Chemistry Test

Circle "True" for all of the statements that express at least occasional problems on your part.

1. I am no longer physically attracted to my partner.	True	False
2. My partner makes me feel sexy.	True	False
3. My partner and I no longer kiss and caress.	True	False
4. Sex with my partner is energetic and satisfying.	True	False
5. My partner and I no longer flirt with each other.	True	False
6. My partner and I would rather be together alone than with other people.	True	False
7. I no longer look my partner in the eye when we are alone together.	True	False
8. If we don't have sex every few days, I really begin to miss it.	True	False
9. At various times I resent my partner.	True	False
10. I love to give my partner physical pleasure.	True	False

Scoring

Any odd-numbered item to which you answered True or even-numbered item to which you answered False scores against your relationship. If your score is higher than three, you obviously have problems with the intimate/sexual aspect of your relationship. Note the items that scored against your relationship so as to use them as objectives in later planning.