She has since changed her thinking.
"When the show aired, sitting there watching myself, I was appalled, I saw someone who treated her husband horribly," Jessica says.
After the show, Jessica read what viewers posted on the message boards.
"I saw words like spoiled brat, unfit mother, and selfish," she says.
Nate has seen a change in Jessica. "She has realized what she looks like in everyone else's eyes," he says. "I think the biggest message she got was that she was really self-centered, but that's all changing now."
Jessica now views her life in a different way. "When Dr. Phil said you have to look on the inside, that was a huge eye opener for me," she says. "I definitely learned that things you buy are not going to bring happiness."
"Seeing myself on TV that way was a lightbulb, it was like, 'You have got to stop, you're being ridiculous.'"
"So you've done that and how does that feel?" Dr. Phil asks.
"I'm happier now, our marriage is stronger, we can communicate better," Jessica says.
Dr. Phil asks financial expert Elizabeth Warren what she thinks the couple should do with their extra income.