Messages By: twitchy

A 12 pack of miller a good trade for ecoli? 

Unfor this is very serious problem, through out USA and Canada. Two years ago, I allowed a roomie to move in. I had no clue the things I was about to expose my children to. Just like this woman, when she doesnt have the shakes you can not tell she has a drinking problem. The first day I realized I had just endangered my children. Closet drinkers are worse then the jack *ss in a bar.  

She as well would have sex with men for booze and smokes, pass out anywhere in the house. Constantly puking, and shaking. This is an Reg Nurse for cancer, mother of two, Did she believe she had a problem? Heck no, according to her she was in recovery, I guess if no one actually see's you take a drink, you can lie and say you dont drink. This woman also was raped, and blamed your mother for her whole life. It is actually very scarey how much their stories are alike. Unfor I was told a few months ago, that her drinking issues have finally ruined her livr, and she is now on the transplate list. 

I don't think there is anything wrong with a 45 year old man marrying a 17 year old woman.  Same thing for women being married to younger men.  It's a choice, a preference.  

A pedophile preys on people who do not want to be in a relationship.  

A pedophile takes advantage of a weaker smaller person, it has nothing to do with wanting to be in a relationship. No teenager knows what they want or need, that is apart of growing into an adult.  

This man took advantage of the chaos and lack of caring in her life. The mother of course is no better, defending her daugther when those smart boys told her it was time to go back to school. What mother in her right mind would actually use the excuse my daughter isnt in school because she wont graduate before 21.  

The only ones in the whole story actting like adults is those boys, its a shame the adults couldnt be as mature as them. As for this so called wedding happening in eight years, give me a break, does this man think we all fall out of the tree yesterday? Anyone who claims a wedding is going to happen in 8 years has no intentions of ever getting married. The only thing thats going to happen in 8 years is he is going to trade her in for a younger model. Maybe one of his grand childrens friends?  

Wow where to start, 

What province do you live in that this is perfectly legal (So I can call or goverment and request this be changed)? Where are your parents? Why didnt someone teach you birth control? 

You also need to sit down for a second and ask yourself some very serious questions, before you marry this man (use that term loosely in this case) and give birth to a child. 

First.. What is wrong with a 27 year old (24 year old if he wants to date a 14 year old), 17 year old. 

You are suppose to be on two totally different levels of maturity, yet he feels the need to date a child (btw 14 is a child)  instead of dating a woman his own age.  What is he missing in his character that he feels this is an ok action to do as an adult?  

If you give birth to a daugther, when shes 14 will you allow her to date a 24 year old also, and be pregant by 16?  

Isnt your first clue that you shouldnt get married, that you actually need your own parents consent just to do it? As an adult there is no need for parental consent to get married.  

Are your parents consenting to this marriage cause they believe children shouldnt be born out of wedlock, or are they trying to avoid the shame of explaining this to family or friends? 

Last question, how did a 24 year old met a 14 year old, how did your relationship start? 

Well I will give you one thing you are a well spoken girl, and have even thought a few things through, which is impressive.  

I wish you luck, and really hope at 25 you aren't wondering, what the heck have I done, like many young mothers "in love" do. 

How can you "think" you might be doing permit damage to your children? Let me be the first to tell you, the abuse you are doing to your children, will hunt them the rest of their lives. Not only are you hurting your older children, you are also hurting those little twins. Something in your life hurt you so badly you are taking it out on your children, please for the sake of your children, figure it out and learn to cope with it. Those children are innocent, and didnt do whatever it is that hurt you so badly, that you feel its ok to terrorize your children. 

In no way am I defending this woman, but this anger comes from something else, and she needs to figure out what it is. I am the oldest of a mother just like this one, at age 18 my mother had twins, during this pregancy, she was raped. Many years later and a lot of abuse later, she remembered this rape and got help for it. After medication and a lot of therapy my mother handles her anger in much different ways, she would never allow us to hit her grand children. While watching the video of these children, it was like being 8 years old again.  

I 100% understand how these children feel, the best thing Dr Phil could of said to these children, is that mom is sick, and it is not their fault. Now that my mother has gotten the help she needed, you would have no clue in my family, that we grew up in a war zone.  The love my mother now has for all her children is the same as any woman, that has never terrorized her children. 

Everyone keeps saying call child protective services, that is not what these children need. They need a healthy mother who is getting constant professional help. Child protective services, can be a worse place for a child to grow up in then the home of a mentally ill mother. Of course if this mother refuses the mental help she needs, then clearly the last resort is CPS.  

This mother is sick, if she was a bad person she would of never called Dr phil's show. She wouldnt of exposed herself to the national public in such a way if she enjoyed what it is she is doing. She is not evil, she is sick. 

I have been sitting, hitting refresh, wondering hasnt anyone considered what is best for the children? Clearly Dr Phil has, reason those children are still in the home, why would you send these children to CPS and have the seperated between foster familys, and group homes?  

Do you not think Dr Phil has people checking up on this family? Do you think he would seriously put those children in danger? Isnt Dr Phil the professional here? Do any of us have any real ideal what is best for these children? We only seen a part of the history of this family, there wasnt any grandparents on the show, aunts, uncles. I am sure Dr Phil did not send those children back into a war zone without some sort of support system. 

Thank god someone else has enough comman sense to realize all of what you just said! 

I am a hoster of a chat room, which is used for dating a lot. I am watching you woman all bash men online lying and using none up todate pictures... but this happens a lot with woman also. For example, a while ago Dr. Phil had a show on mothers with secerts, one was a woman who had an online affiar and her 16 year old busted her... Well this woman, was a owner on my hosting company, and the picture she used for 5 years was a 20 year old skinny blonde. It was quite the shock to see what she really looked like. If you are going to do online dating you need to be prepared that 90% of men and woman are lying all the time about many different things.. 

weight 

looks 

age 

children 

marriage 

job 

In my 8 years of hosting a chat room I have been invited to many marriages, of couples who met online, and now are raising familys together. If you do find the love of your life online, congrats!! 

I sort of met the love of my life online... We were set up on a date, but due to the fact that he is so shy, he didnt speak all night. Thank god I was smart enough to give him my msn username. The next day we chatted set up a second date, and a year 1/2 later we are still together actting like teenagers.  

I am confused... I know that CAS was called on this issue and claimed there was no abuse going on. Was a doctor exam done on this child, to see if there was any poof she was abused?

Let me say both these parents bug me, I have no clue if he really abused this child, and I dont understand why the mother is so busy fighting with this man instand of protecting her child (fighting with the abuser is not protecting your child).