"I believe there are no accidents," says Dr. Phil. "If you're having a girl, and it seems like you are, that is not only the sex you're supposed to have, but that is the exact precise one that you're supposed to have. And what you need to do is decide to not question that, but focus on the fact that this is an amazing gift from God, and hope and pray the baby is healthy and robust and well. And I can promise you, from the absolute core of my soul, that the split second you see that little girl, you will know beyond all doubt that was exactly the little girl they were supposed to turn around and lay on your stomach."
"Well, I can tell you from personal experience — we have two boys and they're both the cutest, neatest, most wonderful kids in the world, so yours can't be because I've already got them," jokes Dr. Phil, who explains that she'll draw love for all her children from different accounts, so it's possible to love them all the same amount. "If I could push a button right this second, to change that girl into a boy, I wouldn't do it and neither should you. Don't question this. Just accept it," says Dr Phil.
Kate agrees she will.
"And you might as well do it now because you'll do it the split second they lay her on your stomach," advises Dr. Phil. "It will happen, trust me. And you will wonder so much how you ever sat around and said, 'I wish she were a boy.'"