If you’re considering adopting a child, you might be vulnerable to an adoption scam or other pitfalls of the process. Use the following tips from Kelly Kiser-Mostrom, author of The Cruelest Con, to help you avoid any roadblocks on your path to parenthood:

• As an adoptive parent, think with your head, not with your heart.
• Know the laws in your state because laws vary by state.
• Realize that there are no promises.
• Always verify information you receive about an expectant mom.
• Always get a proof of pregnancy and validate that proof.
• Beware of someone requiring money upfront, being pushy, wanting an answer right away, or threatening you will lose a match.
• If you’re working with a professional, do a background check on them.
• Save all documentation, every receipt, etc.
• Every expectant mother has the right to choose not to go forward with an adoption plan.
• Prospective adoptive parents must make sure their professional does thorough expectant mom screenings.