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parenting questionnaire


This is a read-only copy of the parenting survey that was administered to viewers of DrPhil.com as well as audience members in the studio before the Dr. Phil show. A total of 20,031 volunteers participated in the study. Click here to view the Phase I results of the responses.

1. Are you or have you been a parent?
Yes
No
2. Your age:
16 - 20
21 - 25
26 - 30
31 - 35
36 - 40
41 - 45
46 - 50
51 - 55
56 - 60
61 +
3. Your gender:
Male
Female
4. Race:
Caucasian
African American
Hispanic
Asian
American Indian
Other
5. Residence address:
Northern U.S.
Southern U.S.
Western U.S.
Eastern U.S.
Central U.S.
Southeast U.S.
Northwest U.S.
Southwest U.S.
Northeast U.S.
Canada
6. How many children are you raising or have you raised?
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
More than 8
Please indicate their ages according to the their gender:
7. First girl
3-4
5-6
7-8
9-10
11-12
13-14
15-16
16-17
None of the above
Not applicable
8. Second girl
3-4
5-6
7-8
9-10
11-12
13-14
15-16
16-17
None of the above
Not applicable
9. First boy
3-4
5-6
7-8
9-10
11-12
13-14
15-16
16-17
None of the above
Not applicable
10. Second boy
3-4
5-6
7-8
9-10
11-12
13-14
15-16
16-17
None of the above
Not applicable
11. What is your role in the household?
Mother
Father
Stepmother
Stepfather
Aunt
Uncle
Grandparent
Sibling
Other
12. Do you:
Stay at home with the kids
Work away from home
Other
13. How would you describe your type of family structure?
Biological mother and father present with child(ren)
Biological parent and step-parent with available biological co-parent
Biological parent and step-parent with no available or little availability of co- biological parent
No biological parents available (i.e., adoption)
Single parent
14. Do you have children with any kind of learning or physical disabilities?
Mental retardation
Learning disabilities
Sight problems
Hearing difficulties
Motor difficulties (walking and handling)
Mental difficulties
Other
Not applicable
15. What was the first crisis you faced in child rearing?
Teaching eating habits
Potty training
Disobedience
Temper tantrums
Unwillingness to listen
A fearful child's response
Developing trust
Sleep habits
Rebellion
None of the above (See question 16 for more)
16. What was the first crisis you faced in child rearing? (continued from above)
Hiding activities
Bad influences, such as friends
Drugs/alcohol
Sexual promiscuity
None of the above
17. When it comes to discipline, which works best?
Corporal punishment, such as spankings
Sitting down with your child and discussing consequences
A system of rewards and punishments
Letting the child express his/her needs while you try to understand the behavior as a communication
Time-outs
Give up and hide
To what extent do you perceive these as problems with American families today?

Not a problem Serious problem
18. Loss of family values
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
19. Parents not spending enough time with their kids
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
20. Both parents working away from home
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
21. Increase in divorce rate
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
22. Lower academic school systems
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
23. No real heroes for children to follow
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
In describing an ideal parent, how important are the following?

Not important Important
24. Being permissive
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
25. High expectations
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
26. Selflessness
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
27. Giving
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
28. Sensitivity
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
29. Easygoing
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
30. Authoritative
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
31. Understanding
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
32. Democratic
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
33. Religious
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
In describing an ideal child, how important are the following traits?

Not important Important
34. Smart
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
35. Reliable
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
36. Cooperative
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
37. Religious
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
38. Selfless
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
39. Ambitious
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
40. Creative
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
41. Abides by rules
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
42. Respectful
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
43. Demanding
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
How would you rank yourself in the following parenting skills?

Poor Superior
44. Authoritative
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
45. Understanding
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
46. Permissive
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
47. Democratic
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
48. Easygoing
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
49. High expectations
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
50. Religious
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
51. Selfless
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
52. Giving
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
53. Sensitive
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
Describe how your child (or children collectively) fits the characteristics below.

Poor Superior
54. Smart
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
55. Reliable
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
56. Cooperative
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
57. Religious
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
58. Selfless
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
59. Ambitious
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
60. Creative
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
61. Abides by rules
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
62. Respectful
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
63. Demanding
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
To what extent do the following characteristics describe the way you were raised?
Your caregivers were:
 Not descriptive Descriptive
64. Too authoritative
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
65. Not understanding
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
66. Too permissive
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
67. High expectations
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
68. Too religious
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
69. Selfish
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
70. Psychologically unsound
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
71. Too rule-ridden
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
Do you find your parents responsible for any of the issues below that you may have experienced?
  N/A Parents not responsible Parents responsible
72. Anxiety
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
73. Depression
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
74. Obsessive tendencies
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
75. Dependency
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
76. Avoidance of people
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
77. Instability
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
78. Low self-confidence
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
79. Self-loathing
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
80. Drug/alcohol problems
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
To what extent do you perceive the following values as crucial?
  Unimportant Crucial
81. Respect
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
82. Manners
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
83. Work ethic
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
84. Compassion
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9
 10
85. Kindness
 1
 2
 3
 4
 5
 6
 7
 8
 9