Love Smart Island: Million Dollar Question

Love Smart Island: Million Dollar Question

People always want to know how to show interest in someone without going too far and sending the wrong message.

 

"The first thing you have to do is decide you do want to send a signal," Dr. Phil says. "The absolute, number one most powerful tool is eye

contact, and the second most powerful tool is touch. The third most powerful tool is positioning."

 

He invites Colleen onstage to show her an example of touching and spacing. "There's a personal space that's like anywhere from 18 to 24 inches, and if you cross that personal space barrier and you make eye contact and you make a warmer touch, it sends a huge signal." The three bachelors agree. Dr. Phil explains another way is to show interest in somebody by asking questions. "Everybody likes to be the star," he says.