Donna says ever since she gained guardianship of her three grandchildren, the middle child, 14-year-old Emilie, has been out of control. She says Emilie smokes marijuana daily, skips school, lies, and has even stolen her great-grandmother, Nancy’s, car and caused $13,000 worth of damage! Donna says she can’t get Emilie to follow any of her rules, so she sent her to live with Nancy, her mother. Emilie and her older sister, Hannah, both say Emilie is not the problem. They say Emilie has been grounded for six years straight without any sight of leniency in the future. So, who’s to blame for Emilie’s rebellion, and why is she always breaking the rules?

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