed through the golden goose! Organics? I have eaten a few but I think they are highly overpriced. I'd  go through serious withdrawal without coke (a cola) and other pop.  I'm quickly reaching that point where I have to give it up but all I ask for is JUST ONE MORE WEEK,LORD PLEASE!  (Okay , I admit it, I'm whipped.)
 

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