Messages By: dubbieloo

Watch out!!!!
Our sons future M-I-L and bride planned a wonderful party/wedding. Our son was not strong enough to say "NOT YET!!!" He let the plans move on, even though he wanted to wait 2 years.  Their marriage lasted 8 months but the problems actually started with first 6 months. She didn't even run to the honeymoon - they stayed around 2 days after the wedding to write thankyou's and get a car with air conditioning.
They had a wonderful expense "wedding party", everyone had a great time, it was so well arranged and planned out. Too bad they didn't take time to plan the marriage....

Sherri - if you are already giving him everything, sex, meals, household manager, financial cost sharing, your dreams, your future - duhhhhh - quit-  if all if he loves you, he may still be there in 6 months. When you are so busy planning and pretending to be married you don't even know each other. Sex gets in the way of knowing the person, it changes the focus of the unmarried relationship.

If you think saying "NO' is hard, wait until you say "YES".

Blessing to both of you - there is a life without each other.... keep looking....

I am pleased that Steven has survived and is sharing his recovery and message of hope. We had a close family friend die from kidney failure. Will look forward to the show.
A personal note: I have been in a fog regarding Cojo.... I will now be able to speak about him using terms like he/him/his, up until this time I have not been able to use gender specific words.

Thanks for the upcoming show - will look forward to it.